Yes my kids lean that they have choices. My kids can also see that an alpha males like my husband is some one they can want in a relationship.I did not let them just get in touch with their fem side because their white but because they can express it. A home were they can dress and develop their fem side it important to me as a parent.There are nights were we can be all so fem , like a girls slumber party, were other older more experience "girls" can help us develop our grace as fem.There are now times were we can be with my mom and be dress as fem , nighty, panties , lipstick , make-up , all the things "girls" do.I know that my mom see me as a daughter now as well as her granddaughters.It may be strange to some but talking about blk men is also so helpful.Their likes and how to get them well turn-on.Having a husband very close to both my son's age give them an understanding that it is more to do with being an alpha than age.