Cock size: is it, or isn't it, a matter of concern (or even interest) to women....?
My wife scoffs at the idea that women are concerned, even in the slightest, with the sizes of men's cocks. Whenever I allude even indirectly to this subject, she dismissively asserts cock size is entirely a male preoccupation. She has never heard any woman (she claims) say anything at all, either favorable or unfavorable, about the size of her husband's or a lover's cock.
I suppose I should consider this to my advantage, since my own cock is 5.5 inches long by 5.0 inches in circumference — i.e., about average. (These numbers are as measured by my wife. If I push the ruler in against my pubic bone, however, the apparent length of my cock increases to 6.0 inches. This illustrates a well-known phenomenon: surveys in which men measure their own cocks "show" their cocks to be systematically larger than surveys in which men's cocks are measured by laboratory technicians.)
I should mention that my wife actually is knowledgeable about the variability of men's cocks. For a number of years she was a public health nurse; as such, she sometimes dealt with inspecting and testing men who came to our local health center because they thought they might have a sexually-transmitted disease (STD). (The nurses rotated this task; the one who had this duty each week was known as "The STD Queen.")
One day my wife came home and commented that a tall, lean black man had come in who had by far the longest and largest cock she'd ever seen. It had obviously made a big impression on her. *Many* years later (recently), I reminded her of this for some reason or other. She said yes, she remembered, and enlarged on it saying that when she was out jogging not long afterwards, she saw the same man not far down the street from our home. I.e., he lived in our neighborhood! So I asked her, of course, if she had continued jogging toward him and said hello. She said no; she had turned around and jogged the other direction. That seemed like a "large opportunity" (so to speak) lost, so I said, What?! Why did you do that?! She explained she thought it would be awkward to meet a man she had seen "professionally" as the STD Queen.
Sigh.... (I thought to myself). We no longer live in that neighborhood and he has probably long since moved on also, so that opportunity — if it ever was an opportunity — is lost forever.
I suspect my wife's dismissive attitude toward cock size may be a result of lack of experience. Meaning, "seeing" is not the same as "experiencing." She has said she had only one other lover prior to meeting me, and I think that's probably the truth. (I'm acquainted with him and have met and talked with him on rare occasions over the years.... he lives and works in a distant state. I rather like the guy.) When I asked her about the size of his cock a while back, she said it was about the same as mine. That struck me as plausible, since most men have cocks that are about average-size, by definition.
My wife seems remarkably uncurious about such things. I have been unable to interest her, even in the slightest, in using even a modest-size vibrating dildo when we're having sex, and she absolutely refuses to consider using a dildo larger than my own cock. She insists the *only* thing she wants in her vagina is my cock. It's frustrating, ta' tell ya' da' truth.
