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How to get your wife to cuckold you - your ideas?

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How to convince your wife to cuckold you?

  • Just tell her what you want

  • Withhold sex until she can't take it

  • Leave slutwives.com open on your computer

  • I couldn't stop her if I wanted


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007cfc said:
I started by playing games, getting her to point out guys she'd fuck... It was only a bit of fun after all!.
Then I'd mention it as I was fucking her, telling her how much other men would love to fuck her...
I then moved on to suggesting she tried it for real, telling her I'd let her.
Be prepared for a period of having a confused wife, a wife doubting your love for her etc, after all your telling her to go against the vows she's made, she will still see it as you suggesting she cheat.
All I wanted at this stage was to plant the idea in her head, I dare not expect any more than that.
I carried on playing the game of asking her to point out guys she'd fuck, then reminding her that she could if she wanted.
I'd remind her in bed, usually when she was at her most aroused, asking her if she fancied a new cock inside her, I'd done my bit, I knew the idea was growing on her.
I asked her to remember her gift whilst seeing and talking to guys that she met whilst out and whilst in work. This sounds obvious, but my wife spent 19 years oblivious to the men around her, she never cheated and never would, so most men were almost invisible
to her.
She eventually became more comfortable telling me when guys were hitting on her, they always did, but it never meant anything because she wasn't on the market so to speak.
I kept finding subtle ways to remind her, convince her she could, almost encouraging her.
The last piece of the plan is something I wouldn't suggest as it was risky, but I took that chance...
I found a site (newbie nudes), made a profile in a way I thought she would, simply stating she was a wife allowed to play.
I put up a few tasteful pics, absolutely no face pics, and with a false name. There was no way they could be linked to her.
The messages soon came flooding in, so I plucked up the courage to tell her.
Obviously she was a little angry, so I simply gave her the sign in details and suggested she just enjoyed reading the messages.
She has always found fault with her own body, so I wanted her to see what men thought of her, and how many wanted her.
She eventually started replying, and spoke to one guy over a period of a few months..
She showed me the message that was him asking her outright to finally meet her. It took a while, but by her side, she plucked up the courage to invite him to our house.
It worked, he spent the night fucking her in our bed, I had the frill of listening to him fucking my wife, and I will never forget listening to him frantically shooting his seed deep inside her.
It didn't stop there, 5 other guys went on to fuck my wife.
A few years have since past, she didn't go past 6, she starting not liking her own body again, but we are now talking about it again, and I'm seeing her interest growing again.. I can't wait!

Very similar to the way I got my wife to cuck me. When she mentioned that a guy had flirted with her at work or approached her outside or at an event, I asked for the details. I encouraged her to flirt back, told her she could do what she wanted. At first she said it was sick, but I introduced her to this kind of website and sent her stories of wives fucking other men.

One game we played was to go into a pub or mature singles bar or dance club separately. I would stand away from her and watch as men approached her, chatted her up, danced with her, touched her. I told her how hot that was.

Then, I was working far away from home and would only visit once every three months or so. That made everything more intense in the chatting. I got her to chat with an intelligent "dom" I met in the old Yahoo cuck chatroom. He spent a lot of time telling her about the psychology and how cucking me would make me her slave. She liked that, because I had cheated in the past.

Then she talked about her boss, a younger attractive guy, and we got into chatting about how she would dress sexy if she was meeting with him the next day. They ended up talking about meeting for drinks but nothing ever happened.

The first time she cucked me was when a much younger former co-worker came back to town. When they worked together he flirted with her all the time, including crude compliments about her ass and shape and how much he preferred to fuck older women. When he called her up, she took the opportunity to accept his dinner invitation. She told me she was going to do it and sent me the pictures of her sexy dress and underwear. Of course, the guy took the opportunity, inviting her back to his Airbnb and doing the seduction - starting by offering her a backrub. That led to full body massage, him going down on her, 69, and fucking. That was a one-night stand as he went back to the city he was living in.

After that she went out with a single girlfriend from work to a mature upscale singles bar, and they met two guys and exchanged numbers. Soon the guy called her up and on the third date she fucked him. That affair went on for three years, they met when I was away for work and she told me the details. Neither of the guys knew that I knew.
 
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curiouschats said:
Anyone online to chat and discuss ideas, our fantasies ?
Love to do that
 
Online now?
 
NostalgicCuck said:
One game we played was to go into a pub or mature singles bar or dance club separately. I would stand away from her and watch as men approached her, chatted her up, danced with her, touched her. I told her how hot that was.

This is the exact thing i told my wife when she started asking about what things would turn me on. I told her it was hot to be the one to have her at the end of the night, but of course it was because I wanted to see her get worked up from other men.

