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[BlackStud74]

Again, is that the best you got? Are you related to Snowwhite, Mom4? Josetta? Seems to be about the same intelligence level with the comebacks. Watching my wife enjoy herself or inviting a gentleman (note that comment) to join us to both put our efforts together for a night of passion because I love her and we have been together for decades is something your immature mind cannot fathom. So you go on and bring on the junior high insults, I for one will not fall into that trap with you. The bottom line is you are getting really defensive over the comments from the majority on this thread. So you begin the childish comments. :blahblah:

I am not defensive at all. Rather amused by how personal some took this tread which basically about BLACK MAN with WHITE WIFE which is what this site is about. It was a simple stright forward thread. Yet somehow, it got twisted and morals added to it yet these same people holding the high grounds are the same ones into life style that is viewed as very immoral by mainstream!!

Double standards is what it is. To me it is just amusing shit!

Save yourself and us the hassle, move on and let only those "immorals" like us post on here!! And you morals can go to sex fest!

 

[mhall]

My ignorant friend

You make it sound like you just finished reading one of shakespearian plays!! lol

WTF!! What you read was the rantings of some crazy promiscuous over the hill middleaged woman who is so desperate for attention that now she is turning to online hoping to catch attention .. any attention!!

GET REAL!

I think you will find that what I read was an angry woman who had been hurt bythe rantings of an ignorant person. (and to help you with image you obviously have of me, you missed the capital off Shakesperian)

I have said it before, and I'll no doubt say it again. "Never put down to malice what can be explained away with ignorance".

Without ladies "turning online for attention" as you put it I would suggest your whole sexlife would dry up. You seem so eager to bed the wife of a friend that you have to "turn to the internet" for advice on the matter. Now we could discuss your double standards but you seem incapable of admitting that you are in an emotional and sexual turmoil. I have no problem with that but don't think it's right that you should let your own sexual frustration be transmitted as anger against others who are giving you an opinion as asked.

You will do what you want to do and I suspect you will use this board to broadcast your success (more "turning to the internet") - possibly because you know you will find a couple of people here who will say "way to go". I admit I am quite shocked, in a very nice way, to see how many people are questioning you. You state that people should leave morals at the door of this site, but many people disagree with you - they are not wrong, they just disagree with you - what would you expect?,.

Have a look in the mirror, if you can honestly say you would be proud, then go for it my friend, you have no need for further advice from anyone. Have a good look at your face because if you misjudge it you may not see it looking so pretty again but, as I am sure you know, that is just one of the risks you take and why should you bother about the heartache you will cause just because you find it so hard to, as you put it: "GET REAL"

 

[lewis]

Lewis and Blackstud are just showing their true colors - yellow, chicken shits. Or how about liar, cheat, scum bag, etc. Just keep in mind gentlemen, what goes around comes around but I suppose you try to blame that on the "man" too. What a bunch of scum!

Yeah thawk,,,,there goes the bad guys, but unlike you Jimmy Swaggart type, at least you know where I stand. If I ever get to fuck my buddies wife its going to be because he and she OK's it, and what would you think of me then. Calling me scum does not make you a better man, it just make it harder for you to be honest with you true feelings/desires.

 

[muleman]

Hey I got it now when you come on this site you leave your morals outside the door. So when you go fuck your best friends wife you leave your morals outside his bed door. The only time you have to have morals is when you are with your bestfriend and his wife together unless he is a cuck in which he isn't a man so you can fuck his wife anyway it don't count or when you are with your own family very easy this is the way every family ought to raise their children drilling this in their heads. Oh and thawks he's a man a top notch guy at that.

 

[BlackStud74]

Hey I got it now when you come on this site you leave your morals outside the door. So when you go fuck your best friends wife you leave your morals outside his bed door. The only time you have to have morals is when you are with your bestfriend and his wife together unless he is a cuck in which he isn't a man so you can fuck his wife anyway it don't count or when you are with your own family very easy this is the way every family ought to raise their children drilling this in their heads. Oh and thawks he's a man a top notch guy at that.

finally he gets it! Nothing is impossible!!

You should certainly keep your morals when you come on here shopping for BBCs for your wife ..

