Wife getting wilder

[shannonking1168]

This little ordeal has been going on for a few months. I am not a writer so if I jump around please bear with me. My wife has really started to act out more and more. She goes out more and more to clubs with friends. She has always been flirty.

She (Lucy) is a very beautiful wife and mother two our two girls. She had them when she was just fourteen. She was pregnant with Adrienne at 13 and just four weeks after delivering she was pregnant with Sandy. They are not my children in DNA but I have always treated them that way. We have been married 10 years and the girls are both 19. Lucy is coming up on her 32nd birthday soon.

I know it is said all the time but she is the picture of it. She doesn't look 32. She is always being taken as a twin for the girls. They like it sometimes,but I can tell that gets on their nerves sometimes to. They can all three wear the same clothes. They all have tons of clothes too.

Lucy is 5'2 and pretty thin in my opinion. I would say 125lb. She never says so not sure. She has a great body thanks to working out a lot and some of my money. LOL

She and the girls all got breast implants for their going away to school present about 6 months ago.That was the deal for them spending their first two years near home for school. That is when things really started to go differently. She started looking to fill the time she use to fill with the girls. She has always been like a girlfriend to them. I am the strict one no doubt.

She has always let the girls have guys over when I am away on business which is a lot since I own my business and do a lot of the selling for business.

About two months ago a very close friend of mine and Lucy had a talk with me. Nova use to work with me and stopped about a year ago after marrying one of my top managers. She and Lucy hang out together all the time. She and I are really close. Lucy called her my work wife. She is really more like a sister.

It was a really weird conversation. She started out telling me how I am a good husband. I finally asked her what the hell she was talking about. She asked me if I noticed Lucy going out more and being more flirty. I said yes but just assumed it was because the girls were gone. She said it did but it was on its way before that.

She said Lucy would kill her if she knew we were chatting. I said what is it. She said she thinks Lucy wants more. It was also the first time I had ever heard the word cuckold and this website. She said she had a guy in mind she wanted to hook Lucy up with. I was floored. She said it was nothing more than just a date right now. I just looked at her. She was really sweet. She said it might just be a phase but she thinks Lucy wants to date other guys. She said that is all.

She made points that I was gone about 75% of the time. I probably wouldn't even notice. She said to just talk with Lucy. I said I would.

So we had a talk about a week after that. Lucy admitted she would like to date again. She asked me how I knew. I told her I put two and two together. I said I also got that from some comments the girls had made. They actually set their mom up with a guy friend of theirs. It was meant to just weird him out. He thought she was their sister and had made some comments. They told him after the night was over. I was kept aware of what was going on for the most part. I later heard them joking her that he wanted to go out again because she was a good kisser even after he knew she was their mom.

I told her I would need to think about it. She said she was ok either way and wanted to make sure I would be comfortable if she did decide to do it.

 

[shannonking1168]

Second part

A week later I called Nova. She asked me how it went and told me to understand where she is coming from. I do get it. I am not there and she wants more. I can't give it to her and there are some physical areas that I am not overly endowed, but that is not the issue right now I was assured by them both. Like I said Nova and I are really close.

I also asked her about this guy. This information was given to me over few weeks period actually. She said he is nice and younger than her. He is just 24. He has “family” money. Mine was made by me working hard. She said he was just looking for dates no long term. He is a player is what I got from her. She said he dated a friend of hers and she felt like he posed no harm to our relationship if I gave her the go ahead to introduce them.

I told her if I did that it would be with whom she was comfortable since I trust her like a sister. She said thanks and asked me some questions. She asked me how I would feel if Lucy kissed him. I said I wouldn't care. I know she has kissed guys at the clubs with her girls with her. (I have to add a note that she really is like a sister to them. I know I said it before but you just have to know the situation. She is still their mom when needed but now they have moved to a different relationship as they have gotten older.)

She asked me how I would feel if she developed feeling for someone. I said as long as it didn't affect our relationship. I understand that she would have some feelings if she started dating someone. She asked me about them doing stuff. I told her I didn't know how I would feel. She said she would be there for me if I needed her. I told her thanks of course. But I was unsure.

A week or so later she came over and we chatted. She said she had to tell me something. I said what. She said there was a guy that kept meeting up with the girls at the clubs when they go out. He had really been hitting on Lucy. He has tried to get her to come to his apartment after they finish at clubs and has asked her out. She said she thought Lucy might be close to going out with the guy. She said she didn't think he was right for her to start out with.

