Hubby and I are both bi, We have been involved in swinging almost 8 years before just reciently trying this lifestyle...we still swing, but hub does not accompany me on dates when he is cucked, His duty is to wait for me. Another lady in our circle of swing friends is also bi, and we get together every month or so to lunch, shop, and when the mood hits both of us, go to her home for lovemaking....Hub knows we see eachother, but I dont flaunt it either. Im just curious as if there are many others in a similar situation and how they handle it. Its just another way of cucking him..and exciting for me also.. :feedback: