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The care and feeding of a cuckhold hubby

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After years of marriage and playing in the BDSM community, my husband tells me that he'd like to watch other men fuck me...and then serve them.

I was only annoyed that it took him 13 years to say it, we could have been getting extra cock all along the line!!! The nerve! Anyway... *grin*

As he has a very large penis; and has no problem whatsoever satisfying me; two of the main (it appears) reasons to humiliate him are gone. Actually...he's a great, loving, submissive husband....it appears that we're BOTH hosebeasts. That's quite cool with me, I would love to watch him serve a man who also fucks me.

I am getting in touch with bisexual local men who would like to perform with both of us, but being new to this "sport", I am unfamiliar with the "rules and traditions" of it.

I am delighted at the prospect of new fun with hubby...but I am new to this specific "kink" and I would appreciate advice from anyone who feels they would like to share!

With any luck; we meet a man in two days!!! (fingers crossed)

So, cucks, tell a hot wifey what it is that you like the most about your servitude. Wives, have any advice for a newbie? Bulls? How do you handle it when the cuck hubby has huge dick?

Thanks in advance!!!
 
I have a huge dick, and have been a bull. I've also shared my women with other men and have cuckold tendencies (see my thread, "I'm a new member..., on this page).

Even though I'm very good at pleasing women with my touch, mouth, fingers, and with my great big dick, I'd want my woman to tell me that her lover is better at pleasing her and makong her cum. It probably would be a lie, but I don't care. I'd want her to fuck other men and say it was because she wanted a real man, a man who fucked her like she wanted.

I've been a military pilot, an airline pilot, an infantry officer, an EMT, and an attorney. I'm an Alpha-male type guy, but I'd want my woman to tell me that she needed to go out while I watched her kids so she could find a stranger to slip his bare cock deep into her and fill her with his cum. She'd (I hope) come back and rub her cummy pussy on my mouth as she straddled me, then tell me to get myself off as she was "too tired".

So, he may be hung like me, he may be (like me) expert in pleasuring women, but tell him he's not able to satisfy you, and that you need to fuck other men who make you feel like a woman, and he'll love you for it. I would. I'd buy you dresses and lingerie to wear when you went out to meet or find other men, knowing you'd be fillede with their cocks and cum.

Does this help?
 
I'd also want to serve you and your lover, sucking him hard to fuck you as you two kissed, and lick you both clean after he fucks you, then suck him hard so he could fuck you again. As he fucked you, I'd slide into a 69 underneith you and lick your pussy and his cock as he fucked you.

Maybe you'd want to be alone with him and I'd have to sleep on the couch or in a guest bedroom as he fucked you in out marital bed. I'd want that. Again, see my "I'm a new member" thread on this page.

I loved watching my laast serious girlfriend, C., take other men between her legs, which she loved. We both felt cheated if they didn't fuck her bareback and fill her little pussy with their cum. She wanted me to lick their seed out of her, and so I did, and we bot loved it. Our favorite thing was to ger her filled with other men's cum and for me to lick her clean.
 
Yes, thank you! He is happy and excited about it, but it has taken him years of exploring our kinky sides to come out with this. You usually don't start with genital torture and thirteen years later admit you like being cuckhold. *sigh* Silly creature. He is so...round about in trying to say what it is he wants in this aspect. He is a dirty old man, and I love him that way! I told him I have great faith in him, and his ability to suck cock. *wink*

I can understand the part about telling him he's a lousey lover and I needed a real man with a real dick....it's kind of "fake humiliation" because he knows it's not true; that kind of thing I can shamelessly accomplish. I don't want to hurt him "for real" even though I have been known to hang heavy weights from his testicles. They're a lot tougher than his feelings.

I probably worry too much about his feelings, as he loves humiliation, and I am a normally chronically kind and easy-go-lucky. I think that just listening to me say nasty things I "never" say would be a turn on. I just want a list of his "false achilles heel" so to speak.

I remember when I had a brief affair (with his knowledge) that he seemed to be terribly interested in the details of where, when and how. Not like he was upset...like he was engrossed. He would watch me shave and get ready, and ask what i was going to be wearing. If I were a little sharper upstairs, I would have figured it out without him having to cough it up.

There were several times I went camping that I had sex in a tent next to ours with a man, and came back over to our tent afterwards. He pretended to go to sleep when I left, but was awake with a raging hard on when I returned. (I always insisted the gentleman in question cum outside my body; as he is very popular with all the ladies. ALL of them.) My husband seemed vaguely disappointed to find I just tasted like me. I realized that he seemed turned on by the whole thing, and was just confused. I ended up carrying out the whole thing in full view of our friends, who could not for the life of them figure out why I was SO MEAN to him to do that! And they could not figure out why he seemed so....serene....the lover was a small man with a small penis....very very good with it.....and they couldn't figure out why I would cuckhold my husband with an enormous penis for this guy. They kept warning him he was going to wake up dead some morning. He did't ever seem really worried about it, he and my hubby would drink and talk together sometimes, and help put up and tear down eachother's tents.

