Over the years my attitude and views towards sex changed. I think I have finally reached the point of enlightenment, sex is sex nothing more, whatever the sexual combination or orientation. MF, MM, FF, MFM, FMF.
My wife has had over 300 partners, before I met her. No matter what effort I put in I she will NOT add a new one to her resume. Several years ago in a moment of my journey I decided to try a man. I am not attracted to men, I don't get turned on by seeing a handsome man as I do a beautiful women. I don't fantasize about men but I do fantasize about woman and certainly men in combination with women.
It was an interesting and enjoyable experience. So far I have stayed away from penetration. Oddly also kissing, somehow there is something quite different between a soft female kiss and firm male kiss. Does nothing for me.
On my first encounter I didn't know what to expect, so I brought condoms, lube and a lot of nervousness. I was surprised to be turned on by the sight of not him but his dick. we stripped and without a second thought, I told him to lay on the bed, I lube my hands and went to work. As soon as he was hard I went down on him, for the fist time having a cock in my mouth. It was amazing, I didn't know what to expect, soft but firm, firm but soft. I sucked and rubbed. He alternated his hands from my head to gripping the bedding. He grunted and knew it was time. My mouth began to fill with his cum, hot salty/sour, I started to gag but overcame it and swallowed every last drop. There wasn't any pow of him shooting his load as I expected, just the slow filling of my mouth. I continued to suck him until he had me stop. I had forgotten how sensitive my cock gets after orgasm.
I positioned myself over him and jerked off on his chest.
I got a warm washcloth and cleaned us both, we lay in bed for a few moments with small talk, got up dressed and left.
It was an amazing experience. I repeated it several times. Each as good as the time before. I have a great desire to include my wife in this activity, but I can't just blurt it out. The best would be a MFM where I am as involved with the other man as is she. We could suck him together, I could lick his cock as it slides in and out of her pussy. My mind reels with the possible combinations.
What really hit me was when I was doing an on-line survey recently and It asked sexual orientation. It gave me pause, and I found myself answering 'bi-sexual'.