Wife signed up for boudoir
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Aceface,
Nothing unreasonable about that. It seems like the sort of thing any 10 year or 10 year-plus married woman might have done...
Thanks for your explanation of what a "boudoir session" is. Otherwise I too would have asked, "what's that?"
As it should, of course...
Or both, you might have said. Either or both seem likely at this point, and your inference seems reasonable as well.
I suggest enjoying your delicious state of uncertainty. If you can determine who your wife starts calling after her "boudoir session," or who she begins communicating with on her computer, without her realizing you're snooping around in her affairs (so to speak), that may be the best strategy.
If being overly snoopy (which I don't recommend) does not appeal to you, you might, instead, begin being aware of the usual signs of an affair... working late, being gone at times when she usually isn't for reasons that seem slightly implausible, paying more attention to her appearance and looking good when she leaves the house, etc.
If it becomes apparent your wife is having or attempting to initiate an affair, you'll probably have to start talking with her about it. That, of course, will be best done in ways that are non-confrontational. In essence, I suggest giving your wife permission (sans arguing) to start dating other men and taking lovers, even if she protests she isn't doing that and has no desire to do so.
—Custer
Aceface123 said:
Nothing unreasonable about that. It seems like the sort of thing any 10 year or 10 year-plus married woman might have done...
Aceface123 said:
Thanks for your explanation of what a "boudoir session" is. Otherwise I too would have asked, "what's that?"
Aceface123 said:
As it should, of course...
Aceface123 said:
Or both, you might have said. Either or both seem likely at this point, and your inference seems reasonable as well.
Aceface123 said:
I suggest enjoying your delicious state of uncertainty. If you can determine who your wife starts calling after her "boudoir session," or who she begins communicating with on her computer, without her realizing you're snooping around in her affairs (so to speak), that may be the best strategy.
If being overly snoopy (which I don't recommend) does not appeal to you, you might, instead, begin being aware of the usual signs of an affair... working late, being gone at times when she usually isn't for reasons that seem slightly implausible, paying more attention to her appearance and looking good when she leaves the house, etc.
If it becomes apparent your wife is having or attempting to initiate an affair, you'll probably have to start talking with her about it. That, of course, will be best done in ways that are non-confrontational. In essence, I suggest giving your wife permission (sans arguing) to start dating other men and taking lovers, even if she protests she isn't doing that and has no desire to do so.
—Custer
Aceface,
Re.:
You probably can't find your wife's boudoir pictures anywhere in your house because they aren't there. She mailed them to the man she's trying to seduce and hopes to take as her lover.
Picking up hard-copy prints from the photographer then, prior to coming home, mailing them to her lover-in-waiting via the postal service might seem archaic, but it would be the perfect way for your wife to avoid leaving electronic footprints. If that's what she did, there will be no copies of the photos on her computer, no revealing e-mail traffic, and no incriminating hard copies of her boudoir photos for you to find in your house or anywhere else.
I suggest resigning yourself to your "seemingly bored with sex" but actually sexy and erotic wife being, and remaining, at least one step ahead of you.
—Custer
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Aceface123 said:
You probably can't find your wife's boudoir pictures anywhere in your house because they aren't there. She mailed them to the man she's trying to seduce and hopes to take as her lover.
Picking up hard-copy prints from the photographer then, prior to coming home, mailing them to her lover-in-waiting via the postal service might seem archaic, but it would be the perfect way for your wife to avoid leaving electronic footprints. If that's what she did, there will be no copies of the photos on her computer, no revealing e-mail traffic, and no incriminating hard copies of her boudoir photos for you to find in your house or anywhere else.
I suggest resigning yourself to your "seemingly bored with sex" but actually sexy and erotic wife being, and remaining, at least one step ahead of you.
—Custer
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I found out this week that the pictures had not been mailed out yet and that they should be sent out this week. I knew there was a reason I could not find them. I am hopeful that I can find them when they come but who knows. I am anxious to see if she is naked , wearing her ring, with another person original any pictures are missing. I am. Nervous but excited at possibly seeing my bitch of wife in sexy pics
Good to see you back. After 1 May 2013, when you said:
it seemed like you dropped off the radar. Regarding:
Do you mean your wife's boudoir pics had not been mailed to her by her photographer, or that they had not been mailed by your wife to the other man (as yet unknown to you) she intends to seduce?
And the reason was...?
So, this implies that although your wife went to pick up her no-doubt digital and thus instantly-available boudoir photos long ago, she did not, in fact, pick them up...?
As you should be, of course. But c'mon, Master of Suspense... some slightly-more-complete descriptions of what's going on would be helpful. Not all of your readers know, a-priori, what it is you're trying to say...
Aceface123 said:
it seemed like you dropped off the radar. Regarding:
Aceface123 said:
Do you mean your wife's boudoir pics had not been mailed to her by her photographer, or that they had not been mailed by your wife to the other man (as yet unknown to you) she intends to seduce?
Aceface123 said:
And the reason was...?
Aceface123 said:
So, this implies that although your wife went to pick up her no-doubt digital and thus instantly-available boudoir photos long ago, she did not, in fact, pick them up...?
Aceface123 said:
As you should be, of course. But c'mon, Master of Suspense... some slightly-more-complete descriptions of what's going on would be helpful. Not all of your readers know, a-priori, what it is you're trying to say...
When she went back 2 weeks after the picutres i thought it was to pick them up but I now know she went back to pick out the pics for a photo book she is getting. This week she emailed the photographer to have them mailed out. I am hopeful but not holding my breath that I will be able to find them.
Aceface123 said:
Oh... maybe it will be an entire book filled with boudoir photos of your wife...
Aceface123 said:
The most obvious discrete way for your wife... or any married woman... to handle this would be for her to ask her photographer to send her boudoir photos to the man she wants to seduce. Asking her photographer to send them to her home address would be risky, since she has no way of guaranteeing she'll be home and will be able to retrieve them immediately from the mailbox (as opposed to someone else going out and picking up the mail... you, for instance).