She said that was why she introduced her to Mark her friend she told me about. I was a little pissed but she calmed me down and said it was nothing really. She had him meet them for lunch. He chatted her up and they really hit it off. Lucy thinks he is hot. Her words not mine. He doesn't know she is married and has asked her about Lucy a few times. She said they were going to meet up with him for lunch again. Not a date and Lucy wouldn't know about it.

I said ok. They met and Nova said it was fun. She was holding something back and finally said that she knows they both want to go out with each other. She also said Lucy would never do it behind my back. Nova said I had to make a decision now because he was going to ask her out soon and the other guy was still trying to get her to go out.

I told Lucy I wanted to talk when I got back from a trip I left on. I had plenty of time to read over all the forum it feels like and look into my feelings. We talked and I told her I had thought about what we talked about a month or so ago. She asked me what I was thinking. I told her I was ok with it on a few circumstances.

One she had to be open with me about everything. Two that she be very careful and discrete as we both have reputations to think about. This may not be a big deal as we moved two hours from our old home when the girls started college. Not a lot of friends here. Three that she be honest about her emotions. I told her I knew she would have emotions towards the guy but they can't hurt our relationship. Four that she be careful and safe with anything that she does. I told her that it was all up to her who she dated and what she did as long as the above was followed. Lastly no one could know that we are married that she dates. It would hurt our business if that happened. (She is a grown women and can do what ever she wants and the conversation was not as straight forward as this.)

She said she was great with it all but one thing. She said she had already talked with her friends and the girls about it. She said they had no idea that we had talked. They just think it is a fling she is looking for that I don't know about. I told her that is fine but to please keep it to them. I also told her I was little concerned about the girls knowing. She said they were happy for her. She made sure to let me know that they love me and I was a major concern when the subject came up. I told her ok.

Nova found me the next day and gave me a big hug. She said to call her anytime to talk. We have a few times. She said I am the best husband ever. Lucy also agrees. Mark called her a few days after that. They have talked on phone few times to. She has told me everything and been very open about it. She said she is more nervous than she thought she would be. She said they were going on a double with Nova. It was this weekend and I don't know anything about it yet. I am out of town till tomorrow. She promised to tell me everything then.

She also dropped a bomb on me that she had set up a date with the other guy, Chris from the club. Nova says not to worry that he will fade as she sees Mark. She is seeing Mark friday and alone with Chris on Saturday.

I have a ton of emotions and hope to hear from everyone. I will post when I know something more.

My email is shannonking1168@yahoo.com. I created it for just this reason.

 

[Saraha]

You are very lucky to have Nova as the "go-between" to tell you honestly the situation, so that Lucy does not have to be alone so often.

 

[Eno]

This must be the best possible scenario to get an honest cuckolding relationship on its way! You are indeed to be envied for having such a trustworthy go-between smoothening things out for both of you; with Nova monitoring the events you really have not the slightest thing to worry about.

It's also great that your daughters are aware of your being cuckolded, and at their relatively young age are free-spirited enough to see how this lifestyle will ensure both your wife's and your own happiness, and saveguard your marriage. Which rather than suffer (as it would if their mother were to cheat on you) will actually grow stronger, even if it were only by your wife's gratitude for not grudging her the extramarital sex she needs, and as a married woman is entitled to have.

 

[shannonking1168]

Sunday I got home and Lucy was watching tv. We chatted about my trip and then I swallowed big and asked her about the dates. She seemed to come alive. She started telling me everything. I was little surprised how open she was. I even mentioned that and she said she was just doing what I asked since I was letting her do this.

She met mark at Lucy's house. Nova's husband I should mention never liked me. Nova made him swear to not tell me. They went out to eat at a nice place. He paid for everyone. She said they then went to the movies. She said he was really nice and smelled good. I said that may be a little to much info. She laughed and said that was what Sandy said. She said but if I have to here about her latest boyfriend not liking her diapham in because he hits it then I can tell her this. I said way to much info. I said we will also talk about that later. She better be taking precautions. (None of the three can take birthcontrol.) Comes to find out rhythm method. I am not happy about that. Lucy just says they are to old to boss around. She is right but I want her to be safe.

Anyway she said they held hands during the movie. She said it felt little weird but she liked it. They kissed few times. She said they went back to Nova's and he stayed and talked till late. She stayed the night with Nova. It is a little ways from where we are now. They talked about it the next morning. She said to not be made at Nova for setting them up. She said Nova didn't mean for him to be the one. I knew otherwise of course. Nova confirmed that was how Lucy actually saw it.