They're still scratching their heads. We plan on having much more fun this summer, but I figured it's probably time to let them in on the secret. There are enough alternative lifestylers in our friends to get a bit of understanding.

Have you ever "come out" about this to friends?
 
Loveslife - you need to prove to us all that your "words match your submissive actions". Please purchase a wide range of sexy, frilly panties and post photos showing you modelling them for us all. May the Bulls enjoy you sucking them off.
 
If I had a new girlfriend or if I remarried, I'd love to have my friends and her friends know that she was fucking other men. I'd love her to tell her girlfriends that I had a tiny dick (so untrue) and that I was a lousy lover (I'm not). I'd want her friends to lie for her, as in cover for her by saying she stayed at thir house when she actually went with and fucked a stranger all night long.

I've told friends that I did mfm threesomes with C., and how I loved to watch me fuck her. It's delicious to know they think I'm weak, and that my girl need to find other, real, men to fuck her.

I'd want her to go on "girls night out" and be a real slut, always picking up a guy. I'd want her to tell her friends how I lick unknowingly her lovers cum when she finally goes home. Of course, I'd know all about it and encourage her to fuck anyone she wants to, to fuck any attractive man who wants her, and to tease me and deny men as she masterbates as she talks of other men.

But yes, for many reasons, I'd want you to tell our friends, tell them I'm a lousy lover. I'd want your lovers to think I don't know about your sexual adventures, and that you're cheating. I'd also want you to fuck guys and not tell me until later, or much later, or never.
 
Hi Valkyrie - just checked out your profile pic... very mischievous grin :D

Unlike your husband's massive equipment, I'm a 'decent average' - and I'd love to help you torment him by having him tied by those well-abused balls and watching as I play with, probe, and plunder your body.

I'd tell him how fantastically your body is responding to me, and how after I've had my first spurt I will use his mouth and tongue to get me hard again while you decide if you're going to pleasure him or punish him for his 'attention' during the show.

Since your from a BDSM relationship background, you might well have stronger levels of teasing and punishment the those of a more vanilla or 'swinger' background might think of. Vibrating dildo 'perches' for him to crouch on while watching you have fun, or pin-lined cock sheaths to punish his erection at watching me (ooops - sorry) a Bull banging you senseless.

Hope to see some photos of the pair of you in your threads, and to hear more about your adventures :)
 
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I can write, but can't proofread :(

I'd had several glasses of wine before I posted the above message last nights. I need to proofread. Sigh. Some of my mistakes were confucing, and are corrected below.

loveslife2005@yahoo.com said:
I'd want her friends to lie for her, as in cover for her by saying she stayed at thir house when she actually went with another man and fucked a stranger all night long.

I've told friends that I did mfm threesomes with C., and how I loved to watch men fuck her. It's delicious to know they think I'm weak, and that my girl needs to find real men to fuck her.

I'd want her to tell her friends how I unknowingly lick her lovers cum from her when she finally comes home. Of course, I'd know all about it and encourage her to fuck anyone she wants to, to fuck any attractive man who wants her, and want her to tease me and deny me as she masterbates and talks of other men.
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Creative Humiliation

Size isn't the only criteria. My first wife used to say, "Some cocks are good for fucking and some are good for sucking." There are many other comparisons or comments you can make.
Examples:
I really like how I can comfortably swallow it down to his pubic hair.
It never hurts, I only feels good.
I really love how perfectly it's shaped.
I love how straight it is. or
The way it curves hits me just right.
I like how much harder he gets than you do.
The way his entire body shudders when he comes is amazing.
He's a better kisser than you are.
His cum tastes better.

My point is that you can use whatever is different. Play up anything you like that's different from hubby. Hubby can't change what he has.

I would never want my wife to make up something that isn't true. If what she says isn't true, it can't be effectively used to tease and humiliate me because it doesn't create any doubt in my mind?
 
Valkyrie I love your posts; being a slave to my wife and her lover while I am subjected to pain, humiliation and cuckoldry is my primary fantasy. However, my sex life involves the S/M, but not the adultery. I have one fantasy that I would like you to try; let us know how well it works or if it works. You force your husband to lay on his back. You lay on top of him on your back with your crotch up against his chin, and your lover has sex with you in this position. Your husband has a ****** ring-side seat to the most intimate part of the action, but nothing else. Afterwards you sit up and force your husband to eat your pussy. I look forward to hearing from you on this form of humiliation.

