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Wife unsure about taking the next step.

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My wife and I have discussed her taking BBC. She has said yes to it and likes the idea. She even bought a huge dildo and gets me to use it on her. She has told me I am not big enough to hit the right spot. But when I say about her actually finding a guy she gets nervous and backs off. She says she wants but thinks it would cause something between us. I have reassured her over and over that the inky thing that will change is her getting what she deserves, and that's a bigger guy. How to I get past this? If I can?
 
Show her pics of men, and their cocks, that you would enjoy watching her take. Make it very clear that you definitely WOULD enjoy it, and would have no feelings of jealousy after.
 
BobWheeler said:
Show her pics of men, and their cocks, that you would enjoy watching her take. Make it very clear that you definitely WOULD enjoy it, and would have no feelings of jealousy after.
I have been doing this. And using her toy on her telling her hiw much better it will feel with a real one pumping into you.
 
Suggest a trip to a nearby swing club, with the understanding beforehand, that it is only a "windows shopping" trip, and that you both agree that neither of you will have sexual contact with anyone other than the two of you, yourselves. You will BOTH enjoy that, very much, I promise you. Watching others having sex, and possibly the two of you having sex, with others watching, will have you both revved up to the redline.

And have a frank discussion about it the next day.
 
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