My supposedly prim and proper wife of 24 yrs has had on again off again affairs starting about 2 yrs after our marriage. Always dening it I even though I had all kinds of proof (including cum dripping panties). About two years ago she took early retirement at 57 and as far as I could tell the affairs stopped. Now much to my delight for the last two weeks I have met her at the door with a "fresh fucked" look on her face and also- yes- there in the hamper cum stained panties. I wish she would acknowledge her affair which I would allow but at least I know she's active again and can only hope that soon she will share with me that she is cuckolding me. I have spent so many hours thinking about her with her lovers and would love for her to share the details. At least now I can beat off to the smell of her soiled panties and hope.
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Wife's Seeing Others Again
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It sounds like some guile is needed....
Aob123,
Sheesh. That's a lot of denial....
Hm.... well, your wife needed some time to re-calibrate, ya' know....
Cool!
Yeah, really.... what a bummer. It sounds like your wife's (perhaps-experienced) mother must have stressed to her:
"Sweetheart, if you ever 'see' other men, *do not* admit that to your husband, *ever*. Pay no attention to what he says. Men don't understand. If you ever admit you're sleeping with another man, you will lose your husband — he'll divorce you."
Your long-term past experience with your sexually-adventurous wife does not suggest "hoping" will get you anywhere. You might consider changing your strategy to always welcoming her home after her trysts, say with a single rose each time, and telling her it looks like she found her time with her lover rewarding... very rewarding... then tell her she looks good, and kiss her passionately. Think of a way to reward her, in other words, whenever you think she's fucked another man.
That is, I suggest this approach instead of asking her if she's "seeing someone" and trying to coax her into admitting she was out with a lover (if that's what you've been doing).
Also, it sounds like you need to get photos of your wife meeting her lover(s) and, if at all possible, "in action" with him (/them). I don't know how you would do that, but with photos you could then show them to her and express interest and enthusiasm re. her extramarital sexual adventures — sort of like sharing photos of your last vacation together, only better.
One thing you might consider would be to hire a private detective to obtain photos and other evidence (i.e., phone records and recorded conversations), the more compromising the better. It would set you back a few bucks, but this sort of thing is their bread and butter. A private detective could do it fairly easily, I would guess.... especially if you could fill him (/her) in re. your wife's schedule and when she's likely to be out fucking.
Good luck! I hope you don't have to wait another 24 years.... you may not live long enough to "share" in your wife's apparently-steamy cuckolding of you.
—Custer
Aob123,
aob123 said:
Sheesh. That's a lot of denial....
aob123 said:
Hm.... well, your wife needed some time to re-calibrate, ya' know....
aob123 said:
Cool!
aob123 said:
Yeah, really.... what a bummer. It sounds like your wife's (perhaps-experienced) mother must have stressed to her:
"Sweetheart, if you ever 'see' other men, *do not* admit that to your husband, *ever*. Pay no attention to what he says. Men don't understand. If you ever admit you're sleeping with another man, you will lose your husband — he'll divorce you."
aob123 said:
Your long-term past experience with your sexually-adventurous wife does not suggest "hoping" will get you anywhere. You might consider changing your strategy to always welcoming her home after her trysts, say with a single rose each time, and telling her it looks like she found her time with her lover rewarding... very rewarding... then tell her she looks good, and kiss her passionately. Think of a way to reward her, in other words, whenever you think she's fucked another man.
That is, I suggest this approach instead of asking her if she's "seeing someone" and trying to coax her into admitting she was out with a lover (if that's what you've been doing).
Also, it sounds like you need to get photos of your wife meeting her lover(s) and, if at all possible, "in action" with him (/them). I don't know how you would do that, but with photos you could then show them to her and express interest and enthusiasm re. her extramarital sexual adventures — sort of like sharing photos of your last vacation together, only better.
One thing you might consider would be to hire a private detective to obtain photos and other evidence (i.e., phone records and recorded conversations), the more compromising the better. It would set you back a few bucks, but this sort of thing is their bread and butter. A private detective could do it fairly easily, I would guess.... especially if you could fill him (/her) in re. your wife's schedule and when she's likely to be out fucking.