She bought a vibrator I could control thru app, and this was what we were going to do with it, i thought what better way to get her to lose herself and do something stupid.

I never saw her as the sharing or cheating type, has had past trauma from bad relationships and claims that type of thing would never happen, but the moment I broke the ice about it, she was talking about hot men the very next day. I couldn't handle it happening that fast, and I made a bit of a big deal about it even tho its what I wanted. That definitely put a damper on it and it hasnt been brought up since, but there's no way she forgets.

I think its true, any woman is going to be all about cucking, just have to break the ice somehow.
 
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cuckjuice said:
This is the exact thing i told my wife when she started asking about what things would turn me on. I told her it was hot to be the one to have her at the end of the night, but of course it was because I wanted to see her get worked up from other men.

She bought a vibrator I could control thru app, and this was what we were going to do with it, i thought what better way to get her to lose herself and do something stupid.

I never saw her as the sharing or cheating type, has had past trauma from bad relationships and claims that type of thing would never happen, but the moment I broke the ice about it, she was talking about hot men the very next day. I couldn't handle it happening that fast, and I made a bit of a big deal about it even tho its what I wanted. That definitely put a damper on it and it hasnt been brought up since, but there's no way she forgets.

I think its true, any woman is going to be all about cucking, just have to break the ice somehow.
If you want to be a cuck, you have to make up your mind before you tell your wife you want it and take any steps to fulfill your fantasy. Any hesitation or reluctance on your part can end it forever.
 
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Had a bit of breakthrough last night, I have been asking wife to use a vibrator on herself for a while now while I jerk off over her tits as I grope them, watching her squirm and moan to an orgasm, last night she asked me why I like her to use a vibe on herself, & I said it was a massive turn on to see her getting pleasured, I said, id love to watch her use the dildo on herself at the same time as the vibrator while I watched, she was really turned on and said its so good that you like that, we got down to it and I came on her tits as she came, baby steps, but I think we are getting there, once the dildo is part of the mix I think the idea will become obvious to her! any thoughts or advice here would be welcomed!!
 
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deanford said:
Had a bit of breakthrough last night, I have been asking wife to use a vibrator on herself for a while now while I jerk off over her tits as I grope them, watching her squirm and moan to an orgasm, last night she asked me why I like her to use a vibe on herself, & I said it was a massive turn on to see her getting pleasured, I said, id love to watch her use the dildo on herself at the same time as the vibrator while I watched, she was really turned on and said its so good that you like that, we got down to it and I came on her tits as she came, baby steps, but I think we are getting there, once the dildo is part of the mix I think the idea will become obvious to her! any thoughts or advice here would be welcomed!!
Continue on doing that for awhile, then tell her you want to watch her getting fucked or imagining another man fucking her while you were away. Maybe use the dildo on her, from behind or from the front and attach a name to it "Peter" or some such. If you can get her to talk about an attractive man she knows or even a celebrity, better.
 
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hi guys,


i succeeded in convincing my wife so i thought i would try and help you out, fulfilling your dreams of cuckolding. now, if your wife is leading the charge and dropping hints about sharing herself, then this is not for you. this is when you are the cuckold wannbe.

first, the impt question is whether she is able to fantasise. this is never an easy question to answer as it involves many factors. most impt of which is whether she IS ABLE to at the very least, fantasise with you about being a hotwife. THIS IS KEY.

if she has not, then it is a harder hill to climb.

1. there are some things that you must first learn - patience and persistence. these are your tools to help you achieve this.

2. never push her. you must be very very patient in getting your fantasy to be a reality. always let her think she is in control of it. this means that if she does not want to talk or fantasise anymore, stop. respect her wishes. start again another time. but be persistent. she will give in eventually.

this is a slow and steady process and your Mrs MUST always have the feeling that she is in control. ALWAYS! This reassures her that should she want to stop, IT WILL BE STOPPED. only then will she trust you.

3. AGAIN REMEMBER that the focus here is your wife. not you and what you desire her to do for you (please understand this as they will learn the truth).

this was one of the methods i used on my wife......

my mrs loves to suck cock. she really loves it as she can go for an hour or more just sucking on one. and you will only enjoy having your cock sucked IF the person sucking enjoys what she is doing. i should know this as im her hubby. she loves to swallow too. and not the porn you watch type where they spit it out! she love to taste it and swallow (i suppose this was the thing that turned me bi too as i loved watching her do it so much that i too got hooked).

so during my convincing her to join a swing party, i bought a vibrator and when she was sucking my cock, i used the vibrator on her. now when she sucks she is in heaven and then applying the vibe on her pussy was the ultimate for her. i used that moment to fantasise that it was a mutual friends. an american guy that we knew (she is partial to orang putih). this method me a great deal in convincing her that another cock or cocks would be great in our sex life. so i did this time and time again. this was the persistent part. as long as she likes sex, half the battle is won.

about 4th month - the reluctance soon gave way. and she began to allow me to talk to her about a third person.

about 8th month - then i began to ask her things. and she answered!!

with this i knew i was doing the right things.