You should certainly keep your morals while you sit ina corner watching your wife get banged by BBC

You should certainly keep your moals when sharing photos of your wife with BBC in lovely mouth!

I was wrong and I stand corrected, you are so moral and make the ideal christian family!

ANd you are right every family should not raise their kids with my immorals drilled into their heads, instead they should raise them with the idea of thier mommy getting drilled by a BBC is the normal moral thing to do!

And someone said the family unit was gone! What was I thinking lol

 

[mhall]

Ok, lets go back to the start

It took three pages of people trying to be nice to you and warn you away from this guys wife before you started getting insulting. Pimp finally called you "a letch", which most people, including yourself would agree you are over this girl. You responded by calling him an idiot and a pussy cat, then up went the balloon as you then attacked everybody.

I honestly believe people were trying to help you and their advice was good. You said this woman was wife material and you were, I guess, therefore ready to steal her from your friend. This makes it not a "fucking issue" at all and way outside this site. Most people would glean from that comment that you would be hoping you both fell in love and married. This may well explain the moral issue cropping up again and again as it has confused everybody - including you I would suggest.

On the 17th you said you were going to pick her up so she can help you decorate - there has been no updates since then, but by the 19th you were telling people to "go fuck themselves"

Do we assume your smooth talk failed then?.

I am sorry, but your first ever response was the best

"Leave her alone unless he changes his mind and approaches you. It's terribly uncool otherwise "

and, though you would hate to admit it, that advice came from Pimp !

We are now 17 pages in and it has been fun. Not what you expected, not what you hoped for, but fun nontheless

 

[BlackStud74]

mhall,

I appreciate the logical mature response. One of the few.

See with this response I have no problem responding back with a mature logical response.

We are human which = NOT PERFECT!

This woman did get the best of me and yes it seemed like a highschool crush. But I realized very quickly it was not gonna happen without the both consent, as stated a dozen paged back. Since then I have been working on husband more and he seems to have an interest ..

An update, she did help me shopping for a few things for house but nothing happened beyond some basic flirting. (she did look really gooood in mini skirt!!)

But to sum it up, I won't fuck her till her husband gives the OK which I think might be sooner than later givem his strong interest in IR movies I have given him.

 

[BlackStud74]

here is another snap of woman of my desire from last weekend as we all hangout

getting closer ..

 

[BigJerome]

setting aside the husband drama issue, she is very fuckable!! The things I would do to that ass. I feel your pain bro. keep on working him because that ass is begging for bro's lovin!!!

 

[BigJerome]

I think what you guys are fighting about is the agreement part. I think this website is about wives that are looking for black lovers and that is why I am here hehe. husbands agree or not is the point of all this drama. I am not for cheating but if a married woman with an ass like that comes my way I am gonna work it!:whip_it:


Just being honest

 

[BigJerome]

I am dissapointed I have no friends with wives like that!!!!! hehe

 

[lewis]

She is the real deal bro,,,,,what the people here don't realize is that we are not ever approach going to hit on these woman unless both the husband and wife are recepitive to it, because if we do that it would definitely end any possibly of anything happening. But I see nothing wrong with fantasizing about forbibben fruit and accepting any invitation from the couple, and I understand what you mean about marriage material. I feel the same way about my buddies wife. If he leaves her I would be stupid not to marry/be her lover, why should I leave it to someone else.

 

[lewis]

I think what you guys are fighting about is the agreement part. I think this website is about wives that are looking for black lovers and that is why I am here hehe. husbands agree or not is the point of all this drama. I am not for cheating but if a married woman with an ass like that comes my way I am gonna work it!:whip_it:


Just being honest

"They can't handle the truth"

 

[pimpology101]

Thawks, best to cut your losses, man. It was incredibly hard for me to muzzle myself considering what these jackasses are about and promoting but I am finally learning. Life's too short to subject yourself to this kind of incredible stupidity. You have to understand who and what you're dealing with and realize that some people in this world have yet to evolve into fully functioning human beings. Lewis and the dud are just such types.

I'm sure they'll post some lame ass comeback full of insulting, derisive comments about how I'm some lame white guy who can't satisfy his woman, blah, blah, blah...yada, yada, yada. Same tired, insipid commentary and drivel you'd expect from the mentally stunted and not fully-formed.

