Cheating Slut Wife......Need Advice !!!

[Shocked100]

Need help guys !

I recently just found a lot of pictures hidden in a file and emails to men on my wife's laptop she uses for work when she travels. I usually don't sneak like that but I got nosey.

The pictures were of her getting fucked by lots of guys! Pictures and and emails for near 2 years now. From the looks of it at least 20 different guys. It was a mixture of really built and hung White & Black guys. Sometimes there were 2 guys and sometimes 3, 4 & 5 and whomever was taking the pictures. Could be a group meeting or something that was set up. I can clearly tell they are at hotels rooms and some were here when I was away due to the dates on the emails and pictures.

Now she has never mentioned anything about liking big cocks, multiple men, gang bangs or even big black cocks to me. Needless to say I was pretty pissed off and was going to go ape shit on her last week. After calming down for a few days I realized that she is the bread winner with her great paying pharmaceutical rep job and I didn't want to open my mouth and screw us up. With her job and my job we want nothing and live very comfortably. We have been married for 9 years and things are great at home.

After a week of thinking about it more and more about how to handle this and how nasty a slut she is for fucking all those guys it's really started turned me on. What's weird is I actually have looked at her laptop when she was shopping and masturbated to the pictures a few times. I never came so hard and could barely clean up all the cum off our desk by the time she got back home. For some reason I wanted her to catch me doing it.

so what should I do next ?

should I approach her about it and get pissed and yell?

Fake a business trip and let her set something up with some guys and hide and watch?

Set up a couple white or black guys with big cocks to hide in our bedroom and come out and fuck her one night ?

Tie her up one weekend like a fuck slut and invite guys to come over and use her like a ***** ?

Or just be a good Cuckold and let her live her secret slut life and be content with reading emails and seeing pictures ?

the endless thoughts are driving me nuts !


HELP, I'm very confused. what would you guys do ?

 

[peakmb]

Shocked,
You may be naming yourself this but you don't sound it by your note. The fact that you mail your request on a cuckold website speaks quite loudly too. So you seem interested, are a member and this is your first post. Welcome. With cautions.

I think the first thing to say is that you should stay married to your wife if you still love her. Forget that she certainly appears to be cheating on you. Forget that your wonderful lifestyle might not be quite that if she were to leave. Do you love her?

The next thing you need to determine is does she love you? The fact that she seeks sex elsewhere would suggest she needs more than you can provide or seem to her to want to provide. She might really love you for the rest of her life choices. The question is, would she think differently about you if she knew you were sneaking around in her computer.

If you have two YESs so far, well done. All is not lost in your marriage.

If she has her own computer, does that mean you do too? If so I suggest you copy all the incriminating material onto it. If nothing else it gives you your jerk off material when she is not there, it also gives you some insurance if she decides to leave you. Keep it updated when you can. Flash drives are your friend.

You are here, we are here. I have to be honest and say I want you find out SLOWLY if she would think about allowing you to join in her cuckolding activities. You need to find some way of introducing the topic. Magazine articles, porn movies you share, mentions on TV shows you watch. Be subtle but HINT that you could find it exciting in certain circumstances. If she shoots you down, drop it for a while and try a few weeks later. After nine years, she is not going to give her secret up easily, so be honest if you do find it exciting. Be careful though, if you are unsure how you react to the reality, wait until you are sure. Once open, that door cannot be closed again. Be aware that statistically your chances of survival in your marriage right now are not good. They may not be any better if you do get her admit her cheating. There is always the chance she would regard you with contempt if you admitted that you could cope with it. Two faced I know, but a possibility. You might also try seeing if she is on any chatrooms talking about her lifestyle. Godsend if she is, you could join anonymously and try to draw out where she thinks her marriage is failing.

Good luck.

 

[Shocked100]

peakmb,

This is just the type of level headed advice I was looking for. Thanks.

You are right with a lot that you posted. We do love each other and I know I'm the one. I feel like with our schedules some things have changed. We don't talk as much and play liked we used to 3-4 years ago. I do have all the emails and pictures saved to an external hard drive just in case, but I'm not wanting to go that route.

Like I said, I don't want to shoot myself in the foot by getting mad and going to her yelling, etc. Although I am/was very mad, the thought of her nastiness has got the best of me and my interest. She's a great and sexy woman and it turns me on thinking of the stuff she's doing. It's not the worst thing that could happen. And as you can tell I have already jerked off to the pictures. A few of the emails chains in her account I read we're rather hot. Her and someone chatting back and forth about meeting, setting things up and who will be there was a turn on. That with the pictures puts together a hot story.

The weird thing that gets me is that we use each other's desktop and she knows all my passwords and I know hers. So for her to leave her laptop on her desk makes me think how easy it was for me too snoop. That and her 3 weeks ago asking me to fix something in her StartUp.

I would like to have some others give options or scenarios they think I should take. Maybe I can't hint to her without being obvious? Leave some MMF or a gang bang video open on my computer or something. Let her catch me with something hinting to something. Maybe I can follow her emails and happen to show up while she's away working as a surprise, or go away and see if she sets something up at the house and come back early to surprise her. Many things can be done I'm sure.

