Cuckykny,
Cuckykny said:
I am so excited how things are moving.
Really. Your wife — who seems attracted to the concept of making you her self-acknowledged cuckold like a duck is attracted to water (as they say) — is evidently moving forward with blinding speed.
Cuckykny said:
I’m still trying to pace myself. When should I bring up the fantasy to reality transition?
This seems to be your main question at this point. The following comments are directed toward enabling you to answer it for yourself.
First — at the risk of stating the obvious — please keep in mind that you are the one who knows your wife best. I don’t know anything about her beyond your comments in this forum.
That said, I suggest it’s still too soon to talk with your wife about making your and her “fantasy game” a reality. I say this because of your comment that you have been the dominant partner in your marriage, while your wife has been sexually submissive — and perhaps, by implication, submissive to you in a broader sense.
This is a potential source of trouble, IMO, if or when you and she make the transition to a “cuckold husband / hotwife” form of marriage, in which you and your wife agree she is free to date, seduce, and fuck other men while you agree to remain faithful as her self-acknowledged cuckold. The potential problem would consist of you finding you are unable to rise above judeo-christian marital and societal expectations, which… as you know well… include an expectation that you will “keep your wife under control” (i.e., not allow her to fuck other men), while she is expected to “be submissive to her husband (you),” such that she may find it difficult to refrain from complying with the social expectation of you “keeping her under control.” This, of course, is a modern-day extension of the ancient judeo-christian concept of a woman being the “property” of her husband.
To get beyond this, I suggest expanding your bedroom game (initially), then expanding to your relationship in a broader sense, the concept and practice of your wife becoming the dominant partner in your marriage. If this strikes you as a lot to swallow, you might consider that many men who are dominant “alpha males” in their work lives are finding they have a strong desire for their wives to take the lead and be dominant in their marital relationships, in which they become the ones who obey orders. You admitted to this desire, essentially, when you said you told your wife you’re tired of always being the one who is sexually-dominant with her.
You might also consider that to function effectively as a hotwife seductress, your heretofore conventional wife will necessarily have to become the dominant partner in her marriage, while you become the submissive partner as you provide her with the housework and emotional support she will need in order to have the time and energy to date, seduce, and fuck other men, while viewing that as “just sex” and remaining emotionally bonded to you.
An approach to your wife becoming dominant in her marriage, that does not include her making you her cuckold (per se) but can clearly lead to that, and is sufficiently “psychological” that it may appeal to both of you, can be found here:
Real Women Don’t Do Housework
http://ladymisato.atspace.com/introduction.html(Read through the chapters listed...dangering her relationship with you.—Custer