When we're out young black men flirt and even hit on her, even tho she's almost 50. She's always flirts back but tells me she'd never do anything, but she had me buy a black dildo. Once after 2 Blacks in their 20's made some very suggestive comments she confessed she fantasized about them taking her to a hotel. When I asked her for more she laughed and said it's only a fantasy and women have them all the time.