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Cuckold Marriage

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mrandmrsbusty

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we are looking to move into a cuckold marriage relationship, have you any advice on how to go about this ?
 
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It's all on her to just do it. Other wise not really a cuckold situation. You planing it out for her goes against the idea IMO.
 
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I think it started with us so. One Hubby cousin came visiting us. He had a bottle of Vodka,during the evening we were drinking it all three and somewhow in some part of the evening I started open wives dress and She just asked if I Am going to make striptease with Her. I said that I Am not thinking what I do but when I opened Her knapps back side it was not difficult to take that off of Her, Then I begin open bra and She just asked that what I Think that Hubby cousin would see her etc... i was very nice way to start, softly, I think
 
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mrandmrsbusty said:
we are looking to move into a cuckold marriage relationship, have you any advice on how to go about this ?
First thing I would advise is to make sure the rules and goals are clearly set. Do the men wear condoms, or prefer bare, or only bare after you know him pretty well? One bull exclusively, or many men? Assuming the wife is white, is the preference black men only? Will she make a commitment, like a queen of spades tattoo? Is this motel room only, or does he sleep in the marital bed (and husband sleeps on the couch)? If you talk about this and he gets a painful erection, try telling him no penetration, because he won't get that when the bull is over and see what he thinks of that. Don't sleep with co-workers, relatives, neighbors! The gossip will be really bad and you won't like it....just some ideas!
 
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mrandmrsbusty said:
We are looking to move into a cuckold marriage relationship, have you any advice on how to go about this ?
Hopefully you have established yourselves successfully in a "hotwife / cuckold husband" relationship by now, MrandMrsBusty (this being 11 Jan. 2020). If you are still looking for ideas, you might read:

The cuckold phenomena:
http://cuckoldcouple.wordpress.com/the-cuckold-phenomena/

and:

http://hotwifeletters.com/

(if you haven't already). The latter can easily be found by entering HotwifeLetters dot com Index Page in your preferred search engine.
 
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I'm just checking out some of these forums and I agree hopefully you have moved forward.
Discussion is the key

Is this for you or you and him; in other words what is his decision in this process

Is it strictly private or can you socially meet men publicly ? Motel or House etc ?

Personally I think most cuckolding involves black men as I can see you are white so you will have to address the bare or condom issue with your husband
 
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It is a discussion we have had together and a decision we have made mutually to pursue
 
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I will advice to have lots of communication and trust... it’s about giving pleasure to the other and enjoying your sexlife but without trust it doesn’t work!
 
For a fictionalized version of what an actual cuckold honeymoon can be like ... both the perils and excitement ... read "Honeymoon Cuckold." It is one of the "faces" on the Mt. Rushmore of cuckold fiction.
 
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Custer Laststand said:
Hopefully you have established yourselves successfully in a "hotwife / cuckold husband" relationship by now, MrandMrsBusty (this being 11 Jan. 2020). If you are still looking for ideas, you might read:

The cuckold phenomena:
http://cuckoldcouple.wordpress.com/the-cuckold-phenomena/

and:

http://hotwifeletters.com/

(if you haven't already). The latter can easily be found by entering HotwifeLetters dot com Index Page in your preferred search engine.
I would definitely read these since I am all into IR porn and want my girlfriend to cuck me one day when she start being horny again.
 
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lovesexfun said:
I would definitely read these since I am all into IR porn and want my girlfriend to cuck me one day when she starts being horny again.
What?! You mean your woman is not horny :cool: enough to cuckold you right this very moment :p ??!!
 
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What?! You mean your woman is not horny :cool: enough to cuckold you right this very moment :p ??!!
Yes man you read it right ...my women is occasionally horny compare to my horny level..on top of that she has lot of restrictions so I am waiting for that day when she is horny again .
 
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Yes man you read it right ...my women is occasionally horny compare to my horny level..on top of that she has lot of restrictions so I am waiting for that day when she is horny again .
Sorry to hear that. Hang in there....
 
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Sorry to hear that. Hang in there....
Yeah man ....hoping for the best
 
ll right, Your WOMAN, WIFE SHOULD be Very HORNY all the time, That would be so nice. I hope She have sex with some other, so She might begin to be HORNY more time
 
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It's all on her to just do it. Other wise not really a cuckold situation. You planing it out for her goes against the idea IMO.
You are correct, the authoritative dictionaries, as opposed to cultural lifestyle definitions, does define a cuckold as a man whose wife deceives him by having a sexual relationship with another man.

