Seems like a lot of people are having an issue logging into chat since we updated. Here is what you need to do: Logout of the chat and forums, clear your cache and cookies. Log back in to the forum, then login to the chat with the same user/pass you use for the forums.
Too bad you can't give even a general location like within 100 km/50 miles - I saw the posts on your profile. Quite a few of us would enjoy having you watch us with her.