My Korean Wife - photo/video series UPDATE: She's been shared!
- Thread startercommunalspooning
- Start date
Things with wifey and lover fizzled out. She's not telling me much, but long story short, he got too aggressive and pushy during first phone/video sex, and she became uncomfortable. So it's kinda off. She's pretty bummed and disappointed, but we're moving onto the next...
This does happen, right?
EDIT: Talked to wifey some more and we're onto next lover. We have plenty lined up anyway. She's just depressed all this effort went into it with original guy and he blew it. Oh well, in my humble opinion, he doesn't know what he's missing. Wifey is a little hurt, but thankfully not soured by experience. So onto next guy...!
This does happen, right?
EDIT: Talked to wifey some more and we're onto next lover. We have plenty lined up anyway. She's just depressed all this effort went into it with original guy and he blew it. Oh well, in my humble opinion, he doesn't know what he's missing. Wifey is a little hurt, but thankfully not soured by experience. So onto next guy...!
Last edited:
As sexually open minded as my wife is, she gets turned off by crude or aggressive talk by potential bulls, especially if it happens right after the hello stage. She's one of those women that likes to get to know her possible fuck buddy before jumping into bed. Like you, I often feel sorry for the dudes because they have no idea what they're missing because she's an incredible sexual partner. They think with their little heads and mess up the situation.communalspooning said:Did your partner/wife feel bad about it?
Trying to make sure my wife has a positive experience through this since it's so new to her. Luckily she's not entirely soured but she seems hurt.
Sorry to hear the guy turned out to be like that, pushy rather than patient.
Were there any warning signs during the vetting process that you ignored perhaps?
Need to refine your screening criteria perhaps to weed out the overly aggressive ones.
Your candor is reporting on this process makes the thread very useful and is appreciated by many.
Were there any warning signs during the vetting process that you ignored perhaps?
Need to refine your screening criteria perhaps to weed out the overly aggressive ones.
Your candor is reporting on this process makes the thread very useful and is appreciated by many.
I agree with Filipinahotwife. You need to take a hard look at your criteria. Sounds like she appreciates a gentleman, one who is patient, has manners and actually cares about her feelings. You might have more luck in finding those qualities in candidates who are older.Filipinahotwife said:
Personally I feel anyone who refers to themselves as a "bull" is admitting they are an animal and thus, aggressive, crude, impatient and possessing the manners of a Billy Goat. While a bullish mannerism might appeal to some women, obviously not all. I would start by screening OUT all those who introduce or refer to themselves as Bulls. And yes, as Filipinahotwife says, your candor is refreshing and your observations are lessons for those who wish to learn.
Diego
Yea, it's been a real learning experience. We definitely screened carefully. He said he understood the rules we laid out, would follow her lead at every turn, etc. And for the most part, he did, but then got too pushy and tried to get us to go against our own rules. Will spare the details, but the vibes got bad from that point on, and it was a quick realization that this wasn't going to be right. If you give him an inch, he'll take a mile -- this is what it was starting to feel like.
Thank you all so much for the support and advice. I read them all and def do and will heed them.
@DiegoSC @love2watchAsians @Filipinahotwife
Thank you three for checking in and sharing advice!
So glad wifey is not soured by this. Just a little hurt, and a lot disappointed. Like I said, we're moving on...!
Thank you all so much for the support and advice. I read them all and def do and will heed them.
@DiegoSC @love2watchAsians @Filipinahotwife
Thank you three for checking in and sharing advice!
So glad wifey is not soured by this. Just a little hurt, and a lot disappointed. Like I said, we're moving on...!
Last edited:
communalspooning said:Pulled down her pants and saw these panties. Whenever she wears these, I know what it means. I know what she's asking for. She wants her ass eaten.
Hi, I'm Beth..... I like those sexy panties. I think I'll buy the same ones... to flash outdoor, my pussy... !!
