Ok, I admit it. I'm a tiny dicked wimp. I put up a good front in public, but I know that my tiny little cock isn't going to really please a woman. My wife has a very sexy body, large sexy breasts with big nipples, a small waist and a nice round curvy ass that is just BEGGING for a man with a REAL cock to fuck her long and hard. The problem is, she doesn't seem that interested in sex, and if I even mention her having sex with another guy she either changes the subject or gets angry. I've even asked a couple of guys to hit on her when I wasn't around just to see if she is only telling me she isn't interested because she thinks that is what she should tell me. She shot them down fast. I really want to find a stud with a BIG cock that has the confidence and skill to find that hidden slut in her and give her what I KNOW she really needs, so he can wake up that sexual animal that's hiding inside of her. So far, nobody has made any serious effort to seduce and nail her and I don't know where to look to find that Don Juan who knows he can get into her panties. We live in a small town (near Athens, GA), so I have to be somewhat discreet, which makes it even harder to find a guy that can handle the job. Where can I find that stud that knows he can seduce a cold fish and bring out the hidden slut in her? Desperately seeking help getting her seduced!
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While I wish you luck and great success in achieving your goal, I must also caution you that there are some women who are just not going to be interested in proceeding in this direction no matter what you give them the freedom to do, and no matter how hard you try to convince them. Hopefully you're not in that position, but just at least recognize that your knowing what she needs, doesn't mean she'll agree with you or comply. She may be quite happy living the way she does now. It's hard to say. The one big no-no though is not to push too hard too fast. That's almost always a guarantee it won't work out. Best of luck to you.
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You sound like a very honest person and you explained things well. All wives can be fucked some are just harder to get to. There could be may reasons why yours has no desire to have sex. Could be she is very disappointed with sex in general as she has never had a good experience from it. Maybe she has never had a torrid sexual relationship and honestly does not know the thrill of it when its hot and good. I have know a few ladies of all ages who had never had a really good fucking and had never had a orgasm. Some of them changed dramatically after getting into it. A couple never did. If she gets some good hot sex with your help she might just like it. I would be very surprised if she did not get into it in a big way. One thing for sure she deserves at least one really good screwing so she can then make her choice if she wish to continue or dry up like an old prune. Good Luck to both of you. okdeacon
You sound like a very honest person and you explained things well. All wives can be fucked some are just harder to get to. There could be may reasons why yours has no desire to have sex. Could be she is very disappointed with sex in general as she has never had a good experience from it. Maybe she has never had a torrid sexual relationship and honestly does not know the thrill of it when its hot and good. I have know a few ladies of all ages who had never had a really good fucking and had never had a orgasm. Some of them changed dramatically after getting into it. A couple never did. If she gets some good hot sex with your help she might just like it. I would be very surprised if she did not get into it in a big way. One thing for sure she deserves at least one really good screwing so she can then make her choice if she wish to continue or dry up like an old prune. Good Luck to both of you. okdeacon
No prunes, please...
Okdeacon, thanks for the message. I agree, its merely finding the right man with the right cock at the right time for the right woman and once he lights her fire, she will take off like a rocket, I'm sure!
She says that sex with me is good and that is all she wants. But she never comes on to me, or initiates sex. I always have to start it or do something suggestive to get her started, so I am sure that it can't be very satisfying to her or she would be the one who initiates things at least some of the time.
I don't believe that she's ever REALLY had the kind of mind blowing sex that her body is craving (even if her mind is in denial). If I could find that "right man with the right cock" for her, I know that she would be forever changed!
I know that she NEEDS it even if she doesn't realize that she does!
So far, I have been completely unsuccessful in finding someone that has the right combination of looks, personality, "equipment" and desire that wants to try to seduce her.
I keep looking but I am afraid that its not going to happen.
Okdeacon, thanks for the message. I agree, its merely finding the right man with the right cock at the right time for the right woman and once he lights her fire, she will take off like a rocket, I'm sure!
She says that sex with me is good and that is all she wants. But she never comes on to me, or initiates sex. I always have to start it or do something suggestive to get her started, so I am sure that it can't be very satisfying to her or she would be the one who initiates things at least some of the time.
