I finally talked my girl into doing this but not with a bbc like i want. However i already made my mind up on letting her do it with a guy of her choice. just wanted to see if you all think its a good start. I want her to feel confortable then when she gets used to it then say to her agian " well what about some bbc". I think im off to a good start what do you think? It has take over a year just to get her to consider it.