1 and 2 should never apply to a husband who discovers his wife crave extra loving - marriage is for better or for worse.
A wife has the birthright to re-neogiate the wedding vows if her "happy ever after dreams" no longer match her husband's libido and interest in her body.
Wannabe cuckolds should put their attention to numbers 3 and 4 so that wifey no longer feels neglected by men.
It is a husband's implicit responsibility to guarantee his wife an adequate sexual expression when he puts a wedding ring on her finger. If her Prince lets her down, he needs to bring in a professional "remedy" to fix things up. Bit like getting a mechanic to fix your car. A wife needs "fixing" if she is to feel life is still worthwhile.
A macho man suffers from EGO, and he will feel humiliated if his wife tells him that he has DEFICITS in his sexual performance. A cuckold apologises to his wife and immediately agrees to the solution she suggests, because he loves her.
A neglected wife commits adultery behind her macho husband's back, because he refuses her basic needs. He gets very angry if he finds out she is dropping her panties to her ankles around town. He rushes for a Divorce, rather than re-negotiate the wedding vows - his pride is damaged. GO BACK TO YOUR MOTHER YOU FUCKING SLUT.
THEN HE HAS TO DIVIDE THE ASSETS AND TAKE CARE OF CHILD SUPPORT PAYMENTS. THAT MAKES HIM EVEN MORE PISSED OFF, IF THE FAMILY HOME HAS TO BE SOLD.
Wouldn't it be so much easier if couples had an understanding from day one, to talk about all things sexual, and promise that each can have a full sexual expression even if it means calling in helpers at some point in the marriage?
Even macho husbands lust for porn on the internet, and imagine what it would be like to fuck the office girl who wears short dresses and plunging neckline. So he fucks countless women each day - by using his imagination instead of his cock.
In the Bible it says that imagination is the same as doing the deed. Every day macho husband commits adultery with lots of women he meets - he imagines her clothes disintegrate as she walks down the street, and suddenly every person on the street notices her nakedness. His cock tents his pants, and he wonders whether a bit of flirting would hurt, or maybe he can seduce her fully, so she becomes his secret slut and her rich hubby never finds out.