None of you have to agree with me, and I don't really care. I speak from experience. If you want to have an intelligent discussion on this topic, I welcome it! If you're going to be an asshole, go waste someone elses time please, but have a great day.
Since shortly after my second divorce, I've dated married, or otherwise committed women pretty exclusively. In real life hubby is rarely aware, or involved, but when he is there's usually some things to clear up. First, telling me something like "my wife isn't into anal" or whatever kink she's been denying you, is a joke. She's not into anal with you. I'm not going to pretend to understand the psychology of any of it, but every person and relationship is different. By the time she's ready to cheat, or by the time you've brow-beaten her into compromising her marriage vows because of your continued badgering, she's ready to experience things with someone that makes her feel desirable, valued, appreciated, and not taken for granted. There's a particular loss of give-a-fuck and when she's treated like a human being again. she's ready to put aside the person she's tried to be for an inattentive, and ungrateful husband for years or even decades, and experience things for herself. A new man that makes her laugh and feel attractive, and make her feel like she did when she was young, is going to temp to her explore new things. Things she has considered taboo or things she would be afraid you would judge her for. The big ones I enjoy are swallowing, anal, and spanking. I'm bigger than most at 7" and on the thicker side, yet I've had several married women tell me they've never done 'this' with hubby (the three things i've mentioned and more). Anyway that's my thought for the day. Hope you're having a great day!
Since shortly after my second divorce, I've dated married, or otherwise committed women pretty exclusively. In real life hubby is rarely aware, or involved, but when he is there's usually some things to clear up. First, telling me something like "my wife isn't into anal" or whatever kink she's been denying you, is a joke. She's not into anal with you. I'm not going to pretend to understand the psychology of any of it, but every person and relationship is different. By the time she's ready to cheat, or by the time you've brow-beaten her into compromising her marriage vows because of your continued badgering, she's ready to experience things with someone that makes her feel desirable, valued, appreciated, and not taken for granted. There's a particular loss of give-a-fuck and when she's treated like a human being again. she's ready to put aside the person she's tried to be for an inattentive, and ungrateful husband for years or even decades, and experience things for herself. A new man that makes her laugh and feel attractive, and make her feel like she did when she was young, is going to temp to her explore new things. Things she has considered taboo or things she would be afraid you would judge her for. The big ones I enjoy are swallowing, anal, and spanking. I'm bigger than most at 7" and on the thicker side, yet I've had several married women tell me they've never done 'this' with hubby (the three things i've mentioned and more). Anyway that's my thought for the day. Hope you're having a great day!
