That's just it.
I'm not saying I disagree with it. We all want the best for the ones we love. And that's why mother in laws may be so fussy about their offsprings partners.
But this is why your average dark skinned guy doesn't get much of a look in to your wife, or your loved one.
Whether its his appearance, or his dick size, his personality, or his following.
The average dark skinned guy is just that. Average.
And the ones below average rarely get a mention. And yet they're at least half the population.
This is what I find objectionable in all those BNWO porn posts. They often portray dark skinned men, who have giant penises, and giant macho personalities. But they're so rare. This leaves the majority of dark skinned men in the cold.
Most dark skinned guys are like you and I. They may be average endowed (or smaller), they may be hen pecked, tired. They may be bisexual or submissive, or closeted, or gay, or even transsexual.
But the vast majority, like all of us, don't have much choice of pussy (or cock), and just don't bother.