I used to try and find guys online that I thought my wife would like, then put her in touch with them.
We both always planned for me to be present when she played with anyone.
She had a bull for a few months back at the beginning (two years ago) and I watched them together all but one time when I was still asleep from the previous night and another time when she went over to his house without me.
After him we couldn't find anyone. She took over the searching on her own, but still couldn't find the right guy online.
Then, out of the blue late last year, she started talking to a guy again that she had a crush on when she was much younger. They had hardly spoken in years.
She eventually mentioned that she was available due to hotwifing and asked if he was interested.
He said he was up for it, but that I can't watch.
It's looking like they should hook up in the next few weeks.
So now I have to get used to the idea of not getting to watch and just hope they make some decent video for me.