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Want my wife to have a black baby
- Thread starterjdbassin
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Some things are better left to fantasy and not acted upon.
The desire for your wife to have an interracial child is stepping over the line as it involves an inocent child who who has to live with the result of you actions
IMO, you have a self esteem problem that is ouside the realm of the cuckold/hot wife lifestyle.
I stongly suggest you get some profesional help or at least have a serious discussion with you wife about it.
If you enjoy your wife having a black boyfriend who will frequenly fuck her to abandonment and humiliate you fine but, keep the children out of it
The desire for your wife to have an interracial child is stepping over the line as it involves an inocent child who who has to live with the result of you actions
IMO, you have a self esteem problem that is ouside the realm of the cuckold/hot wife lifestyle.
I stongly suggest you get some profesional help or at least have a serious discussion with you wife about it.
If you enjoy your wife having a black boyfriend who will frequenly fuck her to abandonment and humiliate you fine but, keep the children out of it
Each to their own I say.
JD: Consider any ramifications of your wife being black bred (e.g. family reactions, etc.) and speak to your wife about this. If you want to continue then your wife needs to be off birth control and be fucked bareback. You will need to chose a breeder who is Disease and drug free, to be on the safe side. Good luck and let us know what happens.
JD: Consider any ramifications of your wife being black bred (e.g. family reactions, etc.) and speak to your wife about this. If you want to continue then your wife needs to be off birth control and be fucked bareback. You will need to chose a breeder who is Disease and drug free, to be on the safe side. Good luck and let us know what happens.
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While I am very glad to see some people saying "Stop and think", I am a little appalled at the number of people who also make some big assumptions and attack rather than guide or advise.
That being said I have to say, "Slow down here Jeff". Raising a child is a difficult, involved and life altering experience! Let alone an interracial child. No child should be brought into this world to get a "fix" for a sexual desire. However, if your wife and you are seriously considering a child, there is still MORE to consider. I myself am unable to have children (because chemotherapy left me sterile) and I personally get very hot at the thought - BUT - I wouldn't act it out on a whim.
I've talked with couples who are raising interracial children, taken multicultural education classes and even studied racial and child development. Here are some thoughts to consider if you BOTH have talked it over and are serious:
1. Does the wife know? Has she agreed? If no to either - STOP there.
2. Does the bf/lover/bull know? How involved do you two want him with the child after it's born? Will you tell the child (he will wonder why this man is always around)? Will he be legally liable for support? Have you thought of the legal ramifications of the fact that he legally has the right to the child too? Even if you all agreed to living, support, etc in the beginning - HE could fight for custody, etc.
3. An interracial child almost faces a double whammy socially. Many whites won't want to include it as "white" and many blacks will think the baby is too "white". Interracial children walk both worlds and develop two racial identities which can become difficult.
4. Family and friends are going to wonder and possibly freak out. Many may not only distance you, but the child as well. And the child will wonder why family doesn't want them around.
5. Will you provide playmates and role-models from both black and white communities? Can you help ensure the child gets a proper self-image?
6. Do you *WANT* a child, or just want your wife pregnant? Again, this is another where if you do not *WANT* a child - STOP right now.
I know where you are coming from Jeff, I too get extremely excited at the thought of my wife pregnant with a black baby, but we also WANT a child, and I cannot provide. We've talked about these issues, and talked with others about them. We've even talked with friends and family how they'd feel as well if we adopted or used a black donor (the details of how we got the donation excluded of course).
Just saying, think about it. And to the others - don't just yell, or berate - actually use your brain and give some constructive criticism. There are many that would think us freaks for just being here, so cool down.
That being said I have to say, "Slow down here Jeff". Raising a child is a difficult, involved and life altering experience! Let alone an interracial child. No child should be brought into this world to get a "fix" for a sexual desire. However, if your wife and you are seriously considering a child, there is still MORE to consider. I myself am unable to have children (because chemotherapy left me sterile) and I personally get very hot at the thought - BUT - I wouldn't act it out on a whim.