They have heard it from me, you and a multitude of others and still don't get it; they think most are in agreement with them (when they're clearly not) and that this shit is funny; all bets are off on accountability, decency and doing the right thing to these imbiciles just because, hey, they're horny and want some pussy. They're precisely they kind of hit it and run COWARDS who get their asses filled full of buckshot from a shotgun as they run crying and screaming "don't kill me, man," naked through a cornfield after they jump out the window of the henhouse once their "friend" comes home and catches them inch deep in his wife. Save your breath and be thankful shitheads like these two are a minority.

 

[mhall]

She is nice but you are really about to open a can of worms. You sound quite new to the lifestyle so forgive me if you are not. Make sure you are fully awre of the options available and the consequences thereof:

1, She becomes unfaithful and her husband doesn’t know. This is the worst possible scenario and could lead to untold heartache for everyone involved.

2. She has both you and her husband together. Quite nice scenario but can you cope with just being a sex toy for them, because that is all you will be. It might mean nothing to you but would really put their relationship under strain if they are not both 100% secure, and may lead to No1

3. He becomes a voyeur while you have her alone. Where I started and didn’t suit us at all, she was uncomfortable and I didn’t want her to be.

4. He becomes a cuckold. Where I am at. I never get to see and don’t want to. She enjoys herself and tells me about it. She always comes back to me and always will. The other guy (you) is purely for sex and there is no emotional attachment whatsoever. She tells me I am better in bed than her lovers and she only goes with them when she needs to feel a larger dick

5. He becomes more obedient to you and her and you start to take control. This is where they will need to be very strong to cope with this

6. He becomes sissified. I’m not going there, I don’t even like the sound of it.

If you are going for 2, 3 or 4 you must accept that, although you may consider yourself a “bull” you will, in fact, be nothing more than a sex toy for the couple. If you can accept that – and from your other posts I feel you need to question yourself about that – you will have a great time. The lady seems very close and that is the worry.

 

[BlackStud74]

Thawks, best to cut your losses, man. It was incredibly hard for me to muzzle myself considering what these jackasses are about and promoting but I am finally learning. Life's too short to subject yourself to this kind of incredible stupidity. You have to understand who and what you're dealing with and realize that some people in this world have yet to evolve into fully functioning human beings. Lewis and the dud are just such types.

I'm sure they'll post some lame ass comeback full of insulting, derisive comments about how I'm some lame white guy who can't satisfy his woman, blah, blah, blah...yada, yada, yada. Same tired, insipid commentary and drivel you'd expect from the mentally stunted and not fully-formed.

They have heard it from me, you and a multitude of others and still don't get it; they think most are in agreement with them (when they're clearly not) and that this shit is funny; all bets are off on accountability, decency and doing the right thing to these imbiciles just because, hey, they're horny and want some pussy. They're precisely they kind of hit it and run COWARDS who get their asses filled full of buckshot from a shotgun as they run crying and screaming "don't kill me, man," naked through a cornfield after they jump out the window of the henhouse once their "friend" comes home and catches them inch deep in his wife. Save your breath and be thankful shitheads like these two are a minority.

I thought you said you were not going to post on here anymore??? lol
Like a dog you keep coming back after a beating each time.

We are far from minortity. Many wives these days are taking BBCs as their lovers with or without thier husband's consent.

What you don't get you lil cuck is that you are practicing a life style many find perverted, discusting and immoral not to mention risky as I am sure it spreads STDs (any of your partty goers take STD tests?)

So what many of us have been trying to tell you lil cuck you live a in glass house and you should stop with throwing stones!

You don't approve of what we doing? then just move on! But to keep coming here and caling those who don't agree with you names is a sign of flawed charatcer and penis envy!! lol

 

[Josetta]

Getting married is very special for a female. We dream about it for years, the wedding and the sex and having a husband to love forever.

I bet she has been aware from day one (from your body language) that you want to get into her panties, and the porn you have been providing for her husband and her to view, clearly suggests what you are after.

But I would prefer you to wait at least two years, so their marriage can become "strong and secure enough" before even suggesting a more open marriage to them.

If they become hooked on the idea of inter-racial sex from the DVDs, then you could easily be the first person they consider to "try it out".

