Wife's Overnighter.

[ggfcpa]

Wife is headed to Boston for a one night overnight stay at a training conference. She went last year too, and I tried to convince her to stop down at the hotel bar to see if she could attract any men interested in her, and that she could do what she was comfortable with, and all she had to do was give me the details later when she returned home. She didn't say explicitly say No, but just told me that I'd be "too jealous" if she actually did it, and she laughed it off.

1. What can I do/say to convince her that I'd be far more excited if she did actually do it and then tell me about it later when she got home?

2. I remember another thread earlier about what to pack for her in her suitcase for her to find when she arrives, but I can't find the thread. I was thinking of at least including some condoms with a note to "Have fun, Play safe, Details later". Any other suggestions?

 

[Custer Laststand]

Here's what you seem to be looking for.

Ggfcpa,

See thread by "SoonToBe" that starts here:

http://www.cuckolds.com/forums/gene...-week-should-i-add-surprise-her-suitcase.html

—Custer

 

[Saraha]

Sometimes, it can be best to not insist that she tell you everything, because this allows her to try new things with a stranger she picks up, and then "soak the experience" into her mind over a few weeks as her imagination expands to new levels.

It is a big step to "push aside the marriage vows" and fuck a stranger for the first time, It is a magic thrill of "adultery with consent" and very emotional.

Sometimes a wife takes a quantum leap and gives herself so completely to her new lover, that she is put in a position of having to be less than honest with her husband if he is trying to harvest every detail from her of what happened on her date.

For example, if she has never done anal with her husband, and her lover does that to her on the first date, she may hide that from her husband because he would want to know "why him and not me?"

A wife will volunteer "more and more" as the weeks go by if her husband is patient, but trying to get all the details from day one, is a kind of invasion into the privacy of her "second marriage".

 

[kinkyplace]

Try to explain that you want to feel a little jeallous. Explain that it's a turn on for you. This might be difficult for her to believe, so there is an innocent game that you can play to get her used to that idea: do you talk dirty in bed? Ask her to say something that would make you feel a little jeallous. It doesn't even have to be the truth... Help her with some ideas if she cannot think of anything. The important thing is that once she starts doing that she will notice your reaction and how turned on you are... Then perhaps she will realize what a turn on it is for you and will be more willing to share her real experiences later.