rolnoles said:
My wife had a best friend about 5 years ago that dated a blackman,she called my wife to talk to her about him (which my wife did not want to do,I would not call her family well Id say rednecks) she was telling my wife how his dick was 9 thick inches and how rough the sex was which turned her on.Well my wife stopped hanging out with her and about 2 years ago they saw each other talked and saw each other every month or so.But latly they are seeing each other weekly more then once.Now thats fine but a year or so ago my wife started wanting 3 fingers in her pussy instead of two then 4 fingers instead of 3 and now she can take my fist
Now im not small by no means close to 8 inches and fairly thick Ive had no complaints and my wife squirts so I know she gets off 90% of the time so sex is very good,but last week I was talking about a tatoo and she was saying how she could not take the pain and her friend brought up piercings that night we talked a little and 5 days later both nipples are pierced
This was not expected by no mean.Then 2 nights ago I came home early and she is smoking which she has not done in 15 years,I thought she might be but still.Now last night we are in bed and we have a satalite that has 8 XXX porn channals and we are messing around and she turns on a int porn and she hardly ever watches white porn so I am not in a good place right now.We have swung many times but are rule is both are their both agree and never behind ones back,I think she has been with a black man without telling me??? I will post pics later but the kids are here now and I cant but tonight or in the morning I will show you the two dildos she wants in her pussy at the same time 2 or 3 times a week.
Rolnoles:
Thank you for sharing those pics of your gorgeous wife. good to see another full-figured woman on here.
Mac has given you some good advice about confronting her about it. Take it. I would approach her by simply saying this: Please tell me if you are seeing another man. I promise I won't be angry, Just tell me the truth and I will not be angry. just lay it out all on the table.
My wife saw this thread and she agrees that your wife could very well be seeing another man sexually. But nothing is 100% conclusive yet. keep that in mind. Or she may be having fun with her girlfriend with different types of dildos or whatever.
I do know that when my wife started seeing her Bulls(Three initially) that it took some while to get use to their size. And her bulls, who happen to be (Two currently) Black men that we both know very well, we work for them at the same company, and we are all best of friends. They never wore condoms either and don't like them as well. Which was not really an issue because we have known them for years, their lifestyle, etc.. The more she got use to them, meaning: how they perform in bed and their size, the more her sex drive went up and her desire for a very well-hung man, bigger toys, more fingers inside her, etc..
Checking her panties is one good way to find out. You can smell the cum odor even if there is not much wetness on the crotch. It was no secret with us in the beginning, One of her Bulls arranged a dinner date for both of them, I knew it beforehand, and it was out in the open between all parties involved.
Even though I had a pretty good idea that he would have sex with her that night, I still checked her panties when she got back home after she went into the bathroom and that confirmed it. The odor was the first give away and of course the crotch being wet.
Be supportive either way because the best thing that can happen from this point forward is that both of you can enter into a fantastic alternative lifestyle that can be quite fullfilling for both of you.
Best,
Melanie and Ryan