They kissed by the car and she came in.

I asked her if they were going out again. She said yes. I said when she said probably Monday since I was going out of town that night. She asked if I was ok with that. I said yes and you can see him as much as you want.

Then she started talking about the date with Chris. I thought she was going to pop. She glowed like a light. She said they went to this little Sushi place. Her favorite food. He fed her a few pieces. They then went back to his place. I was little worried where this was headed. He has a really cool loft apartment near school. He is interning with a bank and making a good salary. He is in last two terms. She said he lite some candles and they danced. She said they kissed. He is good kisser to. Probably little better than Mark. They made out on his couch and then she had to go.

I asked her about a second date and she said yes around the middle of the week. She said you are gone all week again right. I said yes. She said ok.

I had to run by the office to drop off papers before leaving out in the morning. I told her I would be back later. She said she would have a plate for me in fridge. I took the papers and went by Nova's house. She told me about everything too. She added a few things. She caught them kissing during the movie and when she walked him out. She asked me if I was ok with it. I said I was.

Nova had just gotten off the phone with Lucy when I got there. She said so you know about chris too. I said yes. She said he was more aggressive. I know she didn't tell you that part. I got little mad and she said no not like that. He just had hands everywhere. She handled him well. Nova thinks that she likes Chris better right now. She said she hopes that will change soon. I asked her what she had against him. She said nothing but thinks it will be better in the long run with Mark. I asked her how long she thought it would go on. She laughed and said she didn't know but it was going to last a while.

She also said the girls called her. I told her I was little worried about them knowing. She said to stop. They think it is great for her. She told them that she would make sure I didn't find out. She also told me to watch Sandy. She said she is the wild one of the bunch. We talked about that some and then I left. She said she would call my cell after the dates to let me in on what happened.

 

[Saraha]

Lucy is dating two guys already, and time will tell how that works out. Because you are out-of-town so much, Lucy needs regular partners who can give her a steady stream of sex to keep her contented. It should not bother you if she appears to fixate on a guy for a few months at a time, as long as she does not divorce you.

There might come the time where you decide to pick up a bit of skirt, yourself, when you are away to balance things out a bit, as long as you are mindful of the risks of picking up STDs. You might not want to do that now, but in a year or two when you notice how happy your wife is with her double-lifestyle, it could appeal to you.

The day will come when your daughters will admit they know about your cuckolding, and you will find them supportive of it helping your marriage. You will feel pleased they know.

 

[jimtakingplung]

You are lucky to have Nova. Follow her lead and let it just happen.

 

[shannonking1168]

Tuesday around lunch Lucy called. I found a room to be alone and talk. She said they had a good time. He took her to eat and then to his place where she met him. He showed her the apartment but she didn't stay long. He had work the next day. She said Chris wanted to go out tonight. She said he was cooking for her. I told her to have fun and I loved her. I got a call from Nova about 15 minutes later. I was back in my room for a break between meetings.

Nova said you will be glad to know it went good. I told her I just got off phone with Lucy. She said they made out more this time. She said she thinks Lucy will soon like him more. I asked her if she had some kinda bet on this. She laughed and said no. She said Lucy was little shier with her about what happened. She said it was because of our relationship. She convinced her she had nothing to worry about. She said Lucy told her she was starting to have some feelings for him. She said she was not sure how to handle them. Lucy told her to loosen up. Just let it take its course.

She said she didn't have that advice for Chris. She said she told her what she was going to wear. She wanted Nova to let her borrow some shoes for her next time out with him. She had a skirt that she wanted to wear with it. She said she wanted to borrow her street boots. They come to just below the ankle she said. Like a street walker and laughed. She has a few pair like that, but not like these apparently. Women!!!

She said she would let me know what happens tomorrow and she had told Lucy to call her when she got home.

 

[Scottneedsadvice]

Your lucky

I agree with the others. You are so lucky to have Nova.

 

[shannonking1168]

Wednesday I called Lucy during lunch. She was leaving a friends house and said she would call me back in car. She was glad to talk and I knew she was happy. That is something I haven't seen a lot of since girls left. She said he burned the chicken so they just had salad and wine. She said she got little tipsy but sobered up before she left. She said they kissed but didn't do much. She left and came home. We also talked about the girls and school.

