imported_rookie said:
Have been lurking for while.
Welcome to the forum! —as a member who, like the rest of us, openly acknowledges his anonymity!
imported_rookie said:
I now wear panties and a bra under my clothes quite often.
Very good. That implies you're a submissive husband (relative to your wife) — although not necessarily, of course, in your day-to-day work life. Congratulations for complying with your wife's wishes, thereby getting on the right track.
imported_rookie said:
My wife has had me [pantied and bra'd] at home, but now wants me [in women's lingerie] on weekends when we go out.
That strongly implies your wife is the dominant partner in her (and your) marriage, and she's moving you forward as her submissive husband. You should be prepared to comply with her insistence, in the not-too-distant future, that you wear your panties to work (at least), and perhaps your bra as well (under a suitably-opaque shirt).
When a dominant married woman puts her husband in panties (or panties and a bra, as in your case), that does not imply she has made him her cuckold. Open cuckolding of a submissive husband is probably the most advanced expression by a woman of dominance and sexual freedom in her marriage. But, you should probably be prepared for this development, at some point.
imported_rookie said:
I have only just now gotten up the nerve to admit it. I do enjoy it though.
Actually you haven't admitted it, since this is an anonymous forum. Women talk with each other about their personal lives much more than men do, however, so I suggest being prepared for your wife telling others she is close to — her sister(s), her mother, and/or her best friends, for instance — about your pantied and bra'd status, possibly in your presence.
Since you've admitted you enjoy it, it sounds like you're finding, and moving comfortably into, your appropriate marital status. Thus, after blushing temporarily, you should become comfortable with other women knowing about your pantied and bra'd status.
I suggest also being prepared for other women asking your wife if they can see, and your wife telling you to take off your clothes and show them.
Thanks again for your post, and please keep us updated as your wife continues to move you forward as her submissive husband.