Merriam Webster dictionary: a man whose wife has sex with someone else : a man's whose wife commits adultery

Cambridge dictionary: a man whose wife deceives him by having a sexual relationship with another man
 
bobbyhotone2 said:
You are correct, the authoritative dictionaries, as opposed to cultural lifestyle definitions, does define a cuckold as a man whose wife deceives him by having a sexual relationship with another man.

Merriam Webster dictionary: a man whose wife has sex with someone else : a man's whose wife commits adultery

Cambridge dictionary: a man whose wife deceives him by having a sexual relationship with another man
Cuckold
As far as definitions, I'm not a lexicographer. I refer to:

  • Cambridge - a man whose wife deceives him by having a sexual relationship with another man
  • Oxford - The husband of an adulteress, often regarded as an object of derision, ultimately derived from Old French cucu ‘cuckoo’, from the cuckoo's habit of laying its egg in another bird's nest.
  • Collins - A cuckold is a man whose wife is having an affair with another man.
  • Urban Dictionary - A man who willingly encourages his wife to sleep with other people because it brings him pleasure. Cuckolds exist on a spectrum between two extremes. One on end is the masochistic cuckold who enjoys humiliations, degradation, and other demeaning activities at the hands of his wife and her lover. The alpha cuckold lies at the opposite end of the spectrum and does not enjoy any form of humiliation and often has a direct say in who his wife sleeps with and when.
  • Mirriam-webster - a man whose wife is unfaithful

Cambridge is the only one that references deception. But UD is the newest dictionary. Like facts, I am not entitiled to my own definition, only my own perspective.
 
Like wifes telling to me Hubby was in the beginning, ; I hope you accept and give ME permission to get new cocks in to My Pussy, because, I NEED THEM, and specially I LIKE them to be MARRIED like I Am too. I can say that it would be So Good that I have your permission, but if not I say now Still that ; I NEED new cocks So Much that in any Case I will get them even you do not promise them to Me. She had no name to that then, her needs just had changed new level, Needed new experiments, because it was Her body and She wanted that even we were married, to take care of Her own body and it´s needs. Our sex life was really good also those days, ok we were quite young when lifestyle begin. It was coming huge nice also with those things.
 
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Cuckold
As far as definitions, I'm not a lexicographer. I refer to:

  • Cambridge - a man whose wife deceives him by having a sexual relationship with another man
  • Oxford - The husband of an adulteress, often regarded as an object of derision, ultimately derived from Old French cucu ‘cuckoo’, from the cuckoo's habit of laying its egg in another bird's nest.
  • Collins - A cuckold is a man whose wife is having an affair with another man.
  • Urban Dictionary - A man who willingly encourages his wife to sleep with other people because it brings him pleasure. Cuckolds exist on a spectrum between two extremes. One on end is the masochistic cuckold who enjoys humiliations, degradation, and other demeaning activities at the hands of his wife and her lover. The alpha cuckold lies at the opposite end of the spectrum and does not enjoy any form of humiliation and often has a direct say in who his wife sleeps with and when.
  • Mirriam-webster - a man whose wife is unfaithful

Cambridge is the only one that references deception. But UD is the newest dictionary. Like facts, I am not entitiled to my own definition, only my own perspective.
An unfaithful wife is a wife who deceives her husband. Also an adulteress and a woman that is having an affair are also deceiving their husbands. The Mirriam-Webster, Oxford and the Cambridge dictionaries are authoritative dictionaries. The Urban dictionary is a lifestyle dictionary. The Urban in Urban Dictionary should give you a clue as to the objectivity of their definition. As you say, you are entitled to your perspective.
I think the term Stag is more accurate for a man that encourages his wife to be fucked by other men. But then what about a masochistic man that encourages his wife to be fucked by other men? What about men like me, my wife made me a cuckold by cheating on me but after about a year I changed to enjoy my wife being fucked by other men and started encouraging her to be fucked by other men? I was a cuckold by the authoritative dictionaries but am I still a cuckold even though I now encourage my wife to be fucked by other men? Personally I identify as a cuckold but I am not sure that I still am.
To me it does not matter that much but is just an interesting question. We can all think of ourselves however we like to think of ourselves.
 

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