Cuck = latent homosexual or bi?

[richardx00007]

Is it just me that finds all these guys wanting another man with a big cock to fuck their wife just wierd ? I am trying not to be judgemental but I just don't get it. if you really are straight why would the idea of licking a woman pussy after another man has cum in her be exciting ? Surely it's just a substitue for sucking the guy's cock in the first place ?

By the way before I get hate mail. I am a black guy who likes "interracial sex". I particularily like seeing my chocolate cock against pale skin. The constrast is really exciting.

 

[atomiccouple]

In fact, lots of the guys on here are closeted gays. This is not opinion, but the honest admissions of many of our gay lifestyle friends. In some cases, it's just a thing where hubby wants to see someone else with the wife; in other cases, it is exactly as you say it: closeted gay males in truth desiring a m2m with a black man.

 

[jayandkay]

Not all couples who are into cuckolding are homosexual, many are though and most of them dont admit it even to themselves. One guy, and I cant remember if it was here or not, stated that he was often fucked in the ass by bulls but it was not a homosexual act because he was wearing womens clothes and it was done for his wifes pleasure. Now figure that out for a homosexual in denial!

 

[BigNBlk4Her]

I wanna see my wife fucked by big black cock for one simple reason: i have a tiny dick. she's never had a big dick in her and i know she would love it. and since interracial porn is the only porn i wanna see (after years of porn watching ive seen that girls love to be sexed by big black dick more.) trust me the last thing i would wanna do is lick her pussy with another man's cum in her. i just wanna see her get fucked deep, i dont want no dick in my ass lol.

 

[wimp_cuck]

I think there is some basis for cucks being bi or on the edge of gay as well as the possibility of having somewhat strong female tendencies. Hard to explain but i have found myself very aroused in porn shops at the sight of other male cocks.

 

[homersimp52]

No Richard it isn't just you, guys like that are quite weird but also very rare. I've never met or heard of anyone who remotely fits the description, bearing in mind that's not the kind of thing you'd blab about all over town, which is just as well I should think.

 

[handigrl]

Disagree

Sometimes two people fall in love and find there is something in their relationship lacking. Maybe the wife just don't get satisfaction in bed and needs to find it elsewhere and the other half allows this to happen feeling it is not right to deny her satisfaction but not wanting to loose what he loves.
How many men watch pornos? Answer is most. Don't they show men screwing women? Does this mean that most men are gay? NO!
Most men are voyeurs at heart, and just cause some guy gets off watching his woman get satisfaction does not make him gay!
Different stokes for different folks (no pun intended/lol).
Labeling all cuckold men as gay means one is homophobic, and since most atricles and pics in this site deal with the subject of black and white sexing (man and women) I wonder if the author realizes by his attempt to lable everyone else he is labeling himself to have latent gay tendencies.
Lets put aside our judgements and biases and let it be what it is, just sexxing.
Ain't that the way it should be.

 

[richardx00007]

Handigrl. The first sentence of my post is badly worded. Now that I read it I can see that it does not make a distinction between voyeurs and cucks. However, I did not label ALL cuckold men as gay. I asked a question - albeit a provocative one. What is the point of a forum like this if not to try understand issues like this?

I have no problem with someone being gay. It's the apparent denial I am questioning. I have had a number of offers from couples (including very recently) where it turns out that the "straight" cuckold wants to do more than watch or help pleasure his wife!

BigNBlk4Her - would you call yourself a Cuck or a Voyeur ?

 

[robtandhiswife]

Although valid, What simplistic questions like this fail to uncover is the range of human sexuality. People do not generally fit in perfect boxes, despite the fact that it would make it easier for us, if they did.

I do think that men with cuckold leanings, desires or those of us who have acted on this in general have a higher degree of bisexuality in them then your average joe. Having said that though, there are very few so called heterosexual men or women that have never had a curiosity, passing thought or desire for someone of the same gender at some point in their life. This goes back to research done in the 1940s even, a time when it was much more taboo to mention these things.

Gay or closet homosexual cuckolds I'm not really sure is that common. You can't easily be gay and spend a significant amount of your life dating women and/or married to one. It does happen by those wishing to act out a hetero life, but you certainly don't meet a lot of these people Gay people have not great attraction in a sexual way to those of the opposite gender.

Which leaves us with bisexuality. For me being a cuckold does afford me some attraction and contact with the man that is fucking my wife. I do suck his cock and nobody forces me to do that. I lick his balls as he fucks my wife. Quite the contrary the willingness of a guy to at least tollerate this if not enjoy is essential in anyone that we screen as a potential partner.

However I have zero interest in having that man reciprocate and give me oral sex etc. He needs to show his affection to my wife. Also white guys in general are not attractive to me. Go figure. I have talked to a lot of men with in the same boat here and on other sites. I love women and am very attracted to my wife. So there you have it an opinion of a cuckold for over seven years.

 

[Shadowmuffin]

Oh man. I hope I'm not stepping out of line here. What is the difference between people dressing up as babies or clowns and getting frisky? I think it's just a fetish and thats that. How many posts have to be started on this same damn question? It needs to be a sticky or something that plainley reads "Thes are the fetishes that are shared with 99% of the people of this site. If you have any problems with this, please go back to your scat site". Speaking of which, I went to a "doodie" site once, and to my surprise.... NO ONE said anyone there was sick or depraved... huh.... Someone clearly posted to someones (same) question as this being a turn on, I know it is for me to think about my wife with someone else too, it's just a turn on for me. I don't go to people car sites and tell them thier lame cause they devote a site just about cars and what they would like to do with them. Once again, sorry. But thank you for letting me rant. I'd like to thank the sauce for my inspiration!

 

[Pooch]

Not Every Cuck is a Homo

Just like everything on this forum, Cuckolding can be a preference and has a multitude of degrees. By definition a man allowing his woman to take another whether willingly or not. A man finding his woman has cheated on him may accept it in order to not lose her or divorce. He is a cuck. Many guys have the 'white boi' fantasy as i refer to it of wanting to see there woman fucked by black. Some only want to watch. They are cucks. Others want more, or they have to accept more including eating cum to make that happen. They are cucks, but not necessarily gay. Then there are those who desire to suck black cock, and those who are truly sissy's who need to be feminized. They are obviously gay or bi. that is also by definition. I wouldnt say weird, to each his own.