What do I do now?

[straponkid]

My wife and I have been married for 10 years and together for 16. Neither of us has had any sort of sex with anyone else in this time period. However, all of these years I have fantasized of her fucking other guys in front of me! I get so horny thinking of another big cock satisfying her in front of me and then she makes me eat the cum from her pussy! We are now in our mid and late 30's and she is still so damn hot! In the last two weeks, when we were having sex she asked me what my fantasies were...I didnt know what to say, because I didnt know how she would react, but I told her that many men fantasize of their wife being fucked by another man. To my surprise she was not even fazed, and said "Is that what you fantasize about?" I told her that I did and it made me so hot thinking about it. She then started sucking my cock and asked me to tell her about it. So I told her that we would be at a bar and I would leave to go to the restroom. When I returned I see her talking to a young male, and stand in the shadows to see what was going to happen. I then told her that he told her how hot she was and he really wanted to fuck her! Again, she asked me to tell her more, and I could tell she was really getting horny by the way she was sucking my cock. So I told her that he began to kiss her and asked her to go to another room in the club. So he leads her to another room and I follow behind without her seeing me. They get into the room and he begins to kiss her forcefully, telling her how hot she is and he wants to fuck her. As I tell her this she gives out a moan, like she was really getting into it. So I go on and say that he lays her down on a couch and undresses her, ******** her pussy to anyone that may be looking in the room. This time she moans louder and I know she is really into it. So I say that she begins to suck his massive cock and balls and she looks over and see's me watching. She then asked me "Do you run in and kick his ass?", and I tell her, no, that I am very turned on by the thought and keep watching! She gives a sound of approval and I keep on going with the story. I won't bore everyone here with all of the rest of the story but I did reveal that I was so turned on by telling her this, and she said that she was more turned on than she ever was before and we had the most incredible sex! She asked me if I would join in and I said yes, after watching for a while, and she asked me if I would suck his dick or let him suck mine. I didnt know what to say, and told her that it would depend on how turned on I was, but probably. She was so excited by that answer.

Now this is my problem. I dont know if I could really tolerate this happening, but I am so excited by the thought. We have a couple of young kids and NEVER get to go out, but this afternoon she called me and said she was going to go out with friends to a bar for a few drinks, and would be home late! Im afraid that she may be taking this as permission to fuck other guys, in fact, I saw a pair of her panties in the laundry basket, and I swear there was dried cum in them, but I am not sure. She works in a hospital around a lot of doctors and I know their reputation, so I am suspicious that I unleashed a monster. I dont know what to do now. Anyone have any advice?

 

[PAC496]

Well you could talk about the situation when she gets home, and tell her you were excited to hear she went out and is there anything to share.

 

[Saraha]

You have voiced your approval to her, and she has been persuaded to take your advice. Suck the gusset in her panties in the laundry basket and imagine what must have taken place for the cum to get there. Ask her is she would like some new clothes, so she can feel extra sexy like in your stories.

Don't get cold feet - the horny Doctors will realise she is vibrating "fuck me" in their body language when she is around them. Doctors work long hours - your wife will reward them (and you should be very pleased she is, coz you might need (and get) prefential medical help from them one day).

Your sexy wife will always come home to you if you treat her really well - even if her cunt is dripping sperm when she arrives home for a coffee, your tongue and your deposit.

 

[ffred]

You initiated the start, now follow the signs

Great story, I like it.

Beside the fact, that maybe she implements your fantasy without you present, it seems that all your withes should become reality. Don't get cold feet, follow the direction you wanted to go!

At the beginning we also planned to have our games with me present. But we tried amd all the dominant men we met lost their dominance when they heard that hubby would like to be present. So we had to take a decition either to do it without me present or to stop it.

We decided to do it with her alone and afterwards she told me all the details of her adventure. Beleive me, also this kind of adventure can bevery exciting!! Nowadays after 2 years of playing I would not like to change it. Sure, sometimes I have the possibility to watch, but waiting for her comming home in her "dirty" condition is my favourite!!

Please keep us informed, we want to know how you proceed!

fred

 

[Custer Laststand]

Sounds like the train is leaving the station....

