Slow steps… this is what my wife is talking to warm up and understand my cuckold feeling… desire for her to be her and to in understand I can’t be everything she needs and that it is ok for her to still be fulfilled… desire for me to see her to not lose her womanhood to all the responsibilities...
My wife was always very extrovert and flirty especially after a few drinks, and about 3 months after we became a couple we were at a party and she was putting on quite a show- dancing provocatively, lap dancing me and so on as the party began to break up an older couple asked us back to theirs...