I don't believe that she's ever REALLY had the kind of mind blowing sex that her body is craving (even if her mind is in denial). If I could find that "right man with the right cock" for her, I know that she would be forever changed!
I know that she NEEDS it even if she doesn't realize that she does!
So far, I have been completely unsuccessful in finding someone that has the right combination of looks, personality, "equipment" and desire that wants to try to seduce her.
I keep looking but I am afraid that its not going to happen.
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Sure eating her pussy should get her off. I assumed already that you were eating her as every man in the world should be eating his lady. Every lady i have ever met exluding NONE loved to have their pussy eaten. Some i have been told can orgasm this way only. But here we go, anyone can eat pussy, even the ladies can and many do and enjoy doing another woman. But they cant fuck em with a REAL dick. I think about 99.9% of straight women like both to be eaten and fucked by a REAL dick. Now of coarse NOBODY wants you to force your darling wife to take it in the ass, or to fuck any damm man she doesn't want to. SBut smply saying would it not be a low down, dirty down, rotton down, shame if she went through her whole life, without getting royally fucked big time, at least once? Now its very possible that this is the way it will be for her and you may not ever be able to do anything about it. But whatever the outcome is i wish you and her well. For i know that you want her to have a hugh man for several reasons. Some for your sake and some for her sake as you want her to have something you cant give her. That makes you a caring person and not some kind of a crackpot. You will i feel do the very best you can for your wife. Then Sir, thats all you CAN DO. Best Wishes Again okdeacon
Sure eating her pussy should get her off. I assumed already that you were eating her as every man in the world should be eating his lady. Every lady i have ever met exluding NONE loved to have their pussy eaten. Some i have been told can orgasm this way only. But here we go, anyone can eat pussy, even the ladies can and many do and enjoy doing another woman. But they cant fuck em with a REAL dick. I think about 99.9% of straight women like both to be eaten and fucked by a REAL dick. Now of coarse NOBODY wants you to force your darling wife to take it in the ass, or to fuck any damm man she doesn't want to. SBut smply saying would it not be a low down, dirty down, rotton down, shame if she went through her whole life, without getting royally fucked big time, at least once? Now its very possible that this is the way it will be for her and you may not ever be able to do anything about it. But whatever the outcome is i wish you and her well. For i know that you want her to have a hugh man for several reasons. Some for your sake and some for her sake as you want her to have something you cant give her. That makes you a caring person and not some kind of a crackpot. You will i feel do the very best you can for your wife. Then Sir, thats all you CAN DO. Best Wishes Again okdeacon
Nooooo.
AngelBaby, I would NEVER try to force her to do something that she doesn't want to do, and I wouldn't allow someone else to force her. I am looking for the kind of guy who would be able to turn her on and seduce her, so that she voluntarily and willingly let him bed her. What I'm hoping will happen is that she will meet a guy who she can't resist and will realize that she does indeed want other men. I want her to be pleased and pleasured, not drugged and/or *****! I am sorry that I didn't make that clear in my other messages. I want it to be about pleasure, for her, her lover, and myself, and if it is anything else, I wouldn't want anything at all to happen. But thanks for the reply.
AngelBaby, I would NEVER try to force her to do something that she doesn't want to do, and I wouldn't allow someone else to force her. I am looking for the kind of guy who would be able to turn her on and seduce her, so that she voluntarily and willingly let him bed her. What I'm hoping will happen is that she will meet a guy who she can't resist and will realize that she does indeed want other men. I want her to be pleased and pleasured, not drugged and/or *****! I am sorry that I didn't make that clear in my other messages. I want it to be about pleasure, for her, her lover, and myself, and if it is anything else, I wouldn't want anything at all to happen. But thanks for the reply.
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angel has a good point i know you want to see her pleasured and would love to see a mice fat cock in her but if she dont want this just go on and try and do it yourself. and good luck bluntuser@yahoo.com
angel has a good point i know you want to see her pleasured and would love to see a mice fat cock in her but if she dont want this just go on and try and do it yourself. and good luck bluntuser@yahoo.com
I am trying to have my wife seduced.
I enjoyed your post and hope things can progress for you.
My wife and I have talked about cuckolding as I have told her that this is a fantasy of mine and I would love to see her with another man. She knows how I feel about it and that I am very wishful for it to happen. But so far she has not been willing to make it a reality.