Straponkid,

My wife and I have been married for 10 years and together for 16. .... However, all of these years I have fantasized of her fucking other guys in front of me! .... In the last two weeks, when we were having sex she asked me what my fantasies were...I didn't know what to say, because I didn't know how she would react. .... She then started sucking my cock and asked me to tell her about it....

That's very cool. As any married woman and many unmarried women could tell you, women are much better than men at "multitasking." Clearly, your wife knew that if she began sucking your cock you would tell her more and more about your fantasy.... so in a masterful demonstration of her talent, she pretended to focus on sucking you off while, in reality, concentrating on what you were saying, how you were saying it and, in essence, urging you on to say more and more. Brilliant....

So I told her ....etc.... [then I] revealed that I was [very] turned on by telling her this, and she said she was more turned on than she ever was before and we had the most incredible sex!

Ah.... despite your inhibitions, you responded to your wife's strategy by telling her your innermost secret, and it appears to have been exactly what she wanted to hear. She rewarded you for your confession by giving you, as you put it, "the most incredible sex!"

She asked me if I would join in and I said yes, after watching for a while, then she asked me if I would suck his dick or let him suck mine. I didn't know what to say, and told her .... probably. She was so excited by that answer.

Ah.... your wife elicited another confession from you. Again, you told her what she wanted to hear. As suggested by Fred, though, I suspect "joining in" will turn out to have been wishful thinking.

Now this is my problem. I don't know if I could really tolerate this happening, but I am so excited by the thought. We have a couple of young kids and NEVER get to go out, but this afternoon she called me and said she was going to go out with friends to a bar for a few drinks, and would be home late! I'm afraid that she may be taking this as permission to fuck other guys, in fact, I saw a pair of her panties in the laundry basket, and I swear there was dried cum in them, but I am not sure.

Hm.... so, having allowed yourself to confess your innermost secrets to your wife in response to her strategy-you-couldn't-refuse, it sounds like you're experiencing mental anguish and psychological conflict over the probable consequence.... which may already be in progress.

I suggest you will be best off to adapt yourself to the (apparent) fact that the train is leaving the station, and tell your wife, softly and sincerely, that you understand her need to expand her horizons away from you and your children; that the fantasy you confessed to her was something you have thought about for a long time; and you want her to understand she should consider it among her prerogatives, as your wife, to date and have sex with other men.... and you hope she will agree, and do so. Then, go on to point out that this would solve several problems.

First, the problem of you not being able to take her out because of your children will be solved, because other men will do that — AND, almost certainly, they will pay the cost of her dates. Second, your role as her cuckold husband will include staying home and caring for your children, so the cost and inconvenience of finding and hiring babysitters will vanish. Third, while men can and do satisfy themselves sexually by masturbating frequently, women have a greater need for the intense emotional highs that come with frequent sexual interaction with a variety of lovers. Point out that if she dates and takes lovers, while you remain faithful to her, this will solve that problem for her while maintaining the stability of a home and a husband (you) who supports her emotionally and ensures your children are cared for. Finally, I suggest emphasizing to your wife that your love for her does not depend on sexual exclusivity.... that if she takes lovers, that will not diminish but rather will enhance your love for her, and will not serve as an excuse for you to pursue other women.

She works in a hospital around a lot of doctors and I know their reputation.... anyone have any advice?

Your wife's situation sounds optimal.... apparently she will not have difficulties finding lovers. Also, most M.D.'s are married and have responsibilities to their own wives and children, so the probability of losing her to one of them is, I would guess, relatively small. This is something you need to discuss with her, however. Ideally, she should take several lovers (the number to be defined by her preferences and capacity), to minimize the chances of becoming emotionally attached to any one of them. I suggest it's important to have an understanding with your wife that her extramarital liaisons will be for sexual satisfaction only.

Good luck!

—Custer

 

[Ballspanking]

Unleashed a monster?
No, not necessarily.
You could keep it a fantasy and have it spice up your sex life.

Reality is far more problematic and not nearly as problem-free as fantasy. If, at some point the two of you decide to proceed with actually playing it out, it will likely take quite a bit of preparation, and will probably proceed gradually, so you can make further determinations about the degree of your involvement as you move forward.