Also, have you ever used a vampire glove? That is a glove or mitt with flathead-thumbtacks sticking out of the palm and fingers. While you make love to your husband in the normal way the glove is causing considerable pain to him. It is useful if there are children in the house as it is silent as long as the victim can keep his mouth shut. Good luck and I look forward to reading your posts.
 
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Actually, that's right about what we have planned now! It will likely take a few weeks to schedule and pull off, but I can't wait! There have been several very acceptable gentlemen who have contacted me. I'll fill you in about it afterwards. I firmly believe size isn't everything; and thanks for the lovely suggestions. Actually I find a penis where the diameter of the swollen head is significantly larger than the that of the shaft is most physically pleasing. His is rather more torpedo shaped. I'll have to remember to use that. He inquires about men with penises bigger than he is; I informed him that if we do; HE, not me, will accomodate the huge cock. That may, or may not, dissuede him....I find those right around average...like...5-7 inches, my very favorite. For fucking, that is, for any other purpose...I don't care how big or small it is if it is.....responsive....they can be SO much fun to play with!!

Vampire Gloves? I love them, so does he. We're real SHARP fans, knives, etc. I could simply run a whartonburg wheel around his wedding tackle; he can't stay still when I do that. Unless I make him, of course! I have been known to score insulting words into his body with a dagger. (the marks last a day or two, no blood drawn) I drew ***** across his chest the night before a big bdsm party where lots of people could see him.

It would be interesting to invest in a steel cock cage, as well!

Hmmm...and I think I might carve "cuck" on his chest the next time we're out...
 
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You sound like a man after my own heart!!! Of course there would be a butt plug involved, but I hate to dissuede him from having an erection....EVER....but it would be appropriate to prevent him from pleasuring himself.

I like to string him by the nipples from above, with a butt plug and stool below. If you get it set just right....he can either have the pressure on one end...or the other...relieved. But see, there he would be pleasuring himself again! Gotta keep those roaming hands secure.
 
:D From what I've read about you elsewhere, I'll have to appeal to you on a 'hormonal' level ;)

If you enjoy his erections - especially his frustrated ones - then I'd probably suggest a length of elasticated cord looping OVER whatever his nipples are attached to. One end of the cord tied to his handcuffs (about a foot above eye-level) and the other end of the cord tied round his balls. If he tries to bring his hands down to touch himself..... well, you get the picture :cool:

In one story I wrote I had such a cord from the cuckolds balls, up across by back and connected to his wife's slave collar (I'd just collared her earlier in the story). This meant that he could feel every thrust as I gradually drove her up the bed. :D

Where do you go 'partying'? BDSM wise, that is.
 
I like that idea! Everybody here is so helpful!

We have been to TES functions in NYC, to Paddles, to the Tannery in Phila, to The Edge, Club DeSade and Crucible in DC. We were at most of the ones in Balt at one time or another before they closed. We met, and married at The Phoenix Society.
I work weekends, and not much during the week, so we're going to try to set up some weekdays.

I also like the idea of the cord from his balls to her coller. Very creative! I'm not the most submissive woman in the world, but if I can get a good beating out of it....*grin*
 
Valkyrie, set the rules that suit you best - based on the desires that have not been met by either of you in your swinging days. Your hubby can be "bull fodder" and they will know what needs to be done to him. Follow your cravings, get every itch scratched.
 
big cock

I too have a big cock but the humiliation is there even if her lover is smaller than me.

A. He is getting fucked and im not;
B. I am wearing 'sissy' panties;
C. I'm the one pouring drinks and using the term 'sir' and mistress;
D. He can pump her for hours whilst I last minutes.

Isn't that humiliating enough. I love the idea of a woman lying on top of the guy whilst getting laid - gonna try that one next time!

Cu all - cris x
 
Well he's gotten me all ready, shaved my pussy bare, all the way up, down and around. He used a trimmer to take it down to a workable length, and then razors and foam. Smooth as a baby's ass...pretty enough to share! Hopefully we will meet with a gentleman this week...I have two days off and I'm going to try to catch one of them. I found a real hunk of man I can't wait to fuck. Oh, AND I found some of the nicest sissy gear; a peekaboo bra and crotchless panties, blue with black lace trim. Now he has a brand new outfit to wear for our gentleman caller!

We figured it would be better to meet at a hotel than to bring someone in, the house is always just a little too cluttered, the bedroom is a sight. Rather than worry about housekeeping, I'd rather pay attention to the game!
 
You are too cute! *grin* Gots ta get a working camera. I DO have a lunch date for tomorrow! Told hubby about it tonight. Wish me luck!
 
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