First thing I would advise is to make sure the rules and goals are clearly set. Do the men wear condoms, or prefer bare, or only bare after you know him pretty well? One bull exclusively, or many men? Assuming the wife is white, is the preference black men only? Will she make a commitment, like a queen of spades tattoo? Is this motel room only, or does he sleep in the marital bed (and husband sleeps on the couch)? If you talk about this and he gets a painful erection, try telling him no penetration, because he won't get that when the bull is over and see what he thinks of that. Don't sleep with co-workers, relatives, neighbors! The gossip will be really bad and you won't like it....just some ideas!mrandmrsbusty said:we are looking to move into a cuckold marriage relationship, have you any advice on how to go about this ?
Hopefully you have established yourselves successfully in a "hotwife / cuckold husband" relationship by now, MrandMrsBusty (this being 11 Jan. 2020). If you are still looking for ideas, you might read:mrandmrsbusty said:We are looking to move into a cuckold marriage relationship, have you any advice on how to go about this ?
I would definitely read these since I am all into IR porn and want my girlfriend to cuck me one day when she start being horny again.Custer Laststand said:Hopefully you have established yourselves successfully in a "hotwife / cuckold husband" relationship by now, MrandMrsBusty (this being 11 Jan. 2020). If you are still looking for ideas, you might read:
The cuckold phenomena:
http://cuckoldcouple.wordpress.com/the-cuckold-phenomena/
and:
http://hotwifeletters.com/
(if you haven't already). The latter can easily be found by entering HotwifeLetters dot com Index Page in your preferred search engine.
What?! You mean your woman is not horny enough to cuckold you right this very moment ??!!lovesexfun said:I would definitely read these since I am all into IR porn and want my girlfriend to cuck me one day when she starts being horny again.
Yes man you read it right ...my women is occasionally horny compare to my horny level..on top of that she has lot of restrictions so I am waiting for that day when she is horny again .Custer Laststand said:What?! You mean your woman is not horny enough to cuckold you right this very moment ??!!
Sorry to hear that. Hang in there....lovesexfun said:Yes man you read it right ...my women is occasionally horny compare to my horny level..on top of that she has lot of restrictions so I am waiting for that day when she is horny again .
Yeah man ....hoping for the bestCuster Laststand said:Sorry to hear that. Hang in there....
You are correct, the authoritative dictionaries, as opposed to cultural lifestyle definitions, does define a cuckold as a man whose wife deceives him by having a sexual relationship with another man.LuvAsianSluts said:It's all on her to just do it. Other wise not really a cuckold situation. You planing it out for her goes against the idea IMO.
Cuckoldbobbyhotone2 said:You are correct, the authoritative dictionaries, as opposed to cultural lifestyle definitions, does define a cuckold as a man whose wife deceives him by having a sexual relationship with another man.
Merriam Webster dictionary: a man whose wife has sex with someone else : a man's whose wife commits adultery
Cambridge dictionary: a man whose wife deceives him by having a sexual relationship with another man
An unfaithful wife is a wife who deceives her husband. Also an adulteress and a woman that is having an affair are also deceiving their husbands. The Mirriam-Webster, Oxford and the Cambridge dictionaries are authoritative dictionaries. The Urban dictionary is a lifestyle dictionary. The Urban in Urban Dictionary should give you a clue as to the objectivity of their definition. As you say, you are entitled to your perspective.2wheel said:Cuckold
As far as definitions, I'm not a lexicographer. I refer to:
- Cambridge - a man whose wife deceives him by having a sexual relationship with another man
- Oxford - The husband of an adulteress, often regarded as an object of derision, ultimately derived from Old French cucu ‘cuckoo’, from the cuckoo's habit of laying its egg in another bird's nest.
- Collins - A cuckold is a man whose wife is having an affair with another man.
- Urban Dictionary - A man who willingly encourages his wife to sleep with other people because it brings him pleasure. Cuckolds exist on a spectrum between two extremes. One on end is the masochistic cuckold who enjoys humiliations, degradation, and other demeaning activities at the hands of his wife and her lover. The alpha cuckold lies at the opposite end of the spectrum and does not enjoy any form of humiliation and often has a direct say in who his wife sleeps with and when.
- Mirriam-webster - a man whose wife is unfaithful
Cambridge is the only one that references deception. But UD is the newest dictionary. Like facts, I am not entitiled to my own definition, only my own perspective.