Good luck! I hope you don't have to wait another 24 years.... you may not live long enough to "share" in your wife's apparently-steamy cuckolding of you.
—Custer
When she is away from home, put her cum stained panties over your head and breathe deeply and slowly for 20 mins. This will allow his essence to be absorbed into your whole persona and chakras......and you will understand how important it has become for her to have extra sex at every opportunity.
I suspect that your wife does not feel that you would understand her primal needs if she confessed to you, so she has kept you shut out of her fantasies.
Continue to treat her with great tenderness after she returns from her sexual adventures. Without being asked, start doing more of the housework, so she has more time on her hands to "freshen up". Also ensure her wardrobe of clothes is adequate for her dating so she can feel her best (and fuck her best).
I suspect that your wife does not feel that you would understand her primal needs if she confessed to you, so she has kept you shut out of her fantasies.
Continue to treat her with great tenderness after she returns from her sexual adventures. Without being asked, start doing more of the housework, so she has more time on her hands to "freshen up". Also ensure her wardrobe of clothes is adequate for her dating so she can feel her best (and fuck her best).
Thanks for your insite Custer- I really need to look into getting a pi. I have scoured her online accounts and she isn't e-mailing anyone- I think its probably someone she used to work with that she has started seeing again. I love the photo idea- if I can get good ones it would be worth the money.
Aob123,
You're welcome.
For a case like yours, I would say that seems like a reasonable course of action. Their time isn't cheap, but if your wife's "secret" cuckolding of you is a straightforward case, as it appears to be, a competent private investigator might be able to obtain the evidence you need (esp. photos) fairly rapidly.
With all due respect, if you were to try to do it yourself you could easily bungle it badly. Obviously, trying to follow your wife around (etc.) without her noticing you wouldn't be feasible and could easily result in great conflict, which you don't want (I gather).
Does she have a cell phone she considers personal — i.e., does she always keep it in her purse and you rarely, if ever, see her using it?
That seems likely enough. People tend to find sex partners (like they find marriage partners) within their milleau(s).... i.e., their workplace (if they're employed), college or university (if they're a student), church (if they're religious), etc.
I think a competent pi would be able to do that discreetly.
Perhaps you'll be able to post an interesting story re. how it worked out (or is working out, as the case may be) in the "not too distant" future.
—Custer
aob123 said:
You're welcome.
aob123 said:
For a case like yours, I would say that seems like a reasonable course of action. Their time isn't cheap, but if your wife's "secret" cuckolding of you is a straightforward case, as it appears to be, a competent private investigator might be able to obtain the evidence you need (esp. photos) fairly rapidly.
With all due respect, if you were to try to do it yourself you could easily bungle it badly. Obviously, trying to follow your wife around (etc.) without her noticing you wouldn't be feasible and could easily result in great conflict, which you don't want (I gather).
aob123 said:
Does she have a cell phone she considers personal — i.e., does she always keep it in her purse and you rarely, if ever, see her using it?
aob123 said:
That seems likely enough. People tend to find sex partners (like they find marriage partners) within their milleau(s).... i.e., their workplace (if they're employed), college or university (if they're a student), church (if they're religious), etc.
aob123 said:
I think a competent pi would be able to do that discreetly.
Perhaps you'll be able to post an interesting story re. how it worked out (or is working out, as the case may be) in the "not too distant" future.
—Custer
I know where you are coming from. My wife had an on again off again affair with a friend for over 15 years. She confessed the first time, I caught her the second time, and then again a third time. She was also fucking some of her co-workers. All of this with out telling me anything. I too, waited for her to come home from her late nights out. I also checked her panties. I even cleaned her a couple of times after she returned from a "girls night out". When she caught me jacking off to cuckold porn she told me "I'll fuck somebody and you will never know about it. You can just fist fuck yourself on the computer". And so it continues.
