jdroger said:
Ok, not trying to be the anti-conformist here, but I hear this notion frequently and I just don't understand the first point at all. I've read/heard this opinion several times out here and elsewhere, so I know it's a common perception. However, what kind of power does the woman truly have if the person is a true cuck? I mean, to subjugate someone who is weaker? Or if not a weakling, someone who just likes to be subjugated and submissive? Just sounds like a bully with a personality disorder to me.
Fantasy is one thing, but if this is reality, then I'm not getting it. Seems as though the woman is too scared (not strong enough) to find someone who can be an equal or more and uses the cuck as her safety net in the world because of that fear, and the man is just accepting his "perception" that he is inferior.
Just thought I'd make this more clear. All power could be said to be illusion, only above, you said if the cuck is weaker... then, bully or not, that is the relationship: She is strong, he is weak- there is no illusion.
If he is a husband who
likes it, well, that's the point- it is something that turns hims on.
It is your last statement I do not understand. Why would you not get it if it is reality but get it if it were fantasy, if you don't approve of either to begin with?
Having said all that, I do believe that this is all illusion. I just do not think it is more so than most other relationship roles. In fact, that is why I believe the cuckold lifestyle is more reality than anything else and one may as well embrace it. Some studies say that with more college educated women, more wives are having affairs than men and the difference is growing.
I have always believed that, when it comes to sex, women have all the power (barring physical force). Look at all the porn and ************, look at the graffiti in boys' bathrooms- we need it and women get to say when we get it. Supply and demand, they got more than they want sometimes so their demand is low. When they demand- the supply of healthy, willing sperm donors gives them the choice to pick the the best, most virile. Some study somehow proved that when a woman ovulates, she will be most attracted to the biggest, most square-jawed he-man in the room. When she is not in her moon, she is more wary of would-be players and wants a more secure man (whom she can always cuck later- my spin). Having had women pulled from my arms enough times (who willingly let their grasp slip) by some better man, I believe it.