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Any other “straight” husbands turned bi after years of marriage?

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My experience was similar to a few others, apparently...

I had been curious since a relatively young age, and even developed fantasies as I sexually matured.
I would look at other guy's cocks in magazines of the day, and then the internet became a thing, and pretty much anything I wanted to see was available.
But I never had an overwhelming desire, and never tried to seek it. I just figured if a situation ever came about that created the opportunity to try, it could happen.


Fast forward to around 45 years old, and a crazy story begins.
I was having an affair with a married woman, but we lived far apart. So we couldn't get together often, but we would spend a weekend together when we did.
After meeting a couple of times, she told me her husband was aware of this, and not only approved, but expressed a desire to join us.
I thought he was a "typical" cuckold husband that liked to watch his wife fuck other men, didn't see a problem if she didn't, so I readily agreed.
It began by him watching us as we would have cyber sex on camera, then him sharing in our conversation, then joining her on camera.

During one of these times, he asked if I had ever been with a man, what did I think about it, and so forth.
After I had answered, he finally asked what I thought about having sex with him. I was definitely interested, and could see an opportunity beginning to take shape. I explained I was a 'virgin' to bi/gay sex, but had always wanted to experience it, and was extremely curious about everything.
So we began to chat privately and watch each other on cam, and there were a few times it got nasty.

Several weeks later, they drove to my area and spent the better part of a week 'vacationing'. I would go meet them in their room in the mornings, and we would spend the day sucking and screwing in various combinations. He and I had a LOT of sex, but it was almost all oral and manual stimulation. He wanted me to fuck him, and I did penetrate his ass, but he was crying out it was too big and take it out.

Looking back, I think it was a total set-up, and he manipulated me, his wife, and circumstances to make this happen as he wanted.
But, the entire point of this novel, is one never knows when that first time will happen. Some guys may have been having man on man sex since teen years or earlier, other since their 30's. I was 45. I believe I read one guy said he was 60 before his first time.
So never give up hope!
 
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Orally I started soon after we began swinging, which was I guess our mid 30s. I had to learn to accept being bitch after our boyfriend started.stayimg with us regularly, about 5 years later.
I never thought I would be 'bi' and really don't think that now, but honestly sex now is mostly orally or bitch.
 
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samanthaNwilli said:
Orally I started soon after we began swinging, which was I guess our mid 30s. I had to learn to accept being bitch after our boyfriend started.stayimg with us regularly, about 5 years later.
I never thought I would be 'bi' and really don't think that now, but honestly sex now is mostly orally or bitch.
Nothing wrong with being the bitch,i like that too but also like to top and please a man
 
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Niceguytoo said:
I was a straight husband with two kids but anterior I hit middle age I started thinking about bi sex. That turned into bi and gay porn which enticed me to try sucking dick just to see what it was like!
After I sucked my first cock I said I would never do it again but my second dick was easier to justify! Turned out I like being a cock sucker and continued to do it!
Any other married guy experience this too?
Similar - been sucking cock for around 20 years and had the pleasure of thousands
 
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sort of a strange journey for me.

a few years back i discovered that my NJ churchwife is cheating behind my back. she has fucked 2 guys from our local parish, including a priest. although i was hurt and angry, i was also so turned on A LOT by this.

i started to watch cuckold porn and got hooked, and this all made me very bi-curious. i then started sharing wife pics and vids with guys on-line. when i found out how arousing it was to show my naked wife to another guy, i got further hooked and further bi-curious.

i explored my curiosity a bit with a friend who has moved away. we showed each other intimate pix and vids of each other’s wives while we masturbated and sniffed their worn panties. we did not touch each other ... although i really wanted to.

i would very much like to take he next steps in exploring my curiosity.
 
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That is the same for me. I love cock and I love pussy
 
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samanthaNwilli said:
Orally I started soon after we began swinging, which was I guess our mid 30s. I had to learn to accept being bitch after our boyfriend started.stayimg with us regularly, about 5 years later.
I never thought I would be 'bi' and really don't think that now, but honestly sex now is mostly orally or bitch.
This made me think of how important the bull or lover is in these situations.
I think it's natural that they would have to be an Alpha male and you have to be willing to submit completely to him, but there are different extremes.
In any case, they have to have the personality to dominate the husband as he does the wife, but not necessarily be overbearing about it.

My GF had a fuck buddy who liked to 'manhandle' her when they were fucking. Forcefully putting her in different positions, making demands, holding her by the head or hair, etc.
We had fantasies of a 3-way with him, and she tried to set one up after a school reunion. I didn't know, but she had also set me up to get fucked by him during this. Unfortunately, plans fell apart and it didn't happen.

The point is, though, even though I wanted to get fucked by him, I wouldn't go for being manhandled or roughed up. He could've 'ordered' me to suck his cock, bend over, spread my legs, whatever, and I would comply without complaint, but he couldn't call me a bitch, queer, fag, or shit like that.

I realize different folks have different strokes, but this is what works for me.
 
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Nazareth said:
The point is, though, even though I wanted to get fucked by him, I wouldn't go for being manhandled or roughed up. He could've 'ordered' me to suck his cock, bend over, spread my legs, whatever, and I would comply without complaint, but he couldn't call me a bitch, queer, fag, or shit like that.

I realize different folks have different strokes, but this is what works for me.
When he stays with us, when he drives in, as soon as he gets out of his car he expects me to get it out for him and suck so that he is hard.
As far as sex, he isn't 'rough,' but he does do it forcefully and he always likes to deep stroke.
He makes me ask him to make me bitch.
 
