Do I measure up? Not really sure, but would say NO.
I always considered myself small, especially since I watched porn. Then we went to a sex club. After looking at dozens of normal guys, guess what, I was average.
What is average, back then I was about 6", about 20 years ago. Now through lack of use I have atrophied to about 4 1/2". 5" on rare occasions.
Wife always said I was enough. At times she would say, "wow you're so big today". I think it was total bull to help stroke my ego. So what did she compare me to. Girls with little experience have no real point of comparison, do they? But then there are those who do, mine had sex with about 500 guys in her earlier years, so she does have a great amount of comparison points.
She absolutely refuses to talk about any details of her past. I/we are missing out on all those wonderful experiences she can relive and we can enjoy 'together'.
She's not a size queen, she says long dicks hurt and she loves fat dicks. We've never been able to successfully doggy, I'm just not long enough.
She needs a man sized dick, something that can satisfy her. She deserves to be satisfied, something I can no longer do. She refuses to have another man. She did agree to a 3-some, we looked at 600+ photos on several sites. She rejected each and every one. Too big, too small, too fat, too thin.