How do I get her to cuck me?

[deadman89]

I want this so bad. Always find myself jerking off to porn and imagining its my girlfriend sucking a big fat black cock... How do i convince her? I've already told her cheating is fine but she gets a little upset. But i've told her how much i love her and she seems to warm to the idea. she even said one time that if she was going to cheat, she wouldnt ever tell me! but i told her i wouldnt want that!

she also knows id love to have a threesome. MMF.

shes 22. been together a year over now. she's super hot. guys after her all the time.

helppp

 

[Son of John]

How about setting-up a situation involving a good friend, when he gets to see her naked. I have found that if a woman can get naked in front of other men, and isn't stressed about it, that maybe the next step would be letting them touch and feel her. Few women can just strip off and say "fuck me", but if you take it a step at a time you might have a chance.

 

[vladdy]

1st don't tell her to cheat on you, I think this brings bad things to mind for a girlfriend.

I would keep up with attempting a MFM three way, let her be the center of attention.

I agree with SoJ that you should try to get her in a situation where she can be either naked, or topless, or even in a bra or bikini top around you and another guy. A place (hotel?) with a pool or hot tube, or drinking while playing strip poker.

 

[Jinxypie]

I've already told her cheating is fine but she gets a little upset.

Of course she gets upset - when guys say "cheat" women hear all kinds of negativity. Cheating sounds like she doesn't have permission and that there will be bad consequences. Maybe say you wouldn't see it as cheating? You'd see it as her permanently having a hall pass to fuck anybody she'd like, as long as she tells you about it?

 

[Saraha]

Depends on whether you plan to marry her or not. At the moment, you two have been together for a year, so she does not want your relationship to break up. If you get her to date other guys (which she would enjoy), she may fall in love with another guy she meets - and wish to marry him instead of you.

There are risks for a single man when he encourages his girlfriend to fuck other guys, but that is a risk you may (wish) to take.

If you have cuckold day dreams, then you need to talk about them honestly with your girlfriend before you get married.

She deserves to know how your mind works. This will help her to decide how she feels about having sex with other men "with your special permission".

When you tell your girlfriend the truth in your heart, she may discuss what you have said with her best friends, before she acts on what you want her to do.

If her girlfriends tell her to accept your permission to fuck other guys, then she probably will take her opportunities as they appear. But your girlfriend may get really keen on fucking other guys, and may not be able to stop if you eventually decide you can't handle the emotions of sharing her pussy any more.

A girlfriend who continues to have sex with lots of men, is usually more contented with life, because she feels "needed and wanted" by men. She feels more beautiful when men are lusting after what she has in her panties. She does not feel lonely.

Your girlfriend needs to know:-

a) why you want to share her body with other men.
b) whether you will sneak off to fuck other girls behind her back.
c) will you get jealous and interfere with her choice of guys. after a few months.
d) will continue to love her always.
e) you are trying to push her out of your life.

 

[vnlfsn]

I just suggested that my wife do another guy casually as we just talked or drove somewhere alone. Then I would talk about it as I did foreplay. I progressed to doing this as she orgasmed whether by toy or by fucking or stimulating her clit. Then I found a prospect and asked her if she wanted to meet him. Then we went to a public place and talked about it. Eventually is the best road to being a cuckold of a hesitant woman.

 

[BHCCuck]

Swingers clubs ca be a great way to enter into alternative lifestyles. Sex isnt a dirty word and you see all types of people doing what pleases them. Plus if she doesnt was to do anything,,,, you guys can watch others, get turned on, go home and play. No harm, no foul.

 

[deadman89]

She really wont do it. I'm pushing subtly! lol...

She won't ever do a MMF I think it's all because she fears its because i want our relationship to become an open relationship, whereas i just wanna be a cuck

 

[Saraha]

She really wont do it. I'm pushing subtly! lol...

She won't ever do a MMF I think it's all because she fears its because i want our relationship to become an open relationship, whereas i just wanna be a cuck

Talk to her from the heart as to why you want her to have an improved sex life with more cuddles, sexy hugs and other guys fussing/spoiling her.

She needs to know your marriage WON'T FAIL and you WON'T GET JEALOUS of how much time she decides to devote to the other "marriages" as she grows them to a comfort level that suits her.

It is a juggling act for a wife to cater for the sexual needs of her husband plus her boyfriend's sexual needs - and rules are just a hazzle that makes it "all too hard".

It's okay to vary wedding vows (which are a contract of marriage) if the time has come that you both want to make changes.

You sometimes have to draw up a written set of new wedding vows which you can sign together(witnessed by two or more of her best girlfriends).

A visit to a marriage celebrant can make it feel more legal when renewing vows.

 

[deadman89]

right, fuck it. her ex bf is texting her alot but shes ignoring them. she told me months ago she misses the sex with him. im going to suggest she goes and sees him again! wish me luck

 

[Saraha]

right, fuck it. her ex bf is texting her alot but shes ignoring them. she told me months ago she misses the sex with him. im going to suggest she goes and sees him again! wish me luck

Apologise to her for "anything you have done to make her feel she can't be with her ex-boyfriend when she needs extra cuddles".

 

[Jinxypie]

Your girlfriend needs to know:-

a) why you want to share her body with other men.
b) whether you will sneak off to fuck other girls behind her back.
c) will you get jealous and interfere with her choice of guys. after a few months.
d) will continue to love her always.
e) you are trying to push her out of your life.

So true, this is exactly what she needs to know.

I think it's all because she fears its because i want our relationship to become an open relationship, whereas i just wanna be a cuck

Tell her that.