If you ever wanted to be clear, yet not complex, I would suggest something like this...make it as large or small or visible or hidden as you prefer (just an example, I know the lettering is a bit off center and other font might be better)
Tatoos suck on women - look great on bikers and sailors.
...a tattoo on your shoulder that reads "Black Cock Slut" wouldn't need much interpretation..but not exactly suitable for off the shoulder dresses at formal functions or the family picnic. I've attached a few subtle symbols...let me know what u think.