We have had a lot o similar experiances as you Highlander over the 22 years we have been married.
We are in a period of normality at the moment though as we had a few problems with her last BF of 2 years.
Nothing sinister just a disagreement of what we wanted out of our strange three way relationship.
Anyway I'm pleased to say he has gone now, and things are good between me, and my wife again.
Won't be long before she is fucking others again, but we are a bit wiser now and will do things differently.
Ill probably start a new thread just like yours detailing what she gets upto as it happens, once we are back into this lifestyle again.
To try and remember, and write the details from all the events in the past woild be a major project, although some of you might remember the thread I started a while back with her ex BF that has since been deleted. I'm sure Okdeacon and Ensur would anyway