I would do anything for her and possibly can come to living with her slutty desires that she wants.

Here is one of the photos I saved.

 

[Will2112001]

So Did she some how mean for You to find this stuff??? Maybe You should bring up the subject of swinging in a round about way. Check her reaction.
I have to believe if she know You have access to her passwords. She would have done a better job of hiding these files from You.

 

[Shocked100]

So Did she some how mean for You to find this stuff??? Maybe You should bring up the subject of swinging in a round about way. Check her reaction.
I have to believe if she know You have access to her passwords. She would have done a better job of hiding these files from You.

that thought has crossed my mind. She's a smart women and nothing surprises me with her. For a few years off and on I have talked nasty to her while having sex, telling her I want to see her suck other guys cocks or fuck a bunch of studs. I could have set her off sexually. Bit I wonder why she hasn't told me. It was weird about the computer. U

 

[grampareg]

Sounds like your wife enjoys being a little naughty on her business trips. I would just let her have her fun while away and enjoy her while she is at home with you

 

[Will2112001]

Something to be said for this. Because If she want You to find out. She will just leave more and more evidence out for You to see. Until You have to say something.

 

[Shocked100]

Sounds like your wife enjoys being a little naughty on her business trips. I would just let her have her fun while away and enjoy her while she is at home with you

Good point. I can see she was, and a lot of it. It does turn me on the more I think of it. Like I said, we have ear ally got nasty with stuff so I could have set her off on a slutfest. I don't know if I should just keep monitoring her emails and pictures and follow what's going on.

 

[Shocked100]

Something to be said for this. Because If she want You to find out. She will just leave more and more evidence out for You to see. Until You have to say something.

so you think I should mention what I found out? Maybe she wants me to see it and like it. Or do you think I should let her keep up what's she doing and leave me stuff to find on her laptop if that's what she's doing?

 

[Will2112001]

so you think I should mention what I found out? Maybe she wants me to see it and like it. Or do you think I should let her keep up what's she doing and leave me stuff to find on her laptop if that's what she's doing?

Look if Your cool with the status quo. Hang tight and see where it goes for a while. Keep checking her Laptop. Plus get Yourself some spyware for Her laptop and phone. The more You know the more power you have. Pretty soon She will either slip up. Or make her game known to You.

 

[Shocked100]

Here's a picture I found, you can see her laptop in the back on the table!

 

[Shocked100]

And another with a group of guys still wearing her wedding ring. So these guys know she's married.

 

[Will2112001]

here's a picture i found, you can see her laptop in the back on the table!

very nice!!!

 

[Shocked100]

Look if Your cool with the status quo. Hang tight and see where it goes for a while. Keep checking her Laptop. Plus get Yourself some spyware for Her laptop and phone. The more You know the more power you have. Pretty soon She will either slip up. Or make her game known to You.

I'll keep checking it when she home and out to the store or gym. As much as I was mad I can see it being dealt with civil. And if she slips I use it to my advantage whatever that might be.

 

[Shocked100]

very nice!!!

theres quite a few!

 

[Will2112001]

And another with a group of guys still wearing her wedding ring. So these guys know she's married.

It never matters to Me.

 

[Will2112001]

I'll keep checking it when she home and out to the store or gym. As much as I was mad I can see it being dealt with civil. And if she slips I use it to my advantage whatever that might be.

Look as You said. It does turn You on. You do have good deal. As long as She does not Say no to sex. And Is still Loving.

 

[2wheel]

Since you found her secret and went 'ape shit', you've let the cat out of the bag so to speak.

Soooooooooo, you need to talk, CALMLY, RATIONALLY, about her needs, about your needs.

It's obvious, that her proclivity is your proclivity.

Be calm, hold and enjoy the ride.

Remember, it's only sex, it's only sex. It's not love.

 

[Shocked100]

2wheel, I haven't gone ape shit on her and held back at thought about it for over a week now how I was going to handle it. I'm all good with the "it's only sex stuff" since I'm not a jealous man.

We are definitely going to have a talk on Thursday when she gets back home. In all honesty if she had said she wanted this I would be fine if I was there with her. We had talked about this in details a while ago and also had some nasty verbal very similar while having sex. So this isn't new, just all her secret trip stuff is.

I'm going to type her an email and send it to her later telling her we need to talk rather then when she calls later tonight.

 

[Will2112001]

2wheel, I haven't gone ape shit on her and held back at thought about it for over a week now how I was going to handle it. I'm all good with the "it's only sex stuff" since I'm not a jealous man.

We are definitely going to have a talk on Thursday when she gets back home. In all honesty if she had said she wanted this I would be fine if I was there with her. We had talked about this in details a while ago and also had some nasty verbal very similar while having sex. So this isn't new, just all her secret trip stuff is.

I'm going to type her an email and send it to her later telling her we need to talk rather then when she calls later tonight.

You do have to talk. I have a feeling its just sex. If it is. I would think You could have an awful Lot Of Fun. Enjoy The Ride.