Anyone had of know of others that have had experiences like this?

[nmsfuncpl]

Query.....Has anyone had their personal, social or business life damaged/compromised by their alternative sexual lifestyle. Particularly, white couples/females into interacial sex with black males and traditionally taboo types of sex.
Just wondering, as I have known/been involved with several mwc's and 1 swf over the years that have had some terrible experiences. A few were quite damaging to them leading to dropping out of the lifestyle and even moving away.
Anyone that has went through this or has personal knowledge of others that have, and interested in discussing/sharing same, please get in touch. (Please, "real", "true" experiences ONLY. Not interested in fictional stories or using anything for profit.) Just a personal interest in seeing if anyone else has had/known of similar experience. How they happened and the short/long term effects.
PS...I am a 50yo Dom/straight/married male. Have been in the lifestyle for over 30 years with various women partners, ex-wife as well as my current sub/slutslave wife. Involved with many similar couples and had 3-4 longterm relationships with couples into multiple male forms of sexual fun.
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[rhino]

What kind of experiences did these people go thru? We don't need names or locations just general details. We can always use pointers on how not to fuck up. I dont want to get smacked upside the head the way DaBlackBuzz did.

 

[robtandhiswife]

It just seems to me that there are very very few professional positions in this day and age in which you need to worry about any of that. I think people sometimes believe their station in the community is a lot more depedent on what the perceptions of them are around their lives in general.

Instead the perceptions are much more dependent on their performance is and what kind of riches they have massed. To be certain there are positions in places like public service, clergy, military and others where this is the case. But I think it does not apply in the other 80% of the world.

Do I really care what a coworker does with his wife behind closed doors or what my banker does with her husband? Nope. There are now plenty of mixed families, divorces etc to go around.

 

[pimpology101]

If you play with loaded guns be prepared to duck and dodge. Not saying it's fair, cool or whatever, just saying that's how it is.

 

[ThinkingAbout It]

I, too, would like to know what happened to the people you mentioned.

Being incredibly new to this, I have no frame of reference although we've went to great lengths to remain as invisible as possible.

For that matter, what happened to DaBlackBuzz?

 

[Rideherhard]

DISCRETION is the better part of valor, or something like that. I have been in a few IR relationships. I am agree with ROBANDHISWIFE about not caring what a co-worker does on their private time. If you meet a NUT then that can become problematic. Dump the NUTCASE quick and move on.

 

[WifeShafter11x7]

You talking about if the wife gets attached or their marriage falls apart cause of the outside relationship/sex? that's happenedw ith me before but the rules were sset from the start as being a casual deal but nonetheless it happened.