Judgement stands. It seems the real appeal to both of you here is how horny this is going to make you rather than any genuine desire to become new parents.
I am open minded but being open minded does not mean dispensing with the concepts of right and wrong, or saying that whatever is right is what makes you horny. No problems with a married couple enjoying a kink with another man, men, women or whomever. But only in as much as the only people the kink affects or involves the people choosing to be involved.
As I said before, this child is not making that choice. Girlfriends or wives enjoying sex with other men is incredibly hot but it doesn't mean adults should pursue their sexual fantasies irresponsibly. When I read about cucking pregnancies it makes me cringe.
You talk way more about how hot it will be to be to "daddy" a child while your wife does other guys than anything about how happy the two of you are to have a new child and how much you are looking forward to a lifetime of parenting.
Do you love this baby? You should be ready to give your life. If you can't honestly say you love the child that has come into your life and that the real appeal is being a god parent, then do the responsible thing and give it up for adoption so that a couple who does want to raise a child for the love of being parents can do so rather than using the kid as part of a kink.
I am open minded but being open minded does not mean dispensing with the concepts of right and wrong, or saying that whatever is right is what makes you horny. No problems with a married couple enjoying a kink with another man, men, women or whomever. But only in as much as the only people the kink affects or involves the people choosing to be involved.
As I said before, this child is not making that choice. Girlfriends or wives enjoying sex with other men is incredibly hot but it doesn't mean adults should pursue their sexual fantasies irresponsibly. When I read about cucking pregnancies it makes me cringe.
You talk way more about how hot it will be to be to "daddy" a child while your wife does other guys than anything about how happy the two of you are to have a new child and how much you are looking forward to a lifetime of parenting.
Do you love this baby? You should be ready to give your life. If you can't honestly say you love the child that has come into your life and that the real appeal is being a god parent, then do the responsible thing and give it up for adoption so that a couple who does want to raise a child for the love of being parents can do so rather than using the kid as part of a kink.