Why call a woman a bitch

[drak]

Please can anyone explain to me why if a woman fucks around she is called a *****, a bitch a slut etc, but if a man fucks about its ok people just laugh and say things like he is a hell of a lad, he will fuck anything as long as it stops jumping…………..this really pisses me off, what’s the difference between a woman having fun and a man having fun, if a woman is fucking all the men in the club her reputation will become shit and she will be treated and spoken to like she is no more than an animal, if the man however is fucking all the ladies netball team, oh what a fucking hero.
Its time people put men and woman on the same Plato when it comes to sex, after all we were created this way
What’s every one else’s thoughts on this subject.

 

[mike_the_cuck]

I think it is interesting that you brought this tired conversation to this forums, where the view my most people is probably reversed (My assumption, I do not speak for the Forum). I myself am locked in Chastity, I don't even have the ability to masturbate, while I encourage my Wife to seek sexual pleasure outside of the marriage. I think of women who "cheat" on there husbands as strong confident sexy women. So, your argument probably does not hold true in this community, or at least that has been my experience.

 

[slaved]

This stems from the fact that men gain something by spreading their sperm around. By fucking (and possibly impregnating) as many women as he can he is making sure that his genes are perpetuated. And its easy for him to fuck a woman and drop out of her life. He has very little invested. Depending on the situation, he can skip out without a second thought.

Women, on the other hand, have to invest much more. They can get pregnant which is a 9 month ordeal with profound effects on her physiology and psychology. They get a child they have to take care of. A woman that throws caution to the wind and spreads her legs for anyone because just loves to fuck so much might be considered a bitch, slut, etc because, considering what she has at stake, she is behaving irresponsibly. She doesn't care about the consequences. Fucking with wild abandon with no thought to these consequences makes her a slut or even something akin to a female dog because, like an animal, she's fucking without thinking about what comes next.

This, I believe, is what causes the hypocrisy.

 

[drak]

Gents my intention was not to preach, and it was not meant as comments within our circle, I was looking outside at the people who in my mind are narrow minded and in most cases self centered hypocrites, I my self as married to the most wonderful woman in the whole wide world and for reasons of survival was once a ********** working in the middle east, she worked in the industry to survive and support her family after her first husband died, I hate it when people especially men condemn her for her past when they know little to nothing about what goes on in a persons life, sex is a wonderful thing and if people can share their enjoyment then that does not make them immoral.

Anyway thanks for your comments its appreciated but I wish men and women were looked at equally as for those hypocrites out there it takes two consenting people to have sex, or is it that the men always get ***** by the woman………then it would make sense

 

[slaved]

I know its not necessarily about wild fucking. I was just trying to explain the perception...why it is that there is a double standard. Yes, women might be very deliberate when it comes to being unfaithful. But this isn't what the masses have stuck in their psyche...at least not on the surface.

 

[AlbanySearching]

The existence of a double-standard for men and women is practically as old as sexual reproduction. Genetically and anthropologically, it's the man's duty to spread his seed over as many women as he can charm, overpower, or trick into letting him between their legs. Meanwhile, a woman's responsibility is to only mate with the strongest, fastest, and smartest men she can find. Therefore, from a purely scientific point of view, men are encouraged to sleep around and women are discouraged from it.

As a social commentary it goes back to patriarchal societies dating back almost 4,000 years to when the "god is a man" movement moved from the pagan, woman-centered religions to the current world religions in the middle east and europe. Women were made property in order for men to finally get a leg up, and women were therefore under the thumb of their "owner," be it her father or her husband. Women were forbidden from socializing with other men, lest they get all headstrong and start a new matriarchal society, while men were free to fuck any woman they could find.

And this is why people consider it a tired conversation. It's boring for the most part, and we know the answer already.