Thinking about all of this. Yes i would rather give up sex with her to keep our marriage and not move closer to divorce and yes it has been nice having better communication again and feeling like things are more stable again not just for me but for the kids. But Its just not natural to not feel...
Yes and sorry for not posting a update as i do appreciate everyone who added input here. Nothing really has been resolved long term in our situation but i can say things are more stable as we have come to a understanding for the time being and it is at least a better situation for the kids as we...
Thank you all for the input, i appreciate it. Yes her friend is the cause of alot of the problems we are having. She is very well do to and doesn't have to work and encourages my wife to spend on things she cant afford and do things she shouldn't. Shes older than my wife, 45 or so, and doesn't...
I am posting her looking for real answers, nothing perverted or fantasy or twisted etc because this is my marriage on the line here with real consequences. Im 43 and my wife and 38 years old and we have been married for the past 19 years. We have 3 kids together, we both share alot of the same...