I have found the perfect guy to cuckold me. I met with him some time ago and described what I wanted; for him to meet and seduce my wife in front of me and to reduce me to a sissy in her eyes. He was very willing and understanding that this would take time and couldn't be rushed. Over the last year I introduced my wife to him saying that he was someone I knew through work on a project that has since been completed (so there would be no fear of messing around with someone that might interfere with my work or that would get back to any of my co-workers), that we had struck up a friendship. So it was appearing very innocent when he invited us to dinner. The dinner went great and she really enjoyed his company as well as expressed later that she thought he was quite attractive. He dominated the evening by talking mostly to her, engaging her in two-way conversation while allowing me to fade into the background. I could see that they were really hitting it off.
A few months passed before we were able to all find matching times in our schedule to meet again. This time he flew us in his private plane to a great restaurant next to an airport an hour away. She sat in the seat beside him while I sat in the back. He really turned on the charm and gave her some flying lessons. When we got to the destination he helped her out of the plane and walked beside her to the restaurant as I followed behind, almost as if I wasn’t there. When we got to our table he held her chair and acted like he was her date. She really ate it up, even commenting that she was sure everyone there assumed she was with him and I was the third wheel. He made the comment that maybe they should ditch me and they both laughed as I smiled back. It was a very romantic flight back as there was a full moon. I really wished that they had been alone. He played it smooth and didn’t push thing so she was able to relax and enjoy the night. When we said goodnight he gave her a hug and kiss on the cheek which she warmly accepted. On the drive home she couldn’t stop talking about the night. She loved the flight and thought he was so charming.
Unfortunately we were unable to meet up again for several months. I am sure that if we had gotten back together with him right away that things would have progressed quickly. The next time we got together for dinner it seemed most of the time was spent just trying to get back to a comfort level again. After dinner he asked if we wanted to go out for drinks and dancing. She accepted without a look at me. Luck was not with us that night as the place we went to turned out to be against us. Several people she knew through work were there so she wasn’t about to appear to be involved with him, so she stayed closer to me. I could tell that none of us were happen about how it was turning out. He and I excused ourselves to go to the bathroom. While there I told him that I had told her that I had made plans for the next evening to get together with some guy friends and that it would be an opportunity for him to take her out alone.
Later that evening as we were getting ready to leave he asked us if we would like to get together the next evening to continue our fun. I told him that I couldn’t as I had made plans. So he turned to her and asked her if she would join him. She looked at me to see if I was going to say something, realized I wasn’t, then made an excuse that she really needed to stay home to get some work done on a project. He told her to call if she changed her mind. This time when they hugged she turned her head towards him so the kiss landed on her lips. I knew that was no accident. On the way home she asked me what I thought about him asking her out without me. I said that I saw nothing wrong with it. She asked if I really wouldn’t mind if she went out alone with me and I told her I wouldn’t mind at all. She turned and looked ahead and said ‘well, maybe next time’.
We are still trying to make plans to get together again but things just haven’t worked out. He called once when I was gone (I had told him when I would be away) and they talked on the phone for awhile. He knew I was gone the next night as well so he asked her out again. She said she almost said yes but instead backed out again. When I got home and she told me about the conversation she again asked what would I have said if she had said yes to the date. I told her that I thought she should go out with him. So she knows for sure now that I would be in agreement with them going out without me.
The latest twist has been that he and I are trying to set up one more dinner together, this time at his place where I would do the cooking. You see, I am the ‘housewife’ in our marriage where I work out of the home and do all of the cooking and cleaning. On many occasions I have told my wife how much I love being a housewife and she has even bragged to her friends how she has her own wife at home ( and yes, I even dress the part occasionally.). So for our next meeting I am going to be the domestic, cooking and serving the meal to them, cleaning up after as well as serving drinks as they relax. She will really see the two men in different lights. I even have a frilly apron that he is going to ‘insist’ I wear while cooking and serving. I will definitely be the sissy while she is relaxing in the other room with the real man.
So that’s my story to date. I wish it was progressing faster. But if it went too fast my wife would get suspicious and her defenses would go up. This way her seduction appears to be totally him and her with me not involved at all. Maybe someday we will have a cuckold ceremony and he will be the ‘best man’ enjoying her charms.
