Wife and I been swingers for many years now. Recently we put a stop to the swinging and concentrating on having a baby. To make a long story shorter, its been 1 1/2 years of trying and NOTHING. I recently (Dec) had an affair with a co-worker. I slept with the guy 2 times. once was right before my period was due, and the other was right in my PRIME fertility zone. Needless to say I GOT PREGNANT. I had to let hubby know what I did, the day I purchased the pregnancy test... and it came back PREGNANT. Hubby took the news pretty hard that I cheated. I think with all the stress it caused us, is what made me lose the baby. Here we are in May, and Hubby and I been TRYING once again and nothing is happening. Hubby is going to a urologist for further testing of his sperm. We have talked about WHAT IF his sperm is no good etc etc. We don't have the money for invetro fertility proceedures, So we are currently considering a gangbang with CLEAN men who can PROVE they are CLEAN with recent testing. We would prefer white men, so there is less explaining to do when the baby arrives... BUT... I LOVE BLACK MEN and THEIR DICKS... So that is not completely off the table as of yet. Can any other cples out there let us know if they personally know of anyone who went through this or if they did themselves.... Where should we go from here. We are very scared to do this with all the STDS out there, and want to make sure this would work out the way we are planning it. Thank you to all for reading and commenting.