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Wife going out of town

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jackooo

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If you read my previous post on fantasy, then you know my wife and I are not really fully into the lifestyle. Fantasy and some dirty stories is all really.

So next weekend my wife is going out of town on a business trip. It's about a 7 hour drive, and she is taking along one of her employees. He's a college student going for his business degree. He happens to be very athletic and muscular. He also happens to fawn all over my wife. His christmas card to her was sappy with admiration and thanks.

She is driving him and they are staying in the same hotel in different rooms. I wanted to go with her, but she told me flat out that I was not going to go with her this year.

I have to tell you, my cucky angst is pegging through the roof.
 
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Hi Jackooo - just been back to read your other post. NOTHING at all wrong with keeping things in 'fantasy' mode and using that to spice up your (very hot sounding) sex life.

From your discussions of fact, fantasy, and feelings for each other I'd say you know this woman pretty well. Is she going to do anything 'real life' to harm what you share? As long as you stay honest with each other and not read 'reality' into any 'fantasy' talk you have - then the sex should stay hot.

The fact that her companion will be young, well built, possibly have a crush on her is a MINOR part of the equation... Your good lady wife is senior at work, and has a lot more 'life' experience which puts HER in charge. So you should have no worries. :)

If the pair of you are as open as you say, and really like fantasy stories, then drop me a PM and tell me a bit more. I may have a few treats you would like ;)
 
greymaster said:
Hi Jackooo - just been back to read your other post. NOTHING at all wrong with keeping things in 'fantasy' mode and using that to spice up your (very hot sounding) sex life.

From your discussions of fact, fantasy, and feelings for each other I'd say you know this woman pretty well. Is she going to do anything 'real life' to harm what you share? As long as you stay honest with each other and not read 'reality' into any 'fantasy' talk you have - then the sex should stay hot.

The fact that her companion will be young, well built, possibly have a crush on her is a MINOR part of the equation... Your good lady wife is senior at work, and has a lot more 'life' experience which puts HER in charge. So you should have no worries. :)

If the pair of you are as open as you say, and really like fantasy stories, then drop me a PM and tell me a bit more. I may have a few treats you would like ;)

I'm not worried in that sense, I don't think. A little ticked off maybe that she didn't want me to come this time. It's the situation itself that I thought I'd share. My fertile imagination and fantasy interests have lead to some intense jerk-off sessions as a result.
 
Hi. It could be that the reason she is not taking you with her is to move the bar higher in your fantasy world. When she returns, or even while she is away, she may start to tell you stories about what she has done with him. Real or just made up, the fact that you don't know will probably drive you wild, but she will see your reaction and then she can decide if your fantasies can become reality.
Maybe she wants to try this boy out for real. Maybe she just wants to push your boundaries a little.
How would you feel if she did go for it?
What ever it is you are in for a pretty intense time. Best of luck and let us know how things turn out.
 
alsrx700 said:
Any details of her trip?

She left this morning. Past few days have been a little tense. Work was stressful and we haven't been getting along that great. She know's i'm not happy about not going with her.

She called me yesterday to see if I could home home for lunch for some afternoon delight. She had been looking at porn on the web all morning and was super horny. I tried to get away, but another crisis kept me from leaving the office. She was a little pissed, but I said I'd make it up to her that night.

I got home late and was just exhausted from work. Got into another small argument about something trivial, and she was busy packing for her trip. So we both fell asleep without fooling around at all.

Gave her a kiss as she was leaving to pick up her employee. Drive safe, and have a good trip. 'We will, I'll call you tonight'
 
So, tell us, and be honest, do you want her to fuck this guy wildly all weekend? After all, you've shared fantasies with her, I suppose, of this very thing, and you've sent her off horny, frustrated, and didn't come home and fuck her when she begged for it. So, don't you really want her to do it?
 
It's too bad you let stress and irritation at not having things go just as you wanted get in the way. My guess would be even if she had some naughty ideas (hence the horny morning) the signal she picked up from you is this isn't okay.

Whether you can make up for that depends on your wife but you might want to try phoning her tonight and apologizing as much as you possibly can. You also might want to let her know directly or indirectly that if it wasn't for stress and work you would have loved to come home because the idea of her spending the weekend with this guy really really turns you on. Then encourage her to have a very good time, perhaps do a little budget busting shopping (maybe she and this guy could pick out an outfit together) and promise to get some extra chores done to help make up for focusing on what you wanted not what she wanted.
 
SusAno said:
...try phoning her ...and apologizing [and say] ...the idea of her spending the weekend with this guy really really turns you on.

SusAno is right, but call her before tonight. Call at lunchtime or when she's on the road so her phone doesn't ring during the convention, and leave a gentle, loving, supportive, sensuous voice mail message.

Hey, this is a great time to live out your fantasies, and part of that are these "OMG! What's she doing?" feelings. Wouldn't you love to be home thinking of her spreading her legs for this young cock?
 
well while it sounds great it doesnt sound like anything is in stone. She could very well be taking this fantasy to the next level. However, it doesnt sound like any promises were made and things just maybe at face value. This sounds like a great start and we all know anything is possible. I hate to say dont get your hopes up and I dont mean to kill the mood, just dont be too disappointed if nothing happens. But id encourage her. Even if nothing happens just the fact she is leaving you at home is a great start. please keep us posted
 
She is more likely to fuck another guy with your encouragement if your marriage is very happy. She will more easily understand that you are giving her a gift from your heart to have a sexual top-up when she needs extra loving.

When you are tired and argue over trivial things it scares her over the possibility of your marriage caving in, and she will be most suspicious of you having a secret woman you have your eye on if you can get her in bed with another guy.

The exception is if she is pissed off with you, or a guy she meets is very skilful with seduction and you have been neglecting her needs.
 
jackooo said:
If you read my previous post on fantasy, then you know my wife and I are not really fully into the lifestyle. Fantasy and some dirty stories is all really.

So next weekend my wife is going out of town on a business trip. It's about a 7 hour drive, and she is taking along one of her employees. He's a college student going for his business degree. He happens to be very athletic and muscular. He also happens to fawn all over my wife. His christmas card to her was sappy with admiration and thanks.

She is driving him and they are staying in the same hotel in different rooms. I wanted to go with her, but she told me flat out that I was not going to go with her this year.

I have to tell you, my cucky angst is pegging through the roof.

Wow that sound a little shady, but then agian mabye she just needs her space, I haven't read you other post, I know not to assume, if you are wrong it might just be your brain is working over time, she isn't giving you the booty?...
I think you'll be fine.=-))
 

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