I have done both and dozens of other permitations which i like,
She has never liked quickies so her plays span many hours,
Watched,
Listened,
Polished my car knowing in the bedroom she was being fucked and i could go watch when i wanted,
Taken her to hotels dropped her off with her lover,
Visited hotels where she went to from work, enjoyed a nice meal with them, whated a bit then left her with him
Taken her to a lovers house when his wife was away, later watching bits via skype
Watched them in our marital bed, hundreds of times became stale for me.
Arranged for him to come as above he and she knowing i was off to work nights, thats very kinky,
Tied her to a tree in a public wood and watched a man approach her fondle her and cum down her jeans, then i untied her, she liked this too.
I like packing her off to meet a lover alone, naughty women another regular event
Went to her parents BBQ she didnt, she was being tied up and fucked by her lover, she was covered in hot wax when i returned hours later,
The most memorable:
Arranged to met her with her lover one evening at the pub next to the hotel for a meal, the bar was full of men watching Rugby or Football, then in she came, tight dress, suspenders and tall boots making her 6ft 3, wearing a heavy metal collar being led by her master on a metal chain, i nearly died seeing this one.
The noise in the pub stopped and i actually hoped they would sit anywhere but at my table.
Normally she doesnt give me full details as we both know what she went for and recieved my only question has been did she enjoy herself?.