Angela said:.... is more open among the younger people, especially in the high school and nearby community college. The things I have seen or heard about !!!LOL
Rhino said:How much older r u talking about? With teenagers u might have a 3 or 4 year age difference.
Friends who grew up in poor neighborhoods tell me that adults ...men and women.... in there 30s sleep with teenagers all the time. It does not matter white black or latino. People in bad neighborhoods do not do a lousy job of guarding there kids virtue or teaching people that kids r off limits for sex.
Will & Eve said:You must live over in the Delta. My county is actually about 16% but as you go West it increases (Tunica Co is about 70% for instance)
I taught middle school for a year in a school where blacks were 3/4 of the student population, so I know what that looks like socially.
stac4all said:My best friend is a teacher and she tells me the same thing happens frequently! They don't have to in the same class, She once told me of a 18 year old SR. that was doing a little 13 yr.old and she was so innocent no one ever suspected anything until they were caught. It happens more than we think, I am sure.
btmbabipoi said:Getting caught is probably what the young studs want. It marks their territory. It says "This chick is mine. I can get her (and anyone else I want) anytime and any place." I remember these guys. There were two in my school. They had the attitude in front of the other boys. All the girls were so giddy and happy around them and bitchy around us whiteboys...:drool:
robroy66 said:You are so right. That is basicly what happened to my own daughter. It's almost like they wanted to be caught with her.
balwar said:I'd say once a girl or boy is sexually aware and understands their actions then it should be okay if it is what they truly want. There should be no coercion. That said, probably 14 is when most young adults can handle sex. My fear is that they don't understand the emotional baggage that comes with it