I enjoyed your post and hope things can progress for you.
My wife and I have talked about cuckolding as I have told her that this is a fantasy of mine and I would love to see her with another man. She knows how I feel about it and that I am very wishful for it to happen. But so far she has not been willing to make it a reality.
I have found the perfect guy to cuckold me. I met with him some time ago and described what I wanted; for him to meet and seduce my wife in front of me and to reduce me to a sissy in her eyes. He was very willing and understanding that this would take time and couldn't be rushed. Over the last year I introduced my wife to him saying that he was someone I knew through work on a project that has since been completed (so there would be no fear of messing around with someone that might interfere with my work or that would get back to any of my co-workers), that we had struck up a friendship. So it was appearing very innocent when he invited us to dinner. The dinner went great and she really enjoyed his company as well as expressed later that she thought he was quite attractive. He dominated the evening by talking mostly to her, engaging her in two-way conversation while allowing me to fade into the background. I could see that they were really hitting it off.
A few months passed before we were able to all find matching times in our schedule to meet again. This time he flew us in his private plane to a great restaurant next to an airport an hour away. She sat in the seat beside him while I sat in the back. He really turned on the charm and gave her some flying lessons. When we got to the destination he helped her out of the plane and walked beside her to the restaurant as I followed behind, almost as if I wasn’t there. When we got to our table he held her chair and acted like he was her date. She really ate it up, even commenting that she was sure everyone there assumed she was with him and I was the third wheel. He made the comment that maybe they should ditch me and they both laughed as I smiled back. It was a very romantic flight back as there was a full moon. I really wished that they had been alone. He played it smooth and didn’t push thing so she was able to relax and enjoy the night. When we said goodnight he gave her a hug and kiss on the cheek which she warmly accepted. On the drive home she couldn’t stop talking about the night. She loved the flight and thought he was so charming.
Unfortunately we were unable to meet up again for several months. I am sure that if we had gotten back together with him right away that things would have progressed quickly. The next time we got together for dinner it seemed most of the time was spent just trying to get back to a comfort level again. After dinner he asked if we wanted to go out for drinks and dancing. She accepted without a look at me. Luck was not with us that night as the place we went to turned out to be against us. Several people she knew through work were there so she wasn’t about to appear to be involved with him, so she stayed closer to me. I could tell that none of us were happen about how it was turning out. He and I excused ourselves to go to the bathroom. While there I told him that I had told her that I had made plans for the next evening to get together with some guy friends and that it would be an opportunity for him to take her out alone.
Later that evening as we were getting ready to leave he asked us if we would like to get together the next evening to continue our fun. I told him that I couldn’t as I had made plans. So he turned to her and asked her if she would join him. She looked at me to see if I was going to say something, realized I wasn’t, then made an excuse that she really needed to stay home to get some work done on a project. He told her to call if she changed her mind. This time when they hugged she turned her head towards him so the kiss landed on her lips. I knew that was no accident. On the way home she asked me what I thought about him asking her out without me. I said that I saw nothing wrong with it. She asked if I really wouldn’t mind if she went out alone with me and I told her I wouldn’t mind at all. She turned and looked ahead and said ‘well, maybe next time’.
We are still trying to make plans to get together again but things just haven’t worked out. He called once when I was gone (I had told him when I would be away) and they talked on the phone for awhile. He knew I was gone the next night as well so he asked her out again. She said she almost said yes but instead backed out again. When I got home and she told me about the conversation she again asked what would I have said if she had said yes to the date. I told her that I thought she should go out with him. So she knows for sure now that I would be in agreement with them going out without me.
The latest twist has been that he and I are trying to set up one more dinner together, this time at his place where I would do the cooking. You see, I am the ‘housewife’ in our marriage where I work out of the home and do all of the cooking and cleaning. On many occasions I have told my wife how much I love being a housewife and she has even bragged to her friends how she has her own wife at home ( and yes, I even dress the part occasionally.). So for our next meeting I am going to be the domestic, cooking and serving the meal to them, cleaning up after as well as serving drinks as they relax. She will really see the two men in different lights. I even have a frilly apron that he is going to ‘insist’ I wear while cooking and serving. I will definitely be the sissy while she is relaxing in the other room with the real man.
