She knows. Send her a message on adultspace. Honestly, neither one of us are hung up on the black thing, but she really does want to try two guys very badly.
The problem is that both of us are intelligent people, and I think she needs to make at least some sort of emotional connection in order to feel attraction. We have made such a connection a few times, but have either been too far away geographically or have been stood up, which happened once, believe it or not. Unfortunately, most guys, black or white, don't do much more than send her a picture of their dick and a WAZZUP MAMI message. Apparently, it is going to take more than that.