If you knew me you would never think that I would be a cuckold. I have had to keep up the image of the macho man. I myself was shocked when I first got these fantasies about cuckolding, I am married to black woman so I have had to keep up the tough guy image for get messed with by other men.
I have found that now that I have admitted to myself that I am a cuckold wanna be , and also my wife that I am changing. I have never had a problem getting it up . I have always had a strong sex drive . I am just under 7 inches so not terribly small but not big.
The fantasy of being a cuckold is about being insufficient in the bed room, As time has went on I feel like I have subconsciously been becoming more and more that.
For instance I use to be able to hold back long enough to make her cum at least once. Now I cum in less than 3 minutes about 90 % of the time. It's not for lack of trying either. Another thing is I don't get as hard as I use too or as big in my opinion. My wife is tight at first but after just like a minute I can feel that I am kinda sloshing around in there. I am not feeling her up when she is wet like I use too. Now she has also had three kids. But after the last one she was fine. It all kinda happened about 3 years ago. The youngest was already 5 by that time so I don't think that is it.
I think I am getting smaller. The other night I couldn't get hard. She was even kinda shocked I think. She didn't say anything but it was awkward to say the least. In one position on a different night I just wasn't long enough for her to put me in her. The way we were laying for her to be able to put me in her was she was on her back and I was laying sideways with my hips under her knees. She tried for a while too. But my cock wasn't long enough. It would just slip out. Then I tried the missionary position and it went limp. My cock just kept bending when I would thrust. Finally we just quit. Then the awkward silence again.
The weird thing was that I was very turned on by the fact that she needed more than I could give. The fact that I knew that "she knew" I was inadequate for her in that area turned me on. But my cock still didn't get hard. I just felt it inside. I think my being limp is what turned me on and that's why I didn't get hard. Has any of you experienced this. It's like I am gonna have her see me this way one way or the other . But is it at the demise of my marriage. Am I just sabotaging myself subconsciously ? This didn't start until like 3 years ago. Until I told her about my fantasy. She is ok with it but not # 1 on her list. She has a whole issue with society and the slut image. NOt sure if this is bad for us ?
I have found that now that I have admitted to myself that I am a cuckold wanna be , and also my wife that I am changing. I have never had a problem getting it up . I have always had a strong sex drive . I am just under 7 inches so not terribly small but not big.
The fantasy of being a cuckold is about being insufficient in the bed room, As time has went on I feel like I have subconsciously been becoming more and more that.
For instance I use to be able to hold back long enough to make her cum at least once. Now I cum in less than 3 minutes about 90 % of the time. It's not for lack of trying either. Another thing is I don't get as hard as I use too or as big in my opinion. My wife is tight at first but after just like a minute I can feel that I am kinda sloshing around in there. I am not feeling her up when she is wet like I use too. Now she has also had three kids. But after the last one she was fine. It all kinda happened about 3 years ago. The youngest was already 5 by that time so I don't think that is it.
I think I am getting smaller. The other night I couldn't get hard. She was even kinda shocked I think. She didn't say anything but it was awkward to say the least. In one position on a different night I just wasn't long enough for her to put me in her. The way we were laying for her to be able to put me in her was she was on her back and I was laying sideways with my hips under her knees. She tried for a while too. But my cock wasn't long enough. It would just slip out. Then I tried the missionary position and it went limp. My cock just kept bending when I would thrust. Finally we just quit. Then the awkward silence again.
The weird thing was that I was very turned on by the fact that she needed more than I could give. The fact that I knew that "she knew" I was inadequate for her in that area turned me on. But my cock still didn't get hard. I just felt it inside. I think my being limp is what turned me on and that's why I didn't get hard. Has any of you experienced this. It's like I am gonna have her see me this way one way or the other . But is it at the demise of my marriage. Am I just sabotaging myself subconsciously ? This didn't start until like 3 years ago. Until I told her about my fantasy. She is ok with it but not # 1 on her list. She has a whole issue with society and the slut image. NOt sure if this is bad for us ?