I feel for you having your inflatuation, but please don't do anything to harm their marriage so soon after their honeymoon together.

Continue to develop your friendship with them, and your patience may pay you dividends in the longer term. But you must also prepare yourself for the possibility that they wish to keep their wedding vows forever sacred.

You will eventually get some feed-back on the porn from casual remarks, and as you get to know them a hell of lot better, you will sense whether they are up to sharing her pussy or not.

 

[BlackStud74]

She is nice but you are really about to open a can of worms. You sound quite new to the lifestyle so forgive me if you are not. Make sure you are fully awre of the options available and the consequences thereof:

1, She becomes unfaithful and her husband doesn’t know. This is the worst possible scenario and could lead to untold heartache for everyone involved.

2. She has both you and her husband together. Quite nice scenario but can you cope with just being a sex toy for them, because that is all you will be. It might mean nothing to you but would really put their relationship under strain if they are not both 100% secure, and may lead to No1

3. He becomes a voyeur while you have her alone. Where I started and didn’t suit us at all, she was uncomfortable and I didn’t want her to be.

4. He becomes a cuckold. Where I am at. I never get to see and don’t want to. She enjoys herself and tells me about it. She always comes back to me and always will. The other guy (you) is purely for sex and there is no emotional attachment whatsoever. She tells me I am better in bed than her lovers and she only goes with them when she needs to feel a larger dick

5. He becomes more obedient to you and her and you start to take control. This is where they will need to be very strong to cope with this

6. He becomes sissified. I’m not going there, I don’t even like the sound of it.

If you are going for 2, 3 or 4 you must accept that, although you may consider yourself a “bull” you will, in fact, be nothing more than a sex toy for the couple. If you can accept that – and from your other posts I feel you need to question yourself about that – you will have a great time. The lady seems very close and that is the worry.

Good point. As stated before many times a few threads back, I realize only way is through husband's approval.

I am not into ownership or any of that lifestyle. I am into women PERIOD! lol
Single/divorced/married (yeah I have done a few married ones and loved it!)

Only difference this time, she is married to someoen I know which does complicate things.

I think in this case she would go for it b ut only if her husband is gives the OK and he is half way there.

The questions is what happens once he gives the go ahead. I don't have the answer to that. I have been with couples before but it meant nothing to me. It was just sex. This time it is bit more.

So I will play it by ear. And like lewis said if she ever become single I will become her husband/lover in no time!

 

[BlackStud74]

Getting married is very special for a female. We dream about it for years, the wedding and the sex and having a husband to love forever.

I bet she has been aware from day one (from your body language) that you want to get into her panties, and the porn you have been providing for her husband and her to view, clearly suggests what you are after.

But I would prefer you to wait at least two years, so their marriage can become "strong and secure enough" before even suggesting a more open marriage to them.

If they become hooked on the idea of inter-racial sex from the DVDs, then you could easily be the first person they consider to "try it out".

I feel for you having your inflatuation, but please don't do anything to harm their marriage so soon after their honeymoon together.

Continue to develop your friendship with them, and your patience may pay you dividends in the longer term. But you must also prepare yourself for the possibility that they wish to keep their wedding vows forever sacred.

You will eventually get some feed-back on the porn from casual remarks, and as you get to know them a hell of lot better, you will sense whether they are up to sharing her pussy or not.

excellent post Josetta and that is exactly where we are today.
The facts are: the husband is addicted ti IR porn as he asks for more! He said IR was different as it seemed more erotic and was a big turn on for him. ( he said his wife was not a big fan of porn as he is when asked about her ..)
Her husband is cool with me slow dancing with his wife and seems to enjoy seeing it ..
That does not mean necessary that he is ready for next big step.So like you said I am taking my time and only when both give the go ahead I will move .. FAST!

We went dancing last night a group of us and she spent a good part of the night dancing with me (with husband's approval) and let me say it took a lot of self control and a long cold shower at home!!! lol

 

[BlackStud74]

setting aside the husband drama issue, she is very fuckable!! The things I would do to that ass. I feel your pain bro. keep on working him because that ass is begging for bro's lovin!!!

The funny thing is she asked me why since she has moved here, she has been getting hit on by a lot of black men!!! Told her we just have a better taste in women!! LOL