After I got off the phone I called Nova. She was little surprised and said she would call me right back. She was on phone with Adrienne. They were talking about Lucy and school. Both are doing really good in school. Nova said she was little concerned with how fast Chris was taking things. I said they haven't gotten further than Will. She said no but he is more pushy. She said do you want to know what Adrienne was told by her. I said what. She said he kept moving her hand down to his pants. She said he is pretty well endowed to hear Lucy tell it.

I was little taken back and Nova apologized for being straight forward about it. I told her it was ok. She asked me how I felt knowing that now. I said I don't know. Little weird obviously. She said well Mark is to. She again said sorry for being so blunt. I told her it was ok. She said I would probably here that so might as well now. I asked her if that was why she set them up together. She said no that was not the reason. I said was it one of the reasons. She said maybe and giggled and said to stop. She said she would call me tomorrow. She was going to get Mark to have dinner with all three of them. I said ok and hung up. Still little nervous about everything. Going faster than I really imagined. She also told me it was about midnight before she left his place.

Lucy called me before my meeting and said she was having dinner at Nova's. I told her to have fun.

Wednesday night they had dinner at Nova's. Nova called me first and said they cooked chicken pasta and made margaritas. She said she wanted her to loosen up. I asked her if that was a good idea. She said the girls agreed it would help her relax. They all had a few pitchers except Mark. He was driving.

After they ate they set around and had drinks. She said they went though a few pitchers. She said it really loosened her up. I said why do you think she isn't loosened up with him. She said Mark mentioned it. She said they were really making out in his car before he left. Mark even called Nova to tell her it went better. He joked a few more would have been better. He went home with blue ball. She said my girls said she shouldn't do that to him. Sandy said she would tell her that. Nova said she was glad to see the girls were handling this so well and not jealous of their mom. She said they are more so than I know.

I then called Lucy before the next meeting. We talked about some bills and then the girls. She then said she was having a girlfriend over for dinner tonight. I said good. She then said she was scheduling a busy weekend with the guys. I told her I loved her. She did the same. I am not going to be back till the next weekend at the earliest. It is a busy time for us right now and I am one person down.

She mentioned us going to see the girls soon. She also made mention of taking them to Mardi gras. We have some friends with a place down there. They are always trying to get us to come. They leave out and we can have the place to our selves. I was against that. She said they are old enough to do that now. If she didn't go with them they would just go by themselves. She then made mention of Sandy saying something she couldn't repeat. I just laughed it off. She then told me they had fun last night. She said she got a little tipsy. I laughed. She said they kissed a lot.

Friday I got a call from Nova. She said Mark and Lucy were going on date number two by themselves. I said two and she said I mean alone. You know what happens on three. It is a running joke with us that it is put out time at that point. I said ya I really haven't that that much about that part. She said you better. Saturday and Sunday is three and four with Chris. She said you ready for that. I was little shocked and she knew it. She said sorry. I doubt anything happens but maybe you should start thinking about it in case it does. I am not sure how I feel about it really.

She said she has also noticed a difference with Lucy. She said she was happier she thought. She said the girls had noticed it to. She said especially Sandy. She said they talked that morning because she needed an address for someone. She said Sandy had talked with her mom that morning and noticed it. She said she also made a few comments. I said like what. She said she said told her mom to quit leaving the guys with blue ball and take care of the problem. She said she was joking. But it sounded like sandy for sure. She asked me if I knew that the girls talk to Lucy about our sex life.

I said no, but it didn't shock me. She said Sandy was starting to push for Chris now. She made comments to Lucy if she thought she could still please a man. The truth is we don't have sex that much anymore. I am on the road a lot and I know she has never really liked it a lot with me. We have other ways that we connect and I have never thought it a big concern. Nova told me it was ok. She knew the situation and it was ok. The whole situation is a long story for another time.

 

[mackem88]

Sounds like the moment of truth is just about to hit you. It can't be to long before she puts out to one or both of these guys.... I hope you can handle it as well as you have handled the rest of the situation, but once she has done the deed there is no going back. I believe your real test is just on the horizon, best of luck and I hope to hear more soon

 

[Saraha]

Tell both Nova nd Lucy that you expect Lucy to take the hint and stop the "blue balls" stuff. Real sex is called for, if she is teasing she should also be pleasing (the guys).

"the truth is we don't have sex that much anymore"..........."I know she never really liked it a lot with me.

Being so honest about your sex life, allows Lucy to spread her wings to enjoy an open marriage. She needs to embrace the opportunity ASAP, she has your blessing.