I've talked with couples who are raising interracial children, taken multicultural education classes and even studied racial and child development. Here are some thoughts to consider if you BOTH have talked it over and are serious:
1. Does the wife know? Has she agreed? If no to either - STOP there.
2. Does the bf/lover/bull know? How involved do you two want him with the child after it's born? Will you tell the child (he will wonder why this man is always around)? Will he be legally liable for support? Have you thought of the legal ramifications of the fact that he legally has the right to the child too? Even if you all agreed to living, support, etc in the beginning - HE could fight for custody, etc.
3. An interracial child almost faces a double whammy socially. Many whites won't want to include it as "white" and many blacks will think the baby is too "white". Interracial children walk both worlds and develop two racial identities which can become difficult.
4. Family and friends are going to wonder and possibly freak out. Many may not only distance you, but the child as well. And the child will wonder why family doesn't want them around.
5. Will you provide playmates and role-models from both black and white communities? Can you help ensure the child gets a proper self-image?
6. Do you *WANT* a child, or just want your wife pregnant? Again, this is another where if you do not *WANT* a child - STOP right now.
I know where you are coming from Jeff, I too get extremely excited at the thought of my wife pregnant with a black baby, but we also WANT a child, and I cannot provide. We've talked about these issues, and talked with others about them. We've even talked with friends and family how they'd feel as well if we adopted or used a black donor (the details of how we got the donation excluded of course).
Just saying, think about it. And to the others - don't just yell, or berate - actually use your brain and give some constructive criticism. There are many that would think us freaks for just being here, so cool down.
I have to ask the motivations here?
Help us understand why you want this? You say you "used" to be a swinger, but now realize you are a cuckold. Wife sharing and cuckoldry are quite different in that the cuckold many times does not have sex with his "wife/mistress" in the traditional sense and is either unable, or just does not want to have sex with a woman. Frankly many of us enjoy being with other sissies or men much more than women. I am curious because it seems there are so many interracial children being born in my area, and yes they are beautifull, but the issue of fisical responsibility has to be address. I see so many white grandmothers caring for the infant?? it makes me wonder who is bearing the responsibility.
The latest figures I have indicate it will cost $250,000. to get a child thru High School, and $500,000.00 to see a child thru collage, fifteen (15) years hence, and you do not want to know about Graduate School.
I am asking, can you, will you, accept this responsibility?? I personally feel persons in this life style should avoid having children, and leave them out of your life. I hate to say this, and I am speaking of my limited experience only, but swinger, cuckold couples, have A high devorce rate.
jdbassin said:
Help us understand why you want this? You say you "used" to be a swinger, but now realize you are a cuckold. Wife sharing and cuckoldry are quite different in that the cuckold many times does not have sex with his "wife/mistress" in the traditional sense and is either unable, or just does not want to have sex with a woman. Frankly many of us enjoy being with other sissies or men much more than women. I am curious because it seems there are so many interracial children being born in my area, and yes they are beautifull, but the issue of fisical responsibility has to be address. I see so many white grandmothers caring for the infant?? it makes me wonder who is bearing the responsibility.
The latest figures I have indicate it will cost $250,000. to get a child thru High School, and $500,000.00 to see a child thru collage, fifteen (15) years hence, and you do not want to know about Graduate School.
I am asking, can you, will you, accept this responsibility?? I personally feel persons in this life style should avoid having children, and leave them out of your life. I hate to say this, and I am speaking of my limited experience only, but swinger, cuckold couples, have A high devorce rate.
PLEASE think of the CHILD... that's all I ask before you go about, breeding your wife to another man is one thing, an BLACK BABY to a white woman is not something you both can hide, and I personally don't care about your problems, or to an extent hers, but the CHILD, it could and most likely WILL cause serious issues for them growing up. When it's your life, fine, let the whole town know you submit to black men using your wife, but now you're talking about the life of an innocent soul, whom you will bring in this world, in this position, without HIS choice in the matter.
I understand your wanting a beautiful black baby from your white wife. IF you are both agreeable to this, and you can afford it... go for it!
It is the ultimate expression of love for you to raise the black babies your wife makes as your own.
I would love a wife who would give me many beautiful black babies.
It is the ultimate expression of love for you to raise the black babies your wife makes as your own.
I would love a wife who would give me many beautiful black babies.
