What ought I have done?

[siscuk]

Many years ago when my wife had just gone to the hospital to have our first child my mother-in-law stayed in our apartment; she was going to help once my wife and the baby came back from the hospital.
After my mother-in-law had been there several days I went into our one bathroom. Lying on top of the sink was a very, very large diaphragm--twice as wide as the one my wife used.
Because I was busy taking exams for my graduate program, I did nothing. I simply left the diaphragm where it was. I said nothing to my mother-in-law. I did not believe that she had been wearing the diaphragm in her vagina the all of the several days she had been in our apartment.
She was a buxom woman and I thought she was sexy looking. Should I have picked the diaphragm up, carried it with me, then showed it to her and said something about the landlord might show up and want to use the bathroom?
I wonder if she knew how horny I was because I had gone without any fucking for a few weeks. I did not want to cause any difficulty with her or her husband, yet I have always had lovely fantasies about what would have happened if I had shown it to her.
Would she have asked me if I knew what is was and where it belonged? I wonder if she would have told me to put it where it belonged? She could have made me a sex slave sissy immediately. Evern now, decades later, the thought is highly exciting.

 

[Puller]

From your account of events I think you had a woman staying with you that expected a sex-starved man to make a pass at her, and one she would welcome and respond to.

She went home unsatisfied and probably a bit pissed with you. We all remember these incidents years later and probably feel a bit foolish for being stupid and not recognising them.

 

[Custer Laststand]

Intriguing, but I guess now it's just water under the bridge....

Siscuk,

Many years ago when my wife had just gone to the hospital to have our first child, my mother-in-law stayed in our apartment; she was going to help once my wife and the baby came back from the hospital.

Nothing unusual about that. Mother's-in-law do that sort of thing....

After my mother-in-law had been there several days I went into our one bathroom. Lying on top of the sink was a very, very large diaphragm--twice as wide as the one my wife used.

Nice.... it does sound like that was something of a message to you.

Because I was busy taking exams for my graduate program, I did nothing. I simply left the diaphragm where it was. I said nothing to my mother-in-law.

Oh-oh. Another (potential) opportunity lost due to preoccupation with the exigencies of reality.

I did not believe that she had been wearing the diaphragm in her vagina the all of the several days she had been in our apartment.

Sounds speculative. Maybe she was, thinking an opportunity for a quickie might arise.... you know, a "moment of passion, it just happened" type of thing.

She was a buxom woman and I thought she was sexy looking.

Hm.... more important, perhaps she actually was (/is?) sexual in a psychological sense.

Should I have picked the diaphragm up, carried it with me, then showed it to her and said something about the landlord might show up and want to use the bathroom?

Probably not, since she would have interpreted the possibility of your landlord arbitrarily showing up "to use your bathroom" as implausible — and thus, may have interpreted that as an expression of disapproval on your part. A more neutral, nonjudgmental approach, I suggest, would have been to ask her if she realized she had left her diaphragm out in the bathroom. Her response would have enabled you to get a reading, so to speak, of her thoughts — and may possibly have led to more (or not).

I wonder if she knew how horny I was because I had gone without any fucking for a few weeks.

Yes, she certainly would have been aware of that. Also — more relevant to her — she was probably horny herself.

I did not want to cause any difficulty with her or her husband, yet I have always had lovely fantasies about what would have happened if I had shown it to her.

Ah, always there are risks....

Would she have asked me if I knew what is was and where it belonged? I wonder if she would have told me to put it where it belonged?

I guess that's among the things you would know only if you had asked her.

She could have made me a sex slave sissy immediately. Even now, decades later, the thought is highly exciting.

It's good to have interesting and intriguing memories of the past, but now it's just water under the bridge.

BTW, since your adopted screen name is "Siscuk," has your wife gone on to make you her cuckold.... and perhaps her sissy cuckold, as well?

—Custer

 

[Son of John]

Mother-in-law

In my opinion, you did the right thing by not responding to whatever signals she may have put-out. This kind of thing could have really messed-up the relationships all the way around.

If you were feeling deprived while your wife was "out of commission", there was one obvious way to handle it. MASTURBATE!! Masturbation is nature's safety valve to keep guys from going wild when they can't fuck a woman!