Hello all. Long time lurker, first time poster.
I'm a 35 y/o guy living an enjoyable, if not exciting life in suburbia. Happily married. Truly love my wife. No kids at this point. Two dogs. Yada, yada, yada...
But, and here's where it gets interesting, I have an extremely strong desire to be a cuckold. I have for several years now. Sometimes I greatly enjoy that feeling; sometimes I wish I didn't even know what the word cuck means. But there's no denying that the feeling is there.
The problem is my wife would never, ever go for it. If I even suggested it, then she would [A] be crushed to learn about that side of me (her big, strong husband), leave me on the spot and [C] tell all of our family and frieds about my interests. That is not a scenario which I am eager to experience. As I said, I love her and, for the most part, love my life.
However, from spending time satisfying my cuck cravings in forums and chat rooms such as this one, I have found a bull-type who is willing to meet me half way.
He is about ten years older than I am. From chats we've had, he possesses almost all of the qualities that I am typically drawn to in bulls - alpha male, confident, intelligent, strong libido, smooth, attractive, horny, hung, etc. In short, I feel he is a superior male to me in almost all facets, especially those of a sexual nature.
He is interested in getting together for a drink this Friday afternoon. From there, we'd see how things go and proceed accordingly. Based on our conversations, what that would most likely entail is he and I going somewhere private and me stroking his cock with a pair of my wife's panties while he looked at her pictures and verbally humiliated me until he shoots his load and tells me to lick it up.
While just typing those words out made me get a little hot and bothered, I am also a bit nervous and apprehensive. I'm scared my wife could find out, which would greatly hurt her and essentially ruin my life from top to bottom (career, relationships, etc) once everybody we know found out. I'm also nervous that I will wish I'd never done it even if she doesn't find out. At the same time, I feel like I have found the perfect compromise for living out this fantasy to some degree without hurting anybody.
Now, I'm sure there are an endless number of different experiences that have been had by the members on this forum. Some great and some not so great. So, my question to the group is a simple one...
Should I follow through on my plans to meet this man OR should I keep the whole thing as just a fantasy?
All responses are appreciated, even if they are critical in nature.
Thanks!
I'm a 35 y/o guy living an enjoyable, if not exciting life in suburbia. Happily married. Truly love my wife. No kids at this point. Two dogs. Yada, yada, yada...
But, and here's where it gets interesting, I have an extremely strong desire to be a cuckold. I have for several years now. Sometimes I greatly enjoy that feeling; sometimes I wish I didn't even know what the word cuck means. But there's no denying that the feeling is there.
The problem is my wife would never, ever go for it. If I even suggested it, then she would [A] be crushed to learn about that side of me (her big, strong husband), leave me on the spot and [C] tell all of our family and frieds about my interests. That is not a scenario which I am eager to experience. As I said, I love her and, for the most part, love my life.
However, from spending time satisfying my cuck cravings in forums and chat rooms such as this one, I have found a bull-type who is willing to meet me half way.
He is about ten years older than I am. From chats we've had, he possesses almost all of the qualities that I am typically drawn to in bulls - alpha male, confident, intelligent, strong libido, smooth, attractive, horny, hung, etc. In short, I feel he is a superior male to me in almost all facets, especially those of a sexual nature.
He is interested in getting together for a drink this Friday afternoon. From there, we'd see how things go and proceed accordingly. Based on our conversations, what that would most likely entail is he and I going somewhere private and me stroking his cock with a pair of my wife's panties while he looked at her pictures and verbally humiliated me until he shoots his load and tells me to lick it up.
While just typing those words out made me get a little hot and bothered, I am also a bit nervous and apprehensive. I'm scared my wife could find out, which would greatly hurt her and essentially ruin my life from top to bottom (career, relationships, etc) once everybody we know found out. I'm also nervous that I will wish I'd never done it even if she doesn't find out. At the same time, I feel like I have found the perfect compromise for living out this fantasy to some degree without hurting anybody.
Now, I'm sure there are an endless number of different experiences that have been had by the members on this forum. Some great and some not so great. So, my question to the group is a simple one...
Should I follow through on my plans to meet this man OR should I keep the whole thing as just a fantasy?
All responses are appreciated, even if they are critical in nature.
Thanks!