Also Looking For Advice....

[dontoit]

Well,it certainly feels like it has been forever since my wife has shown any interest in another guy!!!

A short history: We were in swinging for a few years back in the mid 80s to early 90s and stopped to raise our family. We were into straight mfm,nothing bi and only tried one couple the entire time. It was during our 2nd yr in swinging when she tried a very good looking hunk of a black guy who had 9 inches that never quit...even after he couldn't cum anymore it would stay hard and she liked that!!! But it was the first night with him that I found myself watching and not joining in for the first time!!! I NEVER saw her look sooooo Beautiful,Passionate and Uninhibited with anyone ever before and that also includes myself!!! He was on her,'Must See As Often As Possible' list and only after he left would I have sex with her,but never tried a creame pie,as I didn't know what that was.

I also didn't know what cuckold was but apparently I was starting to do that to myself as the rest of our swinging years involved her and a few well-hung black guys while I watched and only joined in when invited or wait till they were all done. It was all so Fantastic!!!

Nothing more happened after we stopped swinging till 4 yrs ago when she had an affair(on her own)with a somewhat dominate guy who wanted no contact with me at all and he would call her on her cell to have her go over to his place for a quickie or to spend the night. Yes,I did encourage her to go and enjoy herself (another cuck trait I have found out),but I was not happy about not being around to watch now and then and yet....his dominance to her and me was somehow turning me on!?!? Their affair ended after a few months as he was a heavy drinker and she didn't like it. I cheered inwardly,but she didn't want anything more to do with guys as she felt she has bad taste in picking men,while I researched and have come to realize that I am a cuckold!!

Since her last affair I still encourage her to get back into swinging as the guys are a lot easier to be around,but she said no,that is until recently. We are in the process of starting some much needed remodeling and the contractor who came over is a very handsome Hispanic guy that she thinks is yummie!!! And when I bring him up during sex she really gets off!!!So how do I approach him on doing my wife without scaring him off? He does do really Terrific remodling and we would really like him to do all the work we need!!! And it will extend into next year. He is also married. And yes,I do encourage her to flirt with him as well as wear something sexy when he does come around,but keep it everyday wear like jeans that show off her ass and tops that show off her boobs,so any and all advice on approaching him,without scaring him off will be Greatly Appreciated!!! Keeping my fingers crossed...

 

[Custer Laststand]

This sounds like a great opportunity for your wife....

Dontoit,

We are in the process of starting some much needed remodeling and the contractor who came over is a very handsome Hispanic guy that she thinks is yummie!!! And when I bring him up during sex she really gets off!!! So how do I approach him on doing my wife without scaring him off? He does really terrific remodeling and we would really like him to do all the work we need!!! And it will extend into next year. He is also married. And yes, I do encourage her to flirt with him as well as wear something sexy when he does come around, but keep it everyday wear like jeans that show off her ass and tops that show off her boobs, so any and all advice on approaching him, without scaring him off will be greatly appreciated!!! Keeping my fingers crossed....

This sounds like an excellent opportunity for your wife. Maybe you should consider taking him aside and pointing out this web link to him:

Cuckold HotWife Barter Club Swinger Wives Trade Romance for Services

then mentioning that your wife finds herself attracted to the idea of "spending some time" with him. If he finds he is also attracted to that idea, would he be willing to consider the possibility of a negotiated discount on his remodeling work in the spirit of the "wifebarterclub" ?

What the hell, the worst he could do would be to say "no." More likely, he would ask for some time to give it some thought.... perhaps to estimate how much he could reasonably forego for the pleasure of your wife's affections.... then the two of you (you in consultation with your wife, of course) could come to agreement.

Good luck!

—Custer

 

[dontoit]

Keeping My Fingers Crossed....

Hi Custer and Thank You for your suggestion!!! If anyone else has any suggestions on what to say to our contractor please feel free to contribute as all contributions will be GREATLY appreciated!!!

 

[Custer Laststand]

Another suggestion....

Hi Dontoit,

Hi Custer and thank you for your suggestion!!!

You're welcome.

If anyone else has any suggestions on what to say to our contractor....

Although I'm not "someone else," I'll comment further. My suggestion (above) was predicated, obviously, on an assumption that your wife and you are interested in cutting a deal — hot sex for her and your contractor in exchange for a reduced rate for his work.

If that isn't your interest, particularly — if, rather, your and your wife's interest is hot sex for her with him, without any quid pro quo (necessarily), you might consider a different approach.

While "inspecting" his work (not in your wife's presence) and BSing with him about some detail or other, or the next steps in the job or whatever, you might ask him if he ever finds the woman of the house coming on to him while he's doing work of this nature. This opening could lead to some interesting stories. If his response suggests he is not put off by the occasional opportunity for some sex as (one might say) an employment benefit, this would provide you with an opportunity to mention, casually, that your wife finds him quite attractive. If his response to this seems neutral or slightly positive — perhaps he might say "Hmmm...." or, "Well, I have to say your wife is a very attractive woman....", you could then push a bit further by saying something to the effect that your wife's sexual satisfaction is very important to you and, between the two of you, you have agreed it is acceptable to you if she takes lovers. In fact, you encourage her to do so....

That, I would think, should lead to your wife (and you) getting what she wants.

If, on the other hand, your contractor simply says "No" and goes back to work in response to your initial question re. whether he finds the woman of the house sometimes coming on to him, that would be a strong indication he isn't interested. But, not having asked him anything specific, you would lose nothing if that's his response.

—Custer