So that’s my story to date. I wish it was progressing faster. But if it went too fast my wife would get suspicious and her defenses would go up. This way her seduction appears to be totally him and her with me not involved at all. Maybe someday we will have a cuckold ceremony and he will be the ‘best man’ enjoying her charms.
Thanks
Bevw, that was a very interesting post, I enjoyed reading it!
I would like to thank everyone who posted suggestions, I appreciate your comments.
In closing, I would like to make one final observation. I, like others, have been a "lurker" here for a while now. I have seen quite a few people post messages here, some of them somewhat extreme (at least to me). But I can understand the reluctance of some to post messages for fear of being flamed or insulted or accused of being strange, and left to feel outcast.
Some people seem to think that there are a clear cut set of "rules" that you have to go by or you aren't "really" this or "really" that. I believe that there are extremes that I wouldn't want to go to, but that some others might find totally acceptable, so I try to keep my own limitations from interfering with other peoples pleasures.
Most of the people who post here, and most of the replies to my messages, have been supportive or cautionary or suggestive and that is always helpful in giving a person insight about situations that they may be getting into.
I do not, however, believe that smug, sarcastic, preachy, or insulting comments are at all helpful, and would suggest that those kinds of comments are counter productive and are best kept to one's self. I also believe that people should not presume to know what another's motivations or desires are without getting to know them and their situation better, as it is VERY easy to be misunderstood when using plain text to convey your ideas. Before one jumps to conclusions, it is usually better to ask questions and to keep an open mind about things, and it is also good to realize that even if YOU don't agree with what someone else likes or wants, it doesn't make YOU any more right or wrong than they are. As long as you aren't breaking any laws, I wouldn't presume to compare what you are doing (or wanting to try) to something that is obviously illegal and just plain wrong.
I will, in the future, be more like the other "lurkers" and keep my posts to a minimum.
Thanks again to all of you who contributed.
Bevw, that was a very interesting post, I enjoyed reading it!
I would like to thank everyone who posted suggestions, I appreciate your comments.
In closing, I would like to make one final observation. I, like others, have been a "lurker" here for a while now. I have seen quite a few people post messages here, some of them somewhat extreme (at least to me). But I can understand the reluctance of some to post messages for fear of being flamed or insulted or accused of being strange, and left to feel outcast.
Some people seem to think that there are a clear cut set of "rules" that you have to go by or you aren't "really" this or "really" that. I believe that there are extremes that I wouldn't want to go to, but that some others might find totally acceptable, so I try to keep my own limitations from interfering with other peoples pleasures.
Most of the people who post here, and most of the replies to my messages, have been supportive or cautionary or suggestive and that is always helpful in giving a person insight about situations that they may be getting into.
I do not, however, believe that smug, sarcastic, preachy, or insulting comments are at all helpful, and would suggest that those kinds of comments are counter productive and are best kept to one's self. I also believe that people should not presume to know what another's motivations or desires are without getting to know them and their situation better, as it is VERY easy to be misunderstood when using plain text to convey your ideas. Before one jumps to conclusions, it is usually better to ask questions and to keep an open mind about things, and it is also good to realize that even if YOU don't agree with what someone else likes or wants, it doesn't make YOU any more right or wrong than they are. As long as you aren't breaking any laws, I wouldn't presume to compare what you are doing (or wanting to try) to something that is obviously illegal and just plain wrong.
I will, in the future, be more like the other "lurkers" and keep my posts to a minimum.
Thanks again to all of you who contributed.
secretsissywimp,
I hope you will continue to post. Since in this forum no one knows who really posts what, it gives some the opportunity to be critical, smug, sarcastic and insulting. If I have come across that way, I am sorry.
Listen to those who are trying to help. I think they constitute the majority.
Posting and replying make this forum a more enjoyable place, and I, for one, really enjoy reading about other's journey through this cuckold experience. It's good to be able to share the experience!
I hope you will continue to post. Since in this forum no one knows who really posts what, it gives some the opportunity to be critical, smug, sarcastic and insulting. If I have come across that way, I am sorry.
Listen to those who are trying to help. I think they constitute the majority.
Posting and replying make this forum a more enjoyable place, and I, for one, really enjoy reading about other's journey through this cuckold experience. It's good to be able to share the experience!