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Niceguytoo said:
I was a straight husband with two kids but anterior I hit middle age I started thinking about bi sex. That turned into bi and gay porn which enticed me to try sucking dick just to see what it was like!
After I sucked my first cock I said I would never do it again but my second dick was easier to justify! Turned out I like being a cock sucker and continued to do it!
Any other married guy experience this too?
Welcome aboard I'm 100% gay now
 
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Still prefer sex with a woman but have to admit m2m play is great.
 
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wasnt until wife was shared that i began thinking more and more of sucking another mans cock...and eating a creampie from my wifes pussy afterwards....so i suppose it was a natural progression of things...me sucking her dom/bulls cock....and ultimately...becoming a sissified cuckold
 
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I haven't shared my wife but would love to watch her with another man and then clean them both up, much to the shocking realization for my wife that I enjoy sucking cocks! :)
 
Hawkdoctor said:
I haven't shared my wife but would love to watch her with another man and then clean them both up, much to the shocking realization for my wife that I enjoy sucking cocks! :)
I am the same but my wife wouldn't be shocked,she thought i was gay just because i liked her to finger me.
 
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srx said:
I am the same but my wife wouldn't be shocked,she thought i was gay just because i liked her to finger me.
My wife has balked at anything anal but lately she likes when I’m playing with and near her ass. Never too late. lol
 
I guess I always been bisexual, altho never acted on it till I was 34yo in 2001 during my 1st divorce, I went to a adult theater/book store in Chattanooga tn area , to watch some vids maybe jack off, I wasn't sure what to expect there, I watched a few men playing with themselves and each other. some sucking dick and one guy getting fucked, which was what interested me the most , I stayed maybe a hour or two , then went home processing what I had saw, After thinking on it a few days I know that's what I wanted to try , I had a dildo my ex had left behind, so I started using it on myself , I learned how to take it , and was liking the stuffed feelings,maybe a week later I went back , I took with me some condoms, lube and a few paper towels , so on my next trip , there were several people in the booth area , after walking around some I went into the theatre part , it was barren except for one older black man . I started talking to him , he seemed nice , clean and well spoken, I asked to see hims dick he pulled it out , I was amazed , nice thick 7 or 8" , I stroked him a few times, and asked he he wanted to fuck me . he got really excited and said he love to . so I gave him a rubber and lubed us both up . Then ;lowered my pants and backed up on him , Damn it felt like he was ripping my into , but I was determined to do it. as my ass stretched and accepted this hung man inside of me I started feeling great , and I told him so , he starred slowly fucking me then got faster , be4 I knew it he was pounding me hard , damn I still get chills thinking about it . he When he finally came, I could fell him throbbing in my ass. I was hooked, when he pulled out I almost collapsed , knees were so weak , lol
. but to my surprise it was he who kept thanking me over and over , saying how well I took that dick , . damn this man just made my dream come true and he was thanking me , we talked some more , then he left , I sat down still kinda seeing stars processing what just happened . when he came back and asked if his friend can fuck me also .....
 
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welder153 said:
I guess I always been bisexual, altho never acted on it till I was 34yo in 2001 during my 1st divorce, I went to a adult theater/book store in Chattanooga tn area , to watch some vids maybe jack off, I wasn't sure what to expect there, I watched a few men playing with themselves and each other. some sucking dick and one guy getting fucked, which was what interested me the most , I stayed maybe a hour or two , then went home processing what I had saw, After thinking on it a few days I know that's what I wanted to try , I had a dildo my ex had left behind, so I started using it on myself , I learned how to take it , and was liking the stuffed feelings,maybe a week later I went back , I took with me some condoms, lube and a few paper towels , so on my next trip , there were several people in the booth area , after walking around some I went into the theatre part , it was barren except for one older black man . I started talking to him , he seemed nice , clean and well spoken, I asked to see hims dick he pulled it out , I was amazed , nice thick 7 or 8" , I stroked him a few times, and asked he he wanted to fuck me . he got really excited and said he love to . so I gave him a rubber and lubed us both up . Then ;lowered my pants and backed up on him , Damn it felt like he was ripping my into , but I was determined to do it. as my ass stretched and accepted this hung man inside of me I started feeling great , and I told him so , he starred slowly fucking me then got faster , be4 I knew it he was pounding me hard , damn I still get chills thinking about it . he When he finally came, I could fell him throbbing in my ass. I was hooked, when he pulled out I almost collapsed , knees were so weak , lol
. but to my surprise it was he who kept thanking me over and over , saying how well I took that dick , . damn this man just made my dream come true and he was thanking me , we talked some more , then he left , I sat down still kinda seeing stars processing what just happened . when he came back and asked if his friend can fuck me also .....
I think it feels even better with cum as lube with the second cock,slips in easier and feels so slutty.
 
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I turned bi after couple of years of marriage. Now I am pussy free and prefer to suck cock and getting fucked by my wifes bulls.
 
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I was straight until middle age when I became very interested in cock and shemales and started sucking shemale cocks.
 
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A Brazilian Tgirl my first. Wow what a ‘girl’ and what a cock. Of course after that I was absolutely addicted and now I love all cock from straight, bi or gay.
 
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I had only been married 3 years or so before i sucked my first cock. At around age 19/20 I had out of the blue started fantasizing about being dressed as a girl and having a bunch of black guys cumming all over me And had discovered IR porn. I didnt suck another cock until almost 30. And now im in the double digits and ive been fucked twice successfully, with 2 failed attempts (im too tight)

Recently i confessed my urge to share her, and slowly as we continue our luves i drop other fantasies in her ear during sex (me sucking a cock while shes fucked, watching several men cum inside her then i clean her up, etc) and so far nothing has happened, but she also hasnt said no to anything. Im still secretly meeting men on the side and sucking their cocks, maybe one day ill have freedom for gay sex.
 
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