10th month - while having sex SHE asked for the vibrator.

after a year of some hard work she finally agreed to join in a swing party. and the rest is history. this was the patience part.

she enjoyed herself at the party. and it was enjoyable to watch her too.

so keep plugging at it. always remember that the focus is on her. not you.

we began with swinging, then moved gradually (as my cuckold side began to emerge) to threesomes and finally cuckolding. this is something i really enjoy. i especially watching the action up close (like in fucklicking) as it is so intoxicating.

as i noted, patience, persistence, and non-pushy.

secondly, compliment her dressing, her beauty, her sexiness. and do it truthfully. women can tell if you are bull-shitting or theres something behind the compliments.

send her flowers, chocolates at her workplace. let her feel proud in front of her friends, family.

this is an entire package of things you need to do. men are different. we only want 1 thing. with women it takes many things. and your heart.

i honestly did all these things to convince, cajole and encourage my wife. it took me more than a year before she agreed to join me in a swing party. happiest moment of my life.

rushing into cuckolding

sharing your wife is already a big step. getting her to cuckold you is even greater. so consider taking this one step at a time.
my advice to you is to leave out the cuckolding part of it for now. That will come later. Currently you are only focused on your needs which is for her to cuckold you.

So leave that part out for now. instead, focus on HER PLEASURES. make sure she reaches new heights, better climaxes and mind-blowing pleasures. Get her more involved in the sex. Introduce a dildo, if you have not already. Then show her 3some porn - mmf, orgies, gbs where there are more men than women. This will engage her curiosity about having more than one cock.

but always keep these in mind - persistence, patience, non-pushy.

this is all a plan.....as once she starts experiencing all these new things, your sex life will change and then you slowly bring cuckolding into place. so your time will come my friend.
that will be the ultimate. her her the tools. and then fuck her with it, while watching a nice cuckold porn movie. find out who she likes to fuck her.colleague, neighbour, friend etc.then introduce the vibrator as the person. in her pussy or mouth while your cock does the free hole.your wish to be cuckolded will come (cum??) true.

because one day when you see a large hard cock plunging in and out of your wifes pussy, and juices spurting everywhere, the wonderful squishing sounds the aroma wafting into your nose as you watch this up close then you know your time has come. and it is just fucking erotic. we had so many wonderful experiences.

i know. as i followed this path and it was successful.

dan
 
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My wife used to like to go out to the clubs in the city One particular club was known for being mostly blacks, men and white women.
The first night she went there she was picked up by two younger man, who took turns fucking in the back of his SUV. Afterwards she kept going back to the club, where the head bouncer a big black man got friendly with her and started to fuck her
she well known in that club as a slut for black cocks.
she will give blowjobs underneath the table on the dance floor They will feel her up.
Lots of times the bouncer would take her to the bathroom and fuck her and have other guys fuck her when she got home she was always soaking wet with cum in her cunt ass on her hair and tell me all about it in details as we fucked afterwards.
she started hooking up with a EMT guy he was Jamaican very muscular he would fuck her at work and afterwards she would go home with him then come back home to me. Sometimes he will have his friends over to gangbanger. He got into giving her a golden showers with his friends. She loved it she loves to please bbc
That started 21 yrs.
Today she doesn’t play around too much. The last time was on Cruise. Two years ago with young black guys they fuck her every day or night of the cruise.



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I took it slow. Started talking to her about sexual things. Began by asking her what she did with her old boyfriends. We both got so turned on as she told me! Slowly we started sharing sexual fantasy and role playing her with another guy, played by me! She always loved it when as I fucked her I would say” you like my dick better than your husband’s dick don’t you”. She always replied yes! It took almost two year for her to actually take her first dick from another man but after she did she thanked me for convincing her to do it! After her first stray dick she had such wonderful orgasms she never wanted to stop. I love watching her get fucked by other men!
 
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Rockford said:
I took it slow. Started talking to her about sexual things. Began by asking her what she did with her old boyfriends. We both got so turned on as she told me! Slowly we started sharing sexual fantasy and role playing her with another guy, played by me! She always loved it when as I fucked her I would say” you like my dick better than your husband’s dick don’t you”. She always replied yes! It took almost two year for her to actually take her first dick from another man but after she did she thanked me for convincing her to do it! After her first stray dick she had such wonderful orgasms she never wanted to stop. I love watching her get fucked by other men!
Lucky!
 
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