Cheating vs. Cuck

[thumper]

She's with him right now.....

Wow... She's with him right now...
She's been flirting with him through email all day.... then came up with a reason to have to leave...
I'm just so torn.... things have been great for us... if I didn't know better (that she was seeing another man), I would have no clue as to what is going on... I can't reveal that I know, because then I believe they would do it anyway, and I wouldn't have the info that I get.

I'm going crazy with lust for her, and crazy because she has been so good at lying to me.... that REALLy surprises me.
We'll just see if I get some great sex tonight...
Any recommendations of what I should mention to her if I get a chance to F*** her tonight? What do you think bout saying.... "HHHmmmm.... you smell different tonight..."

any suggestions?

 

[thumper]

She just called....

Yep... She just called...
Still with her "client". She said not to wait dinner for her, she'd be another hour.... I'll let you know what happens tonight! I know what panties she's wearing.. I wonder if they'll be the same ones when she comes home.

 

[jojo4017]

Cheated

If she cheated but still loved me and she admitted it I feel I would be turned on that she was sexy enough and horny enough to have went out and done it. I would want to hear all the details though and would want her to have fun telling me about it, and rub it in..

 

[jojo4017]

I would say that if she loves you and and you dig her doing it don't worry. If she did admit it to you would you want to hear all the little details?

 

[kingbull]

All cheating is cuckolding. Not all cuckolding is cheating. It's a bad thing when people think they are totally unrelated, e.g. "That's not cuckolding, it's CHEATING!"

Um... cheating IS cuckolding, no matter how you splice it. If she cheated on you, you're a cuckold (I'm talking generally, not at anyone in particular). However, if she slept with another guy with your consent, that is consensual cuckolding and not cheating.

Sounds like you are enjoying yourself. Keep it up.

 

[mywife/herlover]

Its great shes cuckolding you,but it would be even better if she told you all the details.

 

[mrstaz]

"By definition, a cuckold is a married man whose wife cheats on him behind his back. A cuckold fetishist, on the other hand, not only knows about his wife's dalliances, but often enjoys the humiliation of being ****** to watch." says Tristan Taormino, columnist, pornographer, and author.[3] In this subculture the female is sexually dominant and she takes on additional partners, while the male takes on a submissive role where he is monogamous to her, or only becoming involved sexually when it is felt to be emotionally supportive of her and her lover, or remaining altogether celibate.

I think guys make up their own rules as they go. MONOPOLY

 

[Saraha]

But the wedding vows say, "for better or for worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health". So adultery (a betrayal) is not really an adequate excuse for divorce, but more of a chance to "get talking" in a honest manner to find out how both spouses can get their needs met in the future if they stay together.

You can drag the angry emotional hurts of a divorce, or you can FORGIVE and make the marriage stronger, even if it means lovers are included in the "new marriage deal" you sign off on.

 

[Saraha]

The original meaning was a wife committed adultery with the approval of all the villagers, because he was a hero on the battlefield of war, but a disaster in the bedroom. And the cuckold was mocked with the Horns, because his wife had no choice but to take lovers to get the quality and quantity of sex a marriage should provide.

In early times, if a husband had low sperm count, his brothers would get his wife pregnant to avoid her feeling she should get a divorce and marry into another family capable of giving her sufficient sexual enjoyment. This could be where "brotherly love" came in.

 

[Mr Small Mushroom]

are you serious????

But the wedding vows say, "for better or for worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health". So adultery (a betrayal) is not really an adequate excuse for divorce, but more of a chance to "get talking" in a honest manner to find out how both spouses can get their needs met in the future if they stay together.

You can drag the angry emotional hurts of a divorce, or you can FORGIVE and make the marriage stronger, even if it means lovers are included in the "new marriage deal" you sign off on.

adultery is the cause of many divorces and you may not think its adequate grounds for divorce but MOST people do. however i agree that it may make few couples stronger if they get through this but for myself if i was cheated on then the bitch would be out the door and replaced with something younger and more attractive ! but hey peace and whatever works for you.

 

[Saraha]

I haven't met many people who can honestly say that divorce fixed up the problem, rather a huge loss of friends and ten or more years of their life being turned upside down with not much light at the end of the tunnel. The kids are scarred for life from trying to not take sides with mum or dad. It takes a special man to say, "let's try again and make our marriage even better from this day on" - actually it comes under the Commandment, "forgive those that tresspass against us".

 

[Saraha]

I read the other day of a woman who started to take testosterone to "become more like a man" and it wasn't long before she found herself thinking about sex all the time as the testosterone built up in her bloodstream. She said she now understood why men think about sex so much.

She then decided to stop taking it for awhile and her horniness dropped off, so she took full testosterone doses to